Penis Size And Masculinity

A study has been released by researchers at Holland’s Utrecht University that suggests a man’s penis size is key to his masculinity, and most often his favourite body part. 251 men with an average age of 29 were surveyed by psychological researchers. “Our study reveals how men see their penis has considerable influence on how … Read morePenis Size And Masculinity

Size & Desire: It’s Girth Not Length By Dillon Toyne

It’s a fact that the average sized penis is approximately 6.5”- 7.0” long, so why do men pander after owning a whopper, isn’t a Mini just as smart, if not smarter than an Cadilac?

If you ask most men does size matter, you’ll probably get a response like, “Its not the size, its what you do with it that counts” or, “it’s the girth you should be interested in baby, not the length.” While both are honest replies, these sorts of response, to an obviously probing question, highlights the uncomfortable relationship between a man’s brain and his penis. Dare it be said, the very essence and centre of his masculinity is being put on the spot here! The reality when it comes to driving big motors is that most women prefer the cute and nifty Mini to the understated grandiosity of the Caddy In today’s fair and equal society you would assume that gay men would have the same regard for big’uns as their heterosexual sisters, nice to look at but you wouldn’t want to ride one. However, many a gay lad is known to be fond of the tag XXXL often extending a warm welcome to “the newest and biggest boys in the girls’ class”.

To those particular big boys: listen up, finding an adequate parking spot amongst the twinks, muscle marys and boyish babes hanging out in Soho is gonna be, trust me, not that easy. Boys and girls, it ain’t “big is best” it’s, “how snug is my red-hot motor gonna feel in your parking slot?”

So read on and learn that big is often a drawback not an advantage, it can so often wreck a perfectly good relationship-if you’ll pardon the unintended pun-by coming between two people. It’s not my intention to talk about why big boys are so sort after and admired by women and men alike, rather I’m more interested in the problems big lads face in their day to day lives. For example, how does a big guy who’s over thirty maintain his erection for any decent length of time without the aid of some diamond-shaped chemical stimulant? Think about it, a big dick needs more blood than a small dick; any problems with circulation and you’re straight down the doctor for some jolly blue Viagra. Then there is the problem of only being able to put the tip of your stick, into the mud, because the puddle ain’t as deep you first thought.

Being big is a problem for many men who measure up beyond the average mark, so think long and hard you small guys about wanting to play with the bigger boys. Whether making a frontal assault or one on the rear, big boys don’t always have it so easy.

Someone once told me that if I had 5 inches I’d be a very different person, and although I think this person was trying to have a go at me I do think they were probably right, but not having 5 inches I cannot be 100% sure. Yes being above average does offer a degree of self-confidence that those who were at the back of the queue for willies, I suspect lack. But don’t be fooled, being big brings with it serious problems.

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For women its breasts that are the issue, some women will attempt breast augmentation to ease their sense of inadequacy, but having done so these same women often find they have made an error in their beautification process, and so later request reductive surgery note Jordan a.k.a. Katie Price or is that Andre? Equally some men have sort the skills of the surgeon to enhance their own standing in the arena of love. But have these guys ever thought how embarrassing it can be when you are walking down the street, dressed in a pair of loose fitting boxers underneath those baggy jeans, and you get a stiffy? You can’t hide such things when you are well endowed, well not as easily as those with smaller dicks. I was reliably informed once, by an East London prostitute who has many years of experience in the SM scene, that “those you’d say were well endowed expect to get their cocks abused… why? Cos its so big.” When I asked what was meant by “abuse their cock” I was given a long list of punishments beginning with spanking and gentle whipping, progressing on to, “the insertion into the client’s urethra of several graduated, sounds or metal rods” and sometimes ending with the “piercing ritual”, ouch! There is of course always the advantage that being hung like a horse means you can push the shopping cart while not actually being near the thing, but that should only be a party trick, performed amongst the very closest of friends and never in public.

I am a first-hand witness to the dreadful consequences such bravado can have upon a couple and wiser for the experience. Ever since my ex stormed out of the local mini-market, announcing to the shocked onlookers that I was not her boyfriend, but some stalking pervert with a thing about grocery shopping, I have carried a basket rather than push a cart around the aisles of the out-of-town Safeways.

