We should all be allowed and enabled to explore our sexuality, but we are first locked into societal definitions that quite often are binary. Long before puberty and therefore any approach of sexuality, boys are told what a real man is (and that is not gay) and sadly, girls are told the same bs. So by the time the body starts transforming, say from 10-11 yo onwards, we are already programmed. Girls will seek “bad boys” with all the dire consequences that has and boys will plunge into guilt, shame and at times despair when they have any sort of reaction with a male friend. Yet, when many people come forward claiming non-binary genders, society in vast numbers mocks them and reiterates that boys are boys and girls are girls. We are stuck in this loop. Acceptance of large changes in societal behaviour comes with time and volume. We may not like the idea of burning to death a woman because she is able to read, but 800 years ago, we probably all would have denounce her and gone to watch her die. Have we completed this change of attitude? not really, when seeing that woman reading, we probably still reflect more on what she’s wearing. The attitude towards gay men is still rather primitive. Then is the attitude towards the others. Given the choice, I’d pick a woman for sex. But getting a man inside me is a great pleasure I truly seek and enjoy. My label is therefore bi-sexual. Can I claim it? with risks. Is it enough to describe me? no. I feel my sexuality is confused by years of bad education about it. I wish we were more open about it. But in a society that is not intellectually and morally prepared to establish and accept any connections between the wonderful magical event that is birth and the sex activities that took place 9 months prior, we still have a very long way to go. – A.NoN
Hard muscle, beer and piss. A real male trifecta.
Hahaa, nice, but is that possibly half the ‘debate? Great pic, but as we say here he can’t hold his piss, it’s falling out as fast as he pours it in…….
Back on topic though, A.NoN – I may be misreading your name but I doubt that you are a nothing/absence, I too struggle to label myself, not because I don’t know myself but because none of the labels fit really. So I’m just a something and that’s fine.
love his cock!
I just love the sex positive nature of this blog. It makes me feel free to know that loving cock and ass and beautiful men, young and old, is a statement of saying life is worth living, being kind and generous when you are able is normal. That love is love. And loving consentous sex is the ultimate form of kindness between two or as many men as you desire.
Beautifully put, Kurt. I’ve cum to accept that philosophy a bit late in life but it has opened my being to the beauty of it all.
I’m one that hates labels, why do I have to be in any catigory , gay, staright, bi etc, I’m joe and thats enough for me , but it seems to be more prominate in the gay society, I think everyone has the same sexuality as everyone but some choose to act on it and not pretend!!
With you on that!!