Firm Hands

“Firm hands on my manhood is the best I’m cut so concentrate on the shaft. However the odd thumb stroke around the piss slit and frenulum is nice hard and fast. I need my manhood massage to be a part of a whole body massage and aim to feel rejuvenated rather than relaxed at the end. Getting an erection is part of the process of stimulation but I do not want the proverbial ‘happy ending’ of ejaculation. Sexual energy is circulated around the whole of my body by the masseur with careful long, firm, massage strokes – some fast, some slow. Stimulation by oiled fingertips under the penis head (sometimes described as ‘squeezing a lemon’) works for me. Pressing the fingertips behind the balls is a wonderful stimulant and can become stronger as the massage progresses. Stimulation of my nipples goes right to the centre of my nervous system but don’t treat nipples like dials on an (old fashioned) radio. Making circular movements around the nipples using the tip of the index finger achieves the effect in a slow, teasing way. Any way that evokes a long-term sense of empowerment four hand lovingly stroking my man hood to ejaculation is a divine pleasure.”

–Member Brotherhood of Pleasure.

For men who like a firm hands lingam massage a great technique to include is the Rainbow Rub, borrowed from the sexological bodyworkers. Place the tips of your fingers around the head of the man’s cock so that they rest just below his frenulum. Cup your hand around his helmet so that the palm of your hand can slide up and down deeply rubbing into his shaft. Use the palm of your other hand to rub his forehead. The reason it’s called the rainbow rub is that if you perform it for 20 minutes, as a therapy by itself, the man receiving the massage will be seeing rainbows, literally. – From The A-Z Of HaPenis