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Three months after the incident with the shopping cart I heard my ex shout back at me, as she walked through passport control on her way to a new life, “It was all those f***ing afternoons I came home from work to find you watching that queer guy on Supermarket Sweep that convinced me we weren’t compatible.” Finally, to all you guys still reading, ask yourself this, if you were/are a big lad, how’d you know your partner is interested in you, maybe its just what you keep hidden in your pants that keeps them sweet? I have asked myself this question every time I chat somebody up and I am forever coming up with the same unreliable answer, “Its my mind they are interested in not my dick”. Then something happens once too often; as you kiss last-night’s conquest goodbye you are given a phone number, which later when you call it you are greeted with those immortal words “Can I take your order please sir?” Its then you realise the girls and or boys are only interested in what’s down your pants. Eventually you find yourself surfing the Internet for anything on “cheap rate penile reduction surgery”.  Of course you will always get those who are envious of another man’s endowment, but they are the deluded ones, the hypocrites. While feebly dismissing the significance of size, they secretly hanker for that 3” diameter vac pump.

Which leaves just one last thing to say, come on people give the big guy a break, its hard enough as it is being big, but having to live up to everyone’s great expectations only adds to the pressures of being the “the boy with most to offer”.

Size & Desire: It’s Girth Not Length  By Dillon Toyne

a lustful agreement

This is all very intellectual and brain driven and very little attention given to the libido with its own selection of responses to various stimuli. I have found in my lifetime that the more I profess confusion and fight being categorised the less pleasure I get from my sex. If both your brain and your penis come to … Read morea lustful agreement

How a Man cured his stuffy nose by Wanking

A man claimed that wanking to ejaculation cleared his sinuses – and doctors said he was right. An American Wanker from Arizona, said that when he couldn’t fall asleep due to his stuffy nose, he decided to take matters into his own hands. He appeared on the show The Doctors where the professionals broke down … Read moreHow a Man cured his stuffy nose by Wanking

86.33% of men are growers rather than showers

In one study of 80 dicks n dudes, researchers found that the size of a man’s soft cock and its full erect length increases from flaccid to erect lengths ranged from less than a quarter-inch to 3.5 inches longer. Whatever the clinical significance of these data may be, the locker-room significance is considerable.

You can’t assume that the bloke with a big, flabby cock gets much bigger with an erection And the blokes whose penis cocks looks tiny might get a surprisingly big erection. An analysis of more than a thousand measurements taken by sex researcher Alfred Kinsey shows that shorter flaccid penises tend to gain about twice as much length as longer flaccid penises. A penis that doesn’t gain much length with an erection has become known as a “show-er,” and a penis that gains a lot is said to be a “grower.” These are not medical terms, and there aren’t scientifically established thresholds for what’s a show-er or a grower. Kinsey’s data suggest that most penises aren’t extreme show-ers or growers. About 12% of penises gained one-third or less of their total length with an erection, and about 7% doubled in length when erect.

mushroom-shaped penis heads that are full, big and plump

I’m obsessed with mushroom-shaped penis heads that are full, big and plump, but only on circumcised penises. I’m talking the kind of head where it has a very distinctive pronounced deep ridge completely around it and the top of the head is fully extended over the end of the man’s penis shaft; as opposed to … Read moremushroom-shaped penis heads that are full, big and plump

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Men care more what their mates think of their cock than their partner. The University of Victoria in Australia carried out a survey on 738  men. 

The study found majority were happy with their cock size in the bedroom, but most still felt insecure when comparing their manhood to other males. Victoria University Doctorate of Clinical Psychology graduate Dr. Annabel Chan Feng Yi carried out an online study of 738 men about their body image. She found most of the men, aged between 18 and 76, were insecure about their weight, build, and even their penis size. But instead of being concerned over what their girlfriends may think of their physique, many admitted it mattered most what their friends thought.

Dr. Chan said: ‘Men’s pre-occupation with size was rarely to do with pleasing sexual partners or even appearing as a better sexual partner. ‘It was often more about competition with other men.

Many felt most insecure about their size in environments where other men might see them, such as gym change rooms.’ She said those who suffered from ‘locker room syndrome’ were actually content with their size when it came to sexual matters with their partner. But a desire to compete against other males led to an obsession with body building and being muscular – especially among homosexual men who were surveyed.

