How Do I Know?

I am 21 years old and I am what you might call, bi curious. I have only admitted that I was questioning my own sexuality to one person, and it was someone I didn’t know. This is the second time I am admitting it. A question I really want to ask you guys is this. How do I know if I’m gay. Here are my symptoms:

1) I enjoy anal stimulation from my girlfriend and from myself

2) I jerk off to gay porn, but only bondage or kinky stuff.

3) I have fantasized about being pleased by other males that I know in real life, or males that I dont know..

I think my family and friends might know i’m gay, but I can’t admit it and the fact that they MIGHT know makes me lose my breath…I find it humiliating…I need someone to talk to about this, hopefully someone who has been in the same situation or something close to it please leave a message. Thank you for running this site !

A.Non

I had the same struggles as a young man and had a lot of guilt and shame because of society pressure. I couldn’t stop being with other men once I had been with another man. My true happiness and fulfillment came once I accepted it and embraced my homosexuality. Be true to yourself and not conform to false ideas of heterosexual lifestyle.

Tyler

11 Replies to “How Do I Know?”

  1. All the reply’s here are excellent. If you enjoy sex with your wife or other women, take it, it’s what you enjoy and makes you content. Sex with men is so different than with women. Men know what another man wants and enjoys. These comments also remind me of my life. I knew at a single digit age they attracted me. I started having sexual encounters with men when I was in High School. I’ve had many enjoyable moments. I married, have children, and no one knows my man’s side of the coin. They don’t need to. I like it that way. I am now a young 84 and would love to have another encounter. I still get it up. It’s no big deal.

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