Masculinity appears toxic to anyone who cannot embody it. It’s certainly not an inclusive ideal. And these days where inclusiveness is a mantra, and where everyone gets a medal just by showing up, you can imagine how unfashionable Masculinity has become. People have tried for ages to define what masculinity is, but as soon as you put it to words you diminish it into a mockery. Yet we do try. Masculinity is a presence, a state where the body is a mirror of the mind. Every bulging muscle. Every straw of beard. Every whiff of musk. Every vein on a swollen, massive cock. That spark in a real Man’s eyes. They all radiate potency. They demand respect and worship. That’s the best I can do, and look how cheesy it got. It can be dissected and ridiculed in a hundred different ways, particularly by those who don’t “get it”. The best way to embody masculinity is to surround yourself with it. Look for true Alphas, and let them empower you. To have an Alpha Man in your midst is not a threat, it’s a blessing. Why not suck a Man’s cock? Worship his balls, smell them, rest your face against them. Dive face first into his armpits, let yourself be intoxicated by his scent. Feel his Manhood throb in your mouth, the urethra pound like a piston, feel the head grow bigger and harder… notice his belly heave as his seed explodes into you. By all means, spit it out afterwards. You have already received his most important gift, and that’s his energy. It’s that energy that unlocks something in your brain. “Put some hair on yer chest” is not an expression without origin. – I love you, Brothers. – BEN
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I have been an alpha my entire life in scholastics, business, my entertainment career and in my relationships. I am masculine and enjoy it. I am also compassionate, loving, caring, and tender even in strength. These are all traits that those who ridicule masculinity do not recognize as traits of masculinity. In other words, they lie out of their fear and distaste of masculinity. Part of my tenderness and loving is expressed in my relationships with men, and sometimes those relationships are sensual, sexual and loving. In that case for me, it is often submitting myself for the pleasure of another. I do so without sacrificing an ounce of my masculinity, even when I am on my knees with a magnificent hard cock in my mouth, or flat on my face with a trusted brother deep inside me. We are men, respecting each other and ourselves, masculine regardless of any tag of gay, bi, or straight. We are in touch with who we are, how we are wired and created. Joseph
Masculinity is that which is not feminine. Being a kind, caring and loving person is not gendered, but unfortunately there are men who view these traits as a negative. I think it is perfectly reasonable for women to view men who are rude and treat women as subordinates as having toxic masculinity. One very specific thing that is masculine is cock – and men sharing their cocks with other men has to be the most masculine thing a man can do!
Joseph, I share with you your feelings in relation to physical, mental and emotional strength. I am gay myself, but I have always felt attracted by the masculine, muscular men. (Maybe because my own father has failed in these three things.) Unfortunately, as open-minded as we seem to be in modern times about sex, how to handle and practice it, it is still a big problem for many. Maybe because they don’t know how to deal with their own body and feelings? If we all knew how to worship our own body and how to love ourselves, much less problems would exist in this world. We would know much better the difference between sexual attraction and emotional solidarity. If we were honest with ourselves and others in relation to this, things would be much easier – much less lies, hypocrisy and misunderstanding would dominate. Instead, stereotypes are still influencing too much the world. Making people (especially women) believe that, just because you’re physically strong, you are generally a threat to them. And with the news about aggressions (against them) in the whole world, they feel confirmed. Why then feel attracted by the opposite sex? Wouldn’t it be better to be gay in that case? Sometimes, they marry the shy, shaved, tamed “boy” to make sure that nothing “bad” happens. And end frustrated and unsatisfied over the years.
In my opinion, the patriarchy is the bigger problem. It always wants to divide and control everything in society. And that forces us to do and say things, that are completely wrong and limit us in our liberties and wellbeing. Maybe it should be discussed more deeply here.