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She continued: ‘The research demonstrates that societal pressures on body image are certainly not unique to women and that while men share similar body image concerns they often don’t have the appropriate forum to discuss them or adequate professional support to deal with them. ‘There is clearly a need to provide more research-based training for clinicians working in this field and public awareness to de-mystify and de-stigmatising the topic of male body image.’ But while men don’t seem to put too much emphasis on what their partners think of penis size, recent research shows it is still very important to the 21st Century woman. Women were shown several images of the male form with varying combinations of height, shoulder-to-body ratio and, of course, penis length.

Women were then asked to rate the attractiveness of each man – with penis size ending up the most influential factor, according to the research published in the journal Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences (PNAS) earlier this year. Researchers at the University of Ottawa, Canada, found that while women’s opinions were influenced by a variety of physical features – tall and broad-shouldered men tended to be favoured over shorter men with bigger waistlines – the size of a man’s penis reigned supreme in the attractiveness stakes.

is it safe to use a cock pump?

HI Seb, I just bought cock pump and just arrived yesterday. I bought the one for the beginner, my questions are:
– is it safe to use cock pump?
– will it damage the tissue and the blood vessel on my cock?,
– does it really would make my cock bigger? or perhaps slightly bigger??

Thanks Seb, sorry for the silly questions.

Hello M8, it’s actually a really good question. Here in the Uk cock pumps are still prescribed by the National Health Service as a treatment for some men with erectile dysfunction. So I am assuming the are safe for most men to use. The NHS claim that after using a vacuum pump, nine out of 10 men are able to have sex, regardless of the cause of their ED. This makes them more successful than viagra in the treatment of ED.

Make sure you buy a good quality pump with a release valve. Before you pump spend about 10 minutes massaging your cock with lots of coconut oil. Bring your self to erection, and then let your cock go flaccid and put it inside, and pump until there is a seal. Respect your cock, if you over pump you could cause injury. When you are finished your session wash your cock with really cold water, and then warm water. Finally massage a tablespoon of natural honey into your cock and let it hang to dry. According to Professor Kevan Wylie, a consultant in sexual medicine at the University of Sheffield, “There is very little evidence that these devices cause any significant long-term gain in size. Which means that there is some eveidence that they do make your cock bigger. Do your own research, let me know how you get on. Happy pumpingMr Cox

I remember seeing the “Penis Pump” advertised all over in print publications and later on the internet several years back. What was never included in the advertising, was the fact that once the blood receptacles in the penis have been enlarged by applying suction to draw extra blood into the lesser volume they began with, they don’t shrink back as the original vessels did, to reveal a flaccid penis. The elasticity of the vessels is destroyed by the suction and the once distended penis tends to appear swollen when not aroused and refuses to stand on it’s own to assist entry into the rather tight places where it gives pleasure and does its God given function. If you just want a “large, heavy” penis, one that doesn’t do anything else, use that “Penis Pump”. If you want it to be perky, and capable of standing on its own, rising and falling on your emotions, the “Pump” will do the opposite, and you’ll be the loser… RobtheElder

52 healthy young males

According to Greek scientists, the length of a man’s index finger can accurately predict the length of his penis. The findings are published in the September issue of the journal Urology. Dr. Evangelos Spyropoulos and colleagues from the Naval and Veterans Hospital of Athens, Greece say they conducted their investigation to gather more information on the relationship between body measurements and male genitalia size. They argue that such information–as well as a clearer definition of “normal penile size”–will help doctors counsel and treat the many men who are concerned about perceived inadequacies relating to their genitals.

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The “lack of standardized metric data and the absence of widely acceptable criteria on the proper size of the external genitalia poses major difficulties in the counseling and/or treatment of young adult men with worries of sexual inadequacy,” the authors write.

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In their study, Spyropoulos and colleagues measured penile length and testicular volume in 52 healthy young males between the ages of 19 and 38 and compared them with other body measurements including height, weight, body mass index, index finger length and waist/hip ratio. In lieu of measuring a man’s erect penis, the team measured the flaccid, gently stretched penis, which they note is statistically correlated to erect penis length.

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Age and (body measurements) were not associated with the size of the genitalia, excluding the index finger length, which correlated significantly with the dimensions of the flaccid, maximally stretched, penis,” the report indicates.

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“We realize that the study population was relatively inadequate and suggest that a greater scale study with a significantly larger number of subjects is needed to confirm the observations, particularly the demonstrated trend of penile length with index finger length,” Spyropoulos and colleagues conclude.

SOURCE: Urology 2002;60:485-491.

