When I am horny, thinking about eating my own cum turns me on, but when I cum I lose the nerve. Why is that?
What you’re experiencing is actually pretty common and can be explained by something known as the “post-orgasmic shift” or “post-nut clarity.” When you’re aroused, your brain is flooded with dopamine and other pleasure-inducing chemicals, which can lead to heightened desires and fantasies, such as the idea of eating your own semen. This state of arousal can make almost any sexual thought seem incredibly appealing, even if it’s something you might not consider outside of that moment. Once you orgasm, however, your brain chemistry changes dramatically. Dopamine levels drop, and your body releases prolactin, a hormone that promotes relaxation and reduces sexual desire. This often results in a sudden shift in your mindset, leading to what you described as “losing the nerve.” It’s like flipping a switch from being totally into an idea to feeling uninterested or even repulsed by it after the fact. Many men experience this same Post-Nut Clarity in their feelings, whether it’s about eating semen or other fantasies that feel less appealing after ejaculation occurs.
Can you edge? If you can edge to the point of a mini-ejac then you will still be horny and eager to taste your cum. I find that the initial little spurt seems to taste a little sweeter than the full load. Also helpful is freshly brushed teeth – something about that seems to make the semen sweeter too. Once you have tasted that initial spurt, hopefully it will overcum any inhibition about consuming your own load, and you will be able to fully savour the wonderful taste and feeling of your own cum in your mouth. If you’re limber, you can try throwing your legs back over your head so that you can ejaculate directly into your mouth – I loved to do this in my younger days. That way you are enjoying your cum as you are cumming, so there’s no inhibition to deal with. Then get out and meet one of the many men who are more than eager to make a sperm donation to a willing mouth. Enjoy! – Amar Rama
My post nut clarity is mainly on the amount of porn and type of porn I’ve watched cos I can go down a rabbit hole but never clarity around eating my own cum. Im usually tasting my precum as I edge or have shot my load directly into my mouth so there’s no guilt.
I love eating my own cum and won’t stop soon
Yeah it’s pretty common to lose the craving for cum right after orgasm.
I have a few work-arounds. As you’re about to cum, start using both hands. When the first spurt cums out, catch it and quickly lick it off, and then the next etc. The trick to lap up that nut while you’re still orgasming. Towards the end you’ll feel less inclined, but while you’re cumming tasting that seed might intensify the feeling.
Of course, the best way to feast on cum is to recieve it from another man. Post-nut-clarity not applicable! And at least in my case, I’m as eager to feel him explode in my mouth after I shot my load as I was before doing so. The best way tho, is to do a sync-69 cum, where you both nut in each other mouth at the same time.