Love your honest post! Thank you
for sharing And expressing yourself as a free thinker, that to me, is one of the most masculine of attributes-
I love all of the aspects you cited, and thrill to memories of being permitted to put my tongue in a real man’s asshole, the smell of the sweaty musk and Hair surrounding it was like a drug to me- I’ve always been able to suck above my ‘caste’ I remember some jealousy from closeted males who wondered how somebody like me could be servicing a team team captain or BMOC- first and most importantly, I knew my place and secondly, I had honed my skills to level that Surpassed the grudging service these men were used to getting or settling for…
Anyway, thank you very much. I really enjoyed your post..
I have been an alpha my entire life in scholastics, business, my entertainment career and in my relationships. I am masculine and enjoy it. I am also compassionate, loving, caring, and tender even in strength. These are all traits that those who ridicule masculinity do not recognize as traits of masculinity. In other words, they lie out of their fear and distaste of masculinity.
Part of my tenderness and loving is expressed in my relationships with men, and sometimes those relationships are sensual, sexual and loving. In that case for me, it is often submitting myself for the pleasure of another. I do so without sacrificing an ounce of my masculinity, even when I am on my knees with a magnificent hard cock in my mouth, or flat on my face with a trusted brother deep inside me. We are men, respecting each other and ourselves, masculine regardless of any tag of gay, bi, or straight. We are in touch with who we are, how we are wired and created.
Joseph,
You have hit a Grand Slam with your post on February 13, 2024 @3:41.
ALL men need the love, support & kindness from AlPHA men like us.
We are even they should emulate.
God Bless you,
D
Joseph,
Your words SUPERFLUOUS !!! AMEN,…..Spot on brother.
Thank you
Regards,
Donald
Ben, when you write “Why not suck a man’s cock ….” etc., the vividness and energy of your manly writing is totally arousing. It’s fantastic! I have experienced everything you describe here my whole life, except your feelings of rejection. I agree, to characterise the kind of masculinity you embody as toxic, to try to domesticate it in marriages with women, to mock it, is totally wrong. The empowerment of women over the last few decades and their pushback, not just against men like Donald Trump (who has a tiny dick), etc., but against much more manly men just minding their own business, for Christ’s sake, has certainly made a lot of us feel defensive about our masculinity. I’m not saying that’s what your expressing here. But I think, as Seb’s site illustrates so well, embracing masculinity whole-heartedly, revelling in bulging muscles, the musk of crotches and armpits, the rough love of beards, etc. is something that all of us can do and most of us have experienced. But we don’t need muscles, chest hair, or massive cocks ourselves, which are largely genetic endowments to begin with, to be Alpha males. We are, in our own ways, capable of being masculine men and divinely masculine! Thank you, Ben, it is always wonderful to read your inspiring comments.
Well said brother.
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I am a swiss, bisexual daddy and granddaddy.
Horny regards, Franz
Beautiful daddy, would go on my knees and worship your sucklent cock all the time.
Hallo, Franz! Siehst ja ziemlich glücklich und gesund aus für dein Alter. Sag mal: wie handhabst du eigentlich deine schwule Seite? Wissen deine Ehefrau und/oder deine Kinder davon? Denn das ist eine Sache, die heutzutage immer noch ziemlich Tabu ist – leider. Oder ist das in der Schweiz etwas anders als im Rest Europas?
I respect cock 24/7. The pillar of life rises to every occasion as it brings me joy and ecstasy on every level. The power and hardness my cock yields is a true blessing
Daddy Dave,
that is an absolutely magnificent phallus you have there, good sir. It radiates power and joy. Thank you for sharing it with us!
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Please face fuck me, love your cock,I’m a cocksucker and love ❤️ it.
It just sounds as if Ben should have spent longer in school and done a bit of reading. The hateful paragraph about “effeminate men and limp-wristed queens” is indicative of stereotypical thinking that does not rise above pub-fuelled banter.
As does the notion that masculinity is toxic, which if you think about it, is the established narrative these days. And trust me, as a gay man I’ve seen that the vile toxicity of those I criticize. But you don’t want to hear about that, nor do you anyone else to.
Even though Seb edited that portion out, which is his prerogative, I stand by every word. They were simply a pushback against said narrative.
And yes I’m very well educated, as well as indoctrinated. Over the years I just shed cast off the latter. Thank you for your thoughts.