Bigger dick = less need to work out

I agree with the study & I want to add my own idea’s from my own “experiments” It seems to me that it’s accurate about gay men’s feelings about their penis size in relation to masculinity, the bigger the better. They are very happy with anything it seems as long as the people they want to know, knows that they have a big cock. So, a group of gay men, with large dicks would consider themselves quite complete. However, guys who don’t measure up seems to hit the gym..all the time..they use their bodies as their measure of masculinity, ie: the men who work out and work toward the perfect male form do so because they lack somewhat between the legs. Now, this is very much un-scientific & I’d bet many men who work out also are hung well. I’m sure I’m wrong to a large dergee with my previous statement, it is just an observation I’ve made. Bigger dick=less need to work out, self esteem is more equalized by the dick… Whatever.. I feel dumb saying this now, but what the heck. John

u should workout regardless, even if just for the health benefits. there’s also a bonus inc of testosterone on itself. but irl no-one really wants to fuck a scrawny bastard. if i wanted to fuck a perennial looking prepubescence femboy, i’d might as well fuck a real woman1 but to answer ur question; simple, bigger penis = more pleasure and fun 4u&ur partners111 a more to luv kind of thingie. but srsly, penis size is mostly genetically determined. u’d hav to be on steriods; or suffering some sort of abnormality; in order for it’s size to be affected significally. and even then, ur body’d try to compensate accordingly. creating a mean size of 5″ and var of 2″. otherwise we wouldn’t be able to reproduce properly. hence it’s moar important to hav a working set of testicles, imho. although i can see the arg, since the events are interrelated. primary, secondary sexual chars, and mutations; bio&logic 101…

which country boasts the biggest average penis size?

1 Congo (Braz) 17.93 11 2 Ecuador 17.11 6.736 3 Congo (DRC) 17.33 6.823 4 Ghana 17.31 6.815 5 Colombia 17.03 6.705 6 Venezuela 17.03 6.705 7 Lebanon 16.82 6.622 8 Cameroon 16.67 6.563 9 Iceland 16.51 6.500 10 Sudan 16.47 6.484 11 Jamaica 16.30 6.417 12 Panama 16.27 6.406 13 Nicaragua 16.26 6.402 14 … Read morewhich country boasts the biggest average penis size?

Some Men Have a Small Dick, Get Over It

Alright, albright, I’m not going to lie any more. I’m putin it out der, I have a small penis. So what. I’ve had a girlfriend for a long time. Who gives a shit. I fucking don’t. As Elton John said to Putin, Some Men Have a Small dick Get Over It!

Often men have different attributes! One guy might have a small cock but a very muscular body. Another might be really hairy with a hairy back. There is a market for everyone, I think! Don’t be afraid if your penis is smaller than average. I bet you guys get quite big when erect and then your penis becomes the same size as all the other guys anyway! Hugs to all you guys! I love you no matter what size your cock is! Anon

Homophobic Bishop Offers Penis Massage Rituals

A Bishop in Ghana who is well known for his homophobia claims to be able to increase the size of a man’s penis using a ‘massage ritual’. Bishop Daniel Obinim says he utilizes the ‘energy of God’ for his hands-on enlargement service. In a video from the International God’s Way Church he moves down the … Read moreHomophobic Bishop Offers Penis Massage Rituals

Did the NHS really measured 15,000 penises?

Researchers at King’s College London and a London NHS trust have measured more than 15,000 men’s penises in an effort to find out what is “normal penis size”. They hoped the research would help address “the concern that some men have about their penis size” and aid people suffering from anxiety and distress. They revealed … Read moreDid the NHS really measured 15,000 penises?

Me and my penis: 100 men reveal all

This is a response to photographer Laura Dodsworth’s Me and my penis: 100 men reveal all(see photo above). It all looks a bit sad to be honest with you. It looks like the men are ashamed of their cocks. So I have decided to do my own exhibition. Mine is different to Dodsworths as it’s … Read moreMe and my penis: 100 men reveal all

maintain a healthy tool

To maintain a healthy tool, the penis needs to have erections regularly. Without regular erections, penile tissue can become less elastic and shrink, up to 1-2 centimeters. However, the brain has an “automatic penis maintenance” function. Brain impulses cause erections during REM sleep. For some men who are physically unable to have an erection, due … Read moremaintain a healthy tool