I am also married to wonderful woman, and we have two adult daughters. I’ve known that I’m gay for ever, it seems, but was very afraid to come out. Went to baths when I was in college, but married anyway — I thought marriage would “cure” me. I’d hook up with gay married friends from time to time, but we all knew it would go nowhere. I’d stopped having sex with my wife. I finally came out to my wife after seeing Brokeback Mountain — alone. That movie was devastating for me, and I was certain I’d go crazy if I didn’t come out to my wife. We’ve remained very close and affectionate friends; I assured her that I would not leave her. No one else in my family knows. I’m 77 years old now, and though I certainly can’t say that I regret my marriage and children, I realize now how much I long for a male lover friend of about my age. Im so thankful for this blog. – Mike
Mike, I admire you. I’m happily married and have always loved sex with me. I think we should drop the labels. You want what you want and need who you need. Have you seen “God’s Own Country”? This is a brilliant movie about one man teaching another man how to love himself and his male lover. And the rural setting is gorgeous. I wish you all the best! AJ
Mike!
You are amazing man! Keep your heart, mind, eyes and ears open.
You could meet that dude when he pulls over near your place to adjust something hanging out of his trunk.
When you least expect it.
Be sure to report back to us.
Peace, love and HaPenis my brother.
Mike, I admire you. I’m happily married and have always loved sex with me. I think we should drop the labels. You want what you want and need who you need. Have you seen “God’s Own Country”? This is a brilliant movie about one man teaching another man how to love himself and his male lover. And the rural setting is gorgeous. I wish you all the best! AJ
Haha, it’s true, I have always loved sex with me. Also with MEN, glorious men. I’d much rather have sex with another man than just with me, although me will do, of course, it all begins and ends with me, or is it God, or am I God? I’m not confused, just in a state of constant wondering and wonderment.
Mike, there’s so much “out there” today about married men experimenting with gay relationships that it seems bisexuality is normalizing fast. I’m a totally gay 70 year old man, and envy your ability to get aroused and satisfy both sexes. You’re very lucky to have an understanding wife, and I’m sure your life with her and your children has given you both much happiness. Treasure your ability to still get an erection – it’s something no longer possible for me – due to health issues. Wishing you the best,.