I’ve spent over 20 years studying male-male interaction through a variety of past societies. I have concluded that the more stable societies, those with a successful* male work force, military, sports teams and other men only associations, were the ones that flourished over centuries, as opposed to short-lived aggregations with systemic barriers, whether stated or baked in, for men to gather in any significant way. Our own tepid attempts at such gatherings is looked on with disdain, as politically incorrect. This slide into “equality” started with the early main stream church, particularly RC. Doctrines and dogma were fabricated out of whole cloth, with no basis in the original scriptures, in order to keep the male population cut off from their brothers to prevent any growth of deeper attachment, exchange of very personal feelings and ideas. Men are stronger together than as separate entities. Yes, I know this sounds like fantastic, magical thinking. But try hard to step outside the box and view the big picture. Look around and see the malaise of men in the 21st century. They have no idea who they are! Very easy for a government to manipulate. Men need men. No major change in society has has ever been achieved without completely ignoring the current narrative. I’m hardly suggesting a coup d’etat. What I’m saying is that men must take the initiative themselves, to create community for their brothers. No institution is going to do it for you. This site is a successful example of just that. * Successful in terms of one’s life (being grounded, motivated to improve and to help other do so, self reflection, relationships, being a part of something larger than yourself, etc.) In other words, everything other than finances and status. Leo
Yeah. It’s all true. Men need the company of men for humour, sanity, brotherhood and resilience. Any nation works better when men are accustomed to getting on with and relying upon each other, breaking down the barriers to see how very much we all have in common. Sports, army, clubs, especially those that require men to interact at close personal quarters is healthy for men. We need the troupe bonding, laughs, gentle wisdom and ribaldry that ultimately breeds respect for each other. – BoB
I love it when men meet up and strip naked together. It breaks barriers down, allows you to relax completely and do whatever seems natural. Lovely when another guy initiates the fondling each others bodies and making love. Having sex openly in front of your friends is so liberating!
Do these places exist in the UK? Would love to know where these male spaces are created and how you get access to them.
Yes, Men need Men! I am a happily married man of 55 years. My wife and I have three grown children. We no longer engage in intercourse or any kind of sex. It seems, looking back, after our third child, our sex faded away. I have always wanted to have a good sexual relationship but my wife never caught the bait. So be it. I moved on. One day I was leaving downtown Minneapolis; it started rain heavily. I ducked into a hotel bar and decided to just relax with a scotch and wait out the weather. I sat at the end which seated one around the corner place. A few minutes later, a gentleman looking about my age, came in and sat at the seat next to mine. We were in a 90 degree position to one another. The conversation was as if we had known each other all our lives. It was enjoyable. I had never had a male relationship so easily encountered. After a couple of drinks, he asked if I would like to go to his room and continue our conversation there. I agreed and as soon as we entered the room we looked at each other, put out or arms and melted. It was the most enjoyable sex I have ever had and I realized what I had been missing was men know how to have sex with men. He has since come to Mpls and each time we meet. I love it and I’ve learned, I’m a bottom.
Thank You Oz, HaPenis New Year To You BOTH
Thank you for your comments. I’m a married man in my 60’s. Also grown children, and the same situation. Live in the Minneapolis are. Thanks again. Mark
What a wonderful experience, I need to have one too
Yeah. It’s all true. Men need the company of men for humour, sanity, brotherhood and resilience. Any nation works better when men are accustomed to getting on with and relying upon each other, breaking down the barriers to see how very much we all have in common. Sports, army, clubs, especially those that require men to interact at close personal quarters is healthy for men. We need the troupe bonding, laughs, gentle wisdom and ribaldry that ultimately breeds respect for each other.
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Men are stronger together.
Yes – lots of them!