The most important advice I can give to any-one who wants to give an amazing lingam massage is that the secret is in your intention. Your intention should be to celebrate the man’s beautiful cock and not to make him ejaculate. You should encourage him to breathe deeply throughout the ritual, huge big deep breathe right down into his tummy, as you breathe in unison with him. Put one hand on his tummy to feel him breathe as you encourage him to accept pleasure, surrender, and allow stillness and patience. Now pour a good dollop of massage oil onto his warm cock and balls. Rub your hands together and make sure they are lovely and warm. Begin the ritual by gently massaging his legs as wide apart as is comfortable for him. Then very slowly bring the fingertips of one hand into his perineum area (between his arsehole and balls). Gently massage the area with deep circular motions, 81 times clockwise, and then 81 times anti-clockwise. Use your other hand to make exactly the same motions on his head (crown). Then very slowly and gradually bring both hands down towards his balls. Cup your fingers under the right testicle with your right hand and the left testicle under your left hand. Apply 81 circular motions with your thumbs on the upper side of the testicles first in one direction (clockwise) then reversed (anti-clockwise). You can then continue applying 81 circular motions with your fingers to the underside of the testicles. Very lightly tap his balls with your three middle fingers. Pay attention to the music you are playing in the background. Tap those lovely balls to the rhythm. Hold the balls from the base with your thumb and index finger and gently pull them forward slightly and hold and relax, you will notice that his pelvic muscles will involuntary pull them back, as this happens to pull them gently forward again. You could repeat this for several minutes. Gradually bring one hand onto his cock and gently hold it. Gently pump it 81 times; the purpose of this is to pump energy into the head of the lingam. Use the tips of your fingers of your other hand to gently massage the area between his eyebrows (third eye). You’re now ready to take the ritual to another level. It’s time for you to relax and be artistic. Everyman’s cock is different, so there is no infinite guide from here. Your purpose is to gently massage every tiny mm of the man’s cock in equal proportions. If you feel the man is coming close to ejaculation move back to massaging his perineum area. Every penis massage technique is a celebration of righteousness. Mr Cox
