I am a 69 year old male who loves his wife. However, like others, we no longer have sex. She has some health issues that discourage her and take away her interest. I recently met a man on-line and talked about this with him as he also no longer has sex with his wife. We talked about meeting and how we would pleasure each other. It could have happened, but I backed out. I think I was wrong to do so, and wonder what I have missed. Both an opportunity for male friendship, and some sexual satisfaction. I masturbate, not regularly, and watch porn. But I want the physical touch of another person. Maybe I can find him again. Steve
“Very much in tune with the author. My wife no longer had any interest in sex – so I too moved on in the same direction. As a result I believe I found my true self.” David
I have found myself in a similar situation, and have searched in vain for that ‘special friend’ in exactly the same situation. Someone to trust, sincere, and open to honest conversation, for close naked encounters every five or six weeks or so, when time allowed, with no worries and fears. Always something to look forward to, and guaranteed mutual sexual relieve. Alas, it seems the many just want the brief casual encounter. – Anon
I agree with the sentiments expressed here and I too am in the same situation, I still love my wife but miss the intimacy of sexual expression. However, sustaining a long term relationship with a man would be very difficult> I have met with two discreet men and enjoyed both experiences. It’s not easy to reconcile.
I have found myself in a similar situation, and have searched in vain for that ‘special friend’ in exactly the same situation. Someone to trust, sincere, and open to honest conversation, for close naked encounters every five or six weeks or so, when time allowed, with no worries and fears. Always something to look forward to, and guaranteed mutual sexual relieve. Alas, it seems the many just want the brief casual encounter.