Don’t get me wrong I like all the spectrum of gay sex but the label never felt totally honest to me. Yet despite that if I encountered men who wanted to focus on wanking in bars and clubs back in the day well, I found it odd that they were there. I was so unknowing! Discovering the online masturbation scene was like a further light bulb moment for me. I realised that I was a wanker. That was my sexuality. And having that revelation has made it easier for me to be confident in myself around men traditionally defined as ‘straight’ and I have found it easier to develop friendships with them whereas before I would feel more intimidated by them and would not be emotionally honest with them. It wasn’t a case of ‘gay shame’ or anything but just feel that now I have soooo much more in common with them and that is that ALL sensual men masturbate and if we could just be blatantly open with each other about it then so many barriers would come down. We’d certainly all be able to just fuckin bond over the energy of the joy of our own rod in our own hands and look each other in the eye and goad each other on and witness each other and expose our shared experience to one another. Wank bliss. -Michael
I love how you said the above. Wanking is your sexuality… great way to put it.- Mine too! While sharing sex with others can be incredible, I totally look forward to “me time” I hit my spots every time. I never disappoint. It’s the safest approach and requires no emotional investment. If anybody gets lonely, remember this- Once you are totally with “yourself” you are never alone! As far as orientation is concerned, you hit the nail on the head; lets be open and share! Wank on!! – Usfefan
I am what I am. I accept it as it is. I am solosexual, a wanker, a jerk, a high-fiver, a masturbator. My sensuality is expressed in a manner which suits me well and works in my couple too. I am in a good, mutually respectful relationship and my sexual desires as well as fantasies are met by my hand grabbing my hard cock, as well as by some toys that i occasionally use to vary the sensation on my genitals. I wank daily and I feel serenity in my life. I would not want to change it. – Seb Solosexual
Looking for a regular masturbation group in uk. Any places one can go for discreet masturbation with likeminded men please?
Are you in London?
I am in London and at this email:
guild.sags27@icloud.com
Maybe we can get a discreet online group call going for any enthusiasts to join
Yes often
I do cum to London regular; however, I am happy to travel anywhere to find a safe private place where men can be naked and masturbate together shamelessly without fear.
Hi Cameron … there is a famous men only wank club in London … but any sauna that has men only days will be a place where you are amongst other naked men … things will happen.. trust me …. and you will make friendship there, especially if you go regularly … just sit around and give yourself the occasional fondle, and others will notice and for those who are there for the same reason will respond … give it a go mate … just sit around with a hard on … you will not be disappointed … Good luck…. and enjoy your wanking… I do it several times a day, and I love the sight of my little uncut cock in my hand getting wet with sticky precum…. enjoy.
Looking around a while ago I discovered that in the 18th Century, around the time of the American Revolution, there was a private club, Beggar’s Bennison, totally devoted to the pleasures of masturbation. Members came from the merchant and also aristocratic classes, not specifically gay, it was “the convivial celebration of male sexuality”. Initiates placed their erect penis on a platter and ‘Members and Knights two bytwo came round in a state of erection and touched the Novice Penis to Penis.’
The rituals mocked the solemn rites of the monarchy, aristocracy and church, part of a wave of freedom and independence that was sweeping across Europe and breathed life into the wankers across the ocean who were rewriting the rules of government and social conduct.
Gary’s cum shot with his creamy jizz would be wonderful to lick and to wrap my mouth around the head of his cock as he was cumming.
I have a regular bud with whom I share jizz. First I feed him my load and then he strokes, while I watch and he tells me when he is ready to shoot his load. I then wrap my lips around the head of his cock and, a few seconds later, my mouth is flooded with his warm, creamy jizz.
I am a cum slut and I perform similar services with any guy who needs it.
>Ian
>July 16, 2024 at 4:07 am
>I am a unrepentant wanker. Partly due to no sex in the marriage, but more especially I like making myself cum!
I have masturbated and sucked may married men who would say they are having the sex that we both know they love, because they are not able to have sex at home. While they may have been “released” from prohibitions against mutual male sex by that turn of events, many who have thus crossed over and broken the barrier, would not go back, and love everything they have discovered, even as simple as enjoying looking at e beautiful picture of an “unrepentant wanker”.
I am a solosexual too. I play with my penis almost every day. I am also an exhibitionist.