I’ve heard it over a 1,000 times. it’s almost a shame you don’t know it, but you curious straight or bi guys are far more numerous than you’d think, and so is that fantasy you have. you know: the one that you’ve tossed up in your mind hundreds of times, but just haven’t had the balls to act upon it yet. Well don’t blame yourself; we live in a world that doesn’t allow people to be who they really are. society pressures you to conform, and to never experiment. most especially on those thoughts you’ve always had in the back of your mind. but it’s your life, and you only get to live it once. So why not live it to the fullest? When you’re alone with me, for once, you don’t have to let fear hold you back from doing what you’ve always wanted to try. even if you only do it just once, i can help you live that fantasy. you can rest assured knowing that with me,you will never be judged. I’m forever patient, and a perfect teacher – great at helping to put you at ease, as well. When you’re alone with me, for once, you don’t you don’t have to let fear hold you back from doing what you’ve always wanted to try. Even if you only do it just once, I can help you live that fantasy. You can rest assured knowing that with me, You will never be judged. I’m forever patient, and a perfect teacher. Great at helping to put you at ease as well. Anon
The whole idea of Homosexuality as a separate category is quite modern. This documentary from the 1980s explains what it was like in the 1930s before anyone even heard the term Homosexual.
The distinction of straight and gay are a manufactured concept. It’s always been more fluid – as are we. Let’s get back to those days
A great video. The industrial revolution saw country families flooding the city in the late 19th Century. Whereas once the family itself was a secure economic unit, now it relied on a single bread winner. Sexual “fidelity” became crucial to holding together the family unit, and a new breed of academic, psychologists, joined the church in making the family secure from the temptations of city life. Extra-marital affairs became hugely scandalous and dishonorable, and dalliances with men, once accepted as a legitimate sexual enjoyment, were branded as sick and beyond forgiveness. This carried well into the 20th Century and continues as part of the cultural story and a defining characteristic of the middle class, especially.
As the documentary points out, categories were overlaid on the richness of sexual experience and behavior. The “homosexual” was born, and laws could be written about those creatures and we could argue about their sexuality. We’re entering a period, thanks to social media, where the rigid definitions of sexuality are dissolving and men are expressing, and living, their truths.
Thank You Gentle Men
Another question is, straight guys want their friendships to evolve into sexual relationships. When we’re single, we can share a lucky lady as well.
Most straight guys aren’t there yet. I only was because different culture, LGBT rights is a major plank of indigenous nationalIsm, etc. (Strangely, the more toxic elements of mainstream gay culture hit us worse.) I would say our children’s generation are there, or their children will be. Not that we can’t move the hands forward.
THANKS FOR YOUR NOTE. JON, I AGREE WITH YOU.
AS A MATURE GAY, QUITE WELL HUNG, UNCUT GUY, I HAVE BEEN EYED AND EVEN FONDLED BY SEVERAL “straight” GOOD LOOKERS IN MY GYM. IT IS SO EROTIC AND WONDERFUL TO HAVE THESE MEMORIES FOR MY BATE SESSIONS AT HOME LATER. I AM A CHRONIC BATOR. ONE, STRAIGHT, HUNG. UNCUT, JAMAICAN TRAINER ALWAYS SHOWED HIS HUGE COCK TO ME AN HE SAW ME BATE ONCE.
MY COCK BELOW… DOUG
what a beauty
I have only ventured into this man world in recent years. I grew in a household with conservative and religious family and remained conservative until I had a dream one night a few years ago that came right out of the blue. I dreamed that I was undressing in front of a friend by his request. He had his hand in his shorts as I slowly divested my clothes and I realized I was getting hard and whilst I was nervous I kept shedding the clothes.
I could tell you more of the dream but I don’t want to be boring but suffice to say I woke suddenly with the hardest erection I had had in my life. I was disturbed that I could have such dream but since that night I have taken my exploration of my maleness a whole lot further, As a married man who still loves his wife, I have had to take a cautious approach. My relationship with male sexuality has deepened and I have had three kind men who each in their way introduced me to the delights man to man sexual pleasure.
Been an anonymous follower of your site since stumbling on it about a year ago. It has helped me to recenter my sexual self. I’m masturbating like a 16 year old again and look forward to your restored web site. My hapenis needs this site.
I started my journey in m2m sex when I was young, and he was much older. I regret nothing. I was curious about taking a hard cock into my mouth and he was wise enough to sense it, wise enough to bring up the subject gently, in a caring and nonthreatening manner. He was already known to me, a friend and a mentor and he had my trust, so it was natural for me that he would have my mouth, and after my first taste I knew this is where I belonged, on my knees pleasing another man. The taboo beginnings were exquisite, learning at the hands of this passionate and caring teacher. He went on to lead me to other young men like myself, and to older men who collectively gave me all I would need to grow as a willing, loving cocksucker. I love that title and wear it proudly. There were experiences with threesomes, moresomes, with virgins, and with older married men who loved to host me in their car, under their desk, or in their bed when their wives were away. It was all good, all hot, all delicious and all about me serving. Deep passionate kisses in many cases, caressing, exploring.
There were women too, lots of them, and I have lived a very outwardly straight life. I married, fathered children, was a pillar of my church and a respected leader in my professional life. Little did they all know that in private I am submissive cocksucker, hungry for seaman, longing to please. I am now in my mid 60s, still married and still bisexually active. Over the years I tried anal as well and and came to love that feminizing act of taking a trusted friend into my channel and allowing him to breed me, though I admit missing the chance to devour his cum. I have a tight, trusted, small group of men who I meet and serve regularly. Many times one-on-one but often groups of three or four of us. sometimes one might bring a friend along. A new cock is always welcome. I am the center of attention for their hard cocks and they know that I will always strive to please, no matter which hole they choose. That is my place, my designed use. Yes sir, no sir, please sir, and they still respect me. Through the years I have even seduced a couple of my good straight friends into feeding me their beautiful cocks. Maybe it was under the guise of us having had a couple too many drinks. Maybe it was just once, but with one man, that sexy “mistake” happened more than once. No one ever spoke a word. I love those secrets.
I am bisexual and that is okay. I am submissive, and that is bliss. Enjoy who you are, men, no matter when you come to realize who you are, what you are, enjoy it, embrace it.
Thank You Joseph
You are most welcome, my friend.
So pleased I found you and reading your brief summary of being taught my a caring man the joys of sucking and worshipping cock. My first time sucking cock was amazing and so natural for me. He saw my potential as a young lad and must have noticed the hunger in my eyes to service hard throbbing man cock. Jumped into his car and a short drive then parking. Soon as I saw his full member revealed as he opened his pants my eyes fixated on his gorgeous cock I knew I wanted to taste it and make love to his glorious cock. I continue to desire to worship cock whenever possible.
Joseph
What a beautiful testimony.
You are a source of inspiration for us bi-married men.
Thanks
John
We’re in the same world, Joseph, except that you had the good fortune to be seen and allowed “to grow as a willing, loving cocksucker” decades before I was able to get onto my knees to pleasure a man. I’ve had a successful sexual life with women, and also have been “a pillar of my church and a respected leader in my professional life”. “Little do they all know that in private I am submissive cocksucker, hungry for seaman, longing to please.”
It’s so gratifying to be able to quoted your words directly, as my own. “I have a tight, trusted, small group of men who I meet and serve regularly….I love those secrets. I am bisexual and that is okay. I am submissive, and that is bliss. Enjoy who you are, men, no matter when you come to realize who you are, what you are, enjoy it, embrace it.” I would only add that, although all things have their season, we can plant seeds early, and with a little water, the flowers will bloom.
I’m grateful to men who, in my youth, pointed the way; even though I didn’t take it then, I remembered them years later. Don’t hesitate.
Well said.
I’ve noticed the male interplay/becoming freer and ABSOLUTELY love it!
More men need to hear they that are perfect exactly as they are.
That us men were born with everything we will need in life.
Men ARE Gods Mr Cox. I greatly appreciate that from you, and thank you for everything you do.