I am a happily married man of 55 years. My wife and I have three grown children. We no longer engage in intercourse or any kind of sex. It seems, looking back, after our third child, our sex faded away. I have always wanted to have a good sexual relationship but my wife never caught the bait. So be it. I moved on. One day I was leaving downtown Minneapolis; it started rain heavily. I ducked into a hotel bar and decided to just relax with a scotch and wait out the weather. I sat at the end which seated one around the corner place. A few minutes later, a gentleman looking about my age, came in and sat at the seat next to mine. We were in a 90 degree position to one another. The conversation was as if we had known each other all our lives. It was enjoyable. I had never had a male relationship so easily encountered. After a couple of drinks, he asked if I would like to go to his room and continue our conversation there. I agreed and as soon as we entered the room we looked at each other, put out or arms and melted. It was the most enjoyable sex I have ever had and I realized what I had been missing was men know how to have sex with men. He has since come to Mpls and each time we meet. I love it and I’ve learned, I’m a bottom. Oz
Oz, I am thrilled that you discovered this in yourself, but mourn that it took so many years. Like you I am happily married. I am now 67 and still have a great sex life with my wife. I have also lived a hidden bisexual life since I was 15, a part of my life that is extremely important to me, to my wellbeing and to myself a a “whole” being. For many years my work has occasionally had me traveling and there have been many meals and cocktails at hotel bars. There have been nights sitting alone as well as nights enjoying random conversations with fellow travellers, both male and female. I admit without blushing that those conversations sometimes resulted in a trip to someone’s room to share a sexual encounter, a night of lust. Amazingly those “one-night-stands” sometimes grew to a friendship or relationship of convenience and paths sometimes re-crossed. Those are blissful times. Other such nights ended in forgotten names after uncomfortable goodbyes. Those can be blissful as well, having served their purpose, we move on. Like you, I feel that men know how to please men better than women do. Also like you, I am a bottom, and I have come to genuinely feel that is my place, serving, giving pleasure, receiving a man into my eager mouth or wanting bottom and taking his living seed into me. There are a couple men who I have reconnected with on the road. There are some whose names are forgotten, but I walked away with the satisfaction that a living part of them came with me. – Joseph
Oz. I’m addicted to sex. I’ve been married nearly 20 years. We don’t have sex at all. I find my desire and comfort with a man. The age old married man syndrome I call it. I had real sex at 56. With a man. Never felt anything like it. Change me forever. So far as I’m concerned? Anal sex is the best thing that ever happened to me. Very hard to describe what a cock feels like inside you. But once you commit? There’s no turning back. Good luck. A. Non
To the wizard of Oz. That guy suitting on the edge of the pool. His dick is gorgeous. He’s built perfectly, curved upwards. The head would hit my prostate with ease. He makes me so hard just looking at his curve.
It is so nice to be able to chat with someone openly and honestly about my sexual desires! Most of us keep this bottled up inside our minds and pretend we don’t have these desires but I think all men do!
Love to hear more from you guys
Hi again Bill. Yes,I have those same feelings. We should meet, I feel like we were made for each other.
Thank you for this site! OMG I love it so…now all my cock sucking desires feel so normal.
It is nice to realize that lots of men think about and have tried sucking dick! It is the most erotic sexual activity I have ever participated in!
Hi Bill…Thank you for responding to me! I agree with you …licking the head of a nice penis, and then taking it into my mouth, my head moving in and out, slow at first, then faster and faster…burring my nose in his pubic hair while at the same time licking his balls until he cums in my mouth…and then gulping down his load is the high point of my life.
DAVID. Someone here hit the nail into the lid. Golden showers. I mentioned them myself. To make love to a man, Golden Showers are a must. It not only says freedom is important it also says “fuck the arse off me!” which is always the first choice for me. There are so many other things you can enjoy with your newly liberated man once he pisses on you too. Things a woman could never do. Anal sex is best by far. Love having it in me.
Greg,
You sound like a guy I’d like to get to know. Do you like sharing your past experiences? I find that do hot “ telling on myself!
Hi Bill…thank you for writing me! Yes, I LOVE talking about my adventures…once I was walking down the sidewalk when a man in an overcoat walked up to me and opened it. He was naked! I looked around and saw no one, but I I didn’t know if someone was near, so I pulled him like a pull toy to the alley. When we were alone I got down on mt knees and kissed the head of his cock. He must have been excited before we met because I felt a drop of his precum on my lips. It was so salty! I put my lips around his head and ran my tongue around it.[I’m shaking with excitement just recalling it!] I took his shaft into my mouth until my nose was tickled by his pubic hair. I pulled back out and ran my tongue down his shaft to his balls, which I took into my mouth. I felt him shudder, and i took his balls out of my mouth and I ran my tongue back up his cock to his pulsating head, which I took back into my mouth. I worked his head in and out of my mouth until he grabbed my head and mouth fucked me. My own cock was so hard too by this time that I came in my pants as he came in my mouth. I swollowed his cum and pulled his cock out. I saw a drip of cum on his tip so I licked it and took it down too. I’ve looked for him but haven’t seen him since. OMG I miss him! I hope you like what I’ve revealed to you, and hope to hear from [and see?] you soon.Love, Greg
I would like that Greg! Wouldn’t it be wild if we happened to be in the same area! Love to have a special friend who understands me!
Hi Bill…I hoped you would respond. I love seeing your name in my in box. I live about 30 miles from Chicago…I hope you are near me…please write me soon…love, Greg.
I am a 61 year old man in the uk and have been married for 30 years but for the last 5/6 years sex with my wife has become non existent much as I tried there was no way .
Years ago I had a second encounter with a guy that lived next door to me we had known each other for years going go the same school and hanging out Together .
One hot sunny day we decided to go down to the local woods when we got there no one was about we walked about for a while and ended up by a local farm land area that backed onto the woods my mate suggested we go in and just sit down .
We sat there chatting when he asked me about wanting and did I did I do it I said I didn’t although I had and he told me he did it all the time and loved it he suddenly knelt in front of me opened his jeans pulled them down to his knees then pulled down his trunks showing me his fat hairy cock and hanging balls he was smiling and said show me yours reluctantly I did the same and he said that I had a lovely cock he but his hand on it and started to play with it soon I got very hard and he said you must like that your cocks nice and stiff do the same to me soon we were both playing with our cocks he told me to lie down and he started to duck my cock his warm wet tongue licking it and using his hand to squeeze me balls he started to wank me and lick me after about 10 minutes I cum sending big jets of cum out over his face and in his mouth he licked and sucked it all up using his finger to wipe it off his face and eat it he said it was lovely and I did the same to him he was bigger than me and I struggled to take him all in my mouth but licked and sucked him stroking his balls he soon cum filling my mouth with what seemed like gallons of thick creamy spunk in my mouth making my choke some of it went on the ground he told me to swallow it it tasted very salty he said that I will soon learn how to take it all and over time we would engage in this act many times even me taking his big cock up my tight arse and me up him .
I have now started to see other men mainly older and enjoy our times together pleasing each other I enjoy pleasing a man and being their sex slave
Thank You Bob
Beautiful story Bob
Awesome experience. Definitely turns me on. Wow
Hi bob I’m Jimmy slim guy 64 5ft9 dark brown hair blue eyes vwe wld love to meet up with you x
Have you ever tried a 3 some. Now that is sex as it should be. The guy inside me makes me cum very quickly so I turn around for the second guy. I ask both guys to piss all over me too. Men get hard very quick when their is no restrictions.
Love this story Bob. I’m rubbing myself vigorously as I read it and my cock is throbbing. I take cock as often as I can although being married it’s not always easy. I love cum on me, facials especially. I’m in the SW UK and aged 72
That’s how I became interested in men. Though in my case, my wife had died some 4 years earlier. I didn’t think it could happen to me, but it did. He taught me a few things about life and one of them was never be alone. To cut a long story short, he fucked me one night and I never felt anything like it in my life. Though how he managed to get that monster inside me (10 inches) was a thing in itself but he eventually got it to fit and once the head had penetrated my sphincter, I opened up like a flower and enjoyed the sex. I’ve done it before twice with other men but not like this. 14 and 19 I was at that time. This was 38 years later and I was still grieving for my late wife. The grief vanished over night, I could not get enough of him once we’d done it that first time. Every time we met up my cock was hard, I mean so hard it threatened to split open. He fucked me quite a few times in the coming weeks before I was able to finally fuck him. He loved it. Couldn’t get enough of me then. The lead up to our first time was spectacular itself. See I never had oral either the way I did the first time. Ok. To understand what I am saying I have to explain my first time as a 14 year old. The guy I was with was in his middle 40‘s. He was a master of seduction. He seduced me enough to give me my first blow job. He did It beautifully too. Even when I told him I was cumming, he kept going until I exploded in his mouth. Then he drank it all. Didn’t spill a drop. I had had sex with one girl before him so when he blew me I was out of my mind with glee. I’d never experienced anything like it before. Fast forward now to my first time. I was swimming naked in his pool. We were both naked and both had strong erections, though not fully strong. I swam over to where he was resting, he gave me a beer, then relaxed, his cock getting stronger as I got closer to him. I followed instinct only and took him in my mouth. He began to relax and root my mouth. By this time I was fully erect, enjoying what I was doing. He began to groan softly, I could feel his orgasm rising as his cock began to throb wildly in my mouth. I braced myself for the coming orgasm and swallowed everything he shot in my mouth. I swallowed every drop. A man 38 years ago had done the same to me. I thought that’s what men do so I did the same. Spitting it out was not an option for me. I followed an instinct and swallowed and enjoyed it very much too. He rooted me about 2 days letter, enjoying those spectacular blow jobs I gave him. Needless to say, the sex we had was out of this world. To describe what it felt like when he finally entered me is near impossible. Sex with women was ok, but this? It showed me the meaning of perfection. He felt so bloody good inside me. My hole wanted more. We began to use condoms initially but soon started to wash out. Meaning clean our holes so we could enjoy the sex without the dirt. We got tested regularly for hiv as well. Perhaps it was the sex, the pleasure we both got I really don’t know, but we soon started bare backing each other. Flushing out was The key to our sex life. We had a very good sex life. But all thing come to end and he moved house about 3 months later. We tried to stay in touch but that proved to be very hard and eventually we simply stop seeing each other. Hard to keep a story short but basically you don’t forget moments like that. It changed me forever about men and women. Today? I much prefer men to women. Anal sex, from the day I discovered how good it was changed me forever. In the bum for me anytime.
Bob. Do you think it is easier to get hard for a man or a woman?
Welcome to your new adventure! I know you’ll love it so much…
Joseph and Oz,
I, too, am a male slut. As a bottom to two bulls, I like how they handle me, position me and how they build to their edge.
I love it when they shoot their loads in me.
I know!…Isn’t it wonderful to finally be accepted for what we really are?
Another man in a situation like many others. I’ve been married to my wife for 36 years, and we do still have enjoyable sex. It has taken some time for her to understand that once every week or two is not enough sex for me. She now accepts that I need to masturbate, but has this idea that masturbating to porn is somehow bad – of course this message is very strong is society and of course it is a harmful message. What she does not know, and would have a difficult time understanding, is that I only bate to gay porn. It has taken me some time to become fully accepting of my attraction to homosexuality – but I am there. I not only accept but embrace what is obviously true – there is no sexuality more masculine than homosexuality. This seems to be an undeniable fact, something more men should embrace!
I would love to shoot my load on you
Thank you for the advice I too have been married for 37 yyears and don’t know how to address any advice how to explain to my spouse
TO Phalluster….I like what you said about homosexuality. Says it all to me. I think of myself as GAY. I am married too but I’ve found anal sex far more pleasant and satisfying. Thanks for sharing that advice. Made my day.
Hi…thanks for writing me! I agree that we need sex more than you described. Does your wife know? Who knows…maybe she’d like to join in!
To Phalluster. She suspects. I have yet to find the right man for me. Try to keep it a secret is proving to be very hard. Finding the right man is the same. If yiu meant does she know I’m gay. Yes she does. A very long and complicated tale. Thank you so much for your reply. Means a lot to me.
Since I wrote this comment over a year ago my journey toward homosexuality has continued. I now think of myself as a homosexual man who has heterosexual sex with my wife. It’s a good place to be.
One of the great aspects of this site is its openness – men are finding it and finding that they are not alone. That there are many men learning to embrace their masculinity through masculine sexual connection – a Phallic Brotherhood. I encourage you to do a search for phallic brotherhood and you will find that there are sites that while not open allow more direct conversation between individuals. I’m on some of these sites with the same username – Phalluster.
To Phalluster. I will take your advice on board. Meaning I hear you loud and clear. I will give you an update when the chance permits? Are you committed to any one man? I’m available. Up to you.
Hi…no, I’m not committed to one man. I’m near Chicago. Please write me!
Dear Seb,
Love you and all that you do and this amazing site! Thank you.
What would I enjoy seeing more of? Hot male asses and holes; fit men 40s–70’s with great dicks and asses–they do not need to be studs; married men who find passion with guys; stories of middle aged men with men (not real short but not real long;) outdoors and public sex; maybe some famous men showing what they have. Thanks again!