I’m a bit of an amateur sociologist, I like to study different cultures that I might interact with, and this hobby doesn’t stop when I am getting a random blowjob at a park, glory hole, video booth, or app hookup. Part of what still gets my jaded-self off, is watching the service provider selflessly throat, fist, and slurp on my cock and balls with a desirous hunger and greed. I am deeply aroused by someone who has a craving for cock and/or cum, and anticipate with wonder if this guy will swallow, spit, take a facial, or completely avoid the cum geyser he is causing. I politely give a 6 second warning so they can be prepared and I would say that 70% of men swallow all of my cum and keep sucking. Another 20% take my load in their mouth and spit it out, and 10% pull off with maybe only 3% of those asking me to cum on their face (and those who want the facial always have beