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  1. That was an amazing read and my life basically like so many others. Thanks for this reassurance and video for the viewing soul as well.
    I’m a bi married man married 38 years, I’m 58 years old and I feel my urges are great. Not for sex with a man per say, but for the touch, the friendship, the “reassurance” and validity to my life.
    That this is okay and “NORMAL”.
    I’m not an outcast nor is any gay man. We are merely living and breathing and enjoying the creation that is man.

    Nice to see the site back up and better than ever.

    Forever grateful,
    Eric

    1. Just to help out others, here are a few of me. Faceless of course because of my married bi status, but SAFE in this environment surrounded by all you.

  2. I’ve always enjoyed seeing dudes checking out my equipment in the locker room. My thick dick and heavy hairy balls fill out a jock to overflowing sometimes LOL.
    Men are like peacocks gentleman. We check each other out. Its one of the things we do as men.
    I thick men appreciating another dude’s meat and wanting to see things in action is natural.
    Interesting that some of what we were all taught to avoid turns out to be required for our physical and emotional health as men. This includes checking each other out.
    Keep rockin on Mr Seb Cox! We aren’t going anywhere are we fellas? You are all amazing and devine as men.

  3. Another question is, straight guys want their friendships to evolve into sexual relationships. When we’re single, we can share a lucky lady as well.

    Most straight guys aren’t there yet. I only was because different culture, LGBT rights is a major plank of indigenous nationalIsm, etc. (Strangely, the more toxic elements of mainstream gay culture hit us worse.) I would say our children’s generation are there, or their children will be. Not that we can’t move the hands forward.

    1. THANKS FOR YOUR NOTE. JON, I AGREE WITH YOU.
      AS A MATURE GAY, QUITE WELL HUNG, UNCUT GUY, I HAVE BEEN EYED AND EVEN FONDLED BY SEVERAL “straight” GOOD LOOKERS IN MY GYM. IT IS SO EROTIC AND WONDERFUL TO HAVE THESE MEMORIES FOR MY BATE SESSIONS AT HOME LATER. I AM A CHRONIC BATOR. ONE, STRAIGHT, HUNG. UNCUT, JAMAICAN TRAINER ALWAYS SHOWED HIS HUGE COCK TO ME AN HE SAW ME BATE ONCE.
      MY COCK BELOW… DOUG

  4. As a well hung, 9+ thick inches, I get hit on by more “straight ” men at the gym, than gay men. Those guys, specially the black guys are amazed that this gay white guy has a bigger cock than they do. I enjoy the attention and don’t shy away from their advances. Of course it’s risky to be caught in gay behavior in the steam room of a YMCA, but, sometimes something too good to turn down will present itself.

  5. Growing up, I experienced sex with guys my age & a few years older. Circle jerks, handjobs, blowjob & even tried anal (didn’t care for that). It was a “normal” part of growing up back then. As a young adult I experienced a MMF 3some with a good friend & his girlfriend. I loved it. Only direct contact was when I reached down & caressed his balls as he was inside her. He exploded & I took his place to help her reach climax.
    I’m mature now & accept that I’m bi, although my wife & family don’t know.

  6. The REALIZATION of homosexuality in recorded history is pretty fluid. It has often been muted and made illegal, only to be accepted and recognized as normal centuries later, back and forth for centuries. That doesn’t mean that the concept is illogical. Many people, like myself, are exclusively interested in the same sex. Others are exclusively interested in the opposite sex. So, even though bisexuality exists in various degrees, that doesn’t mean that we’re abnormal if we’re exclusive in your sexual interests.

    That said, I’ve also had a LOT of cock down my throat that’s attached to a guy who IDENTIFIES as straight. I don’t correct them, or consider them gay just because they let me get them off. They are what they identify as.

    1. Love this comment. I consider myself gay curiously bi! Married in a heterosexual relationship, but definitely find men can get me off like no woman. Interesting life.
      I do love my cock in a man’s mouth.

  7. The whole idea of Homosexuality as a separate category is quite modern. This documentary from the 1980s explains what it was like in the 1930s before anyone even heard the term Homosexual. https://youtu.be/FzPzb3exfVc
    The distinction of straight and gay are a manufactured concept. It’s always been more fluid – as are we. Let’s get back to those days

  8. I publicly identify as straight- married, kids, family man. I’ve been having sex with men beginning when I was 17. It wasn’t experimental with peers, it was a full-on seduction by a clever and beloved married uncle. He opened a door I often wish he hadn’t, my secret sex life has at times caused great stress for me. The one thing I have always been grateful for are the gay men, who over the last four decades have given me safe refuge in their arms, their beds, and sometimes their hearts. They have kept my secret, accepted my only random availability and never pried into the secreted details of my straight life. Ultimately these men, by the mere fact that they were openly gay and living life honestly, made me more ashamed of me being me.
    In my 6th decade of life, Ive somewhat made peace with myself. This website is a my therapy, my education and a source of comfort as I learn I’m not unique. Thanks to all who contribute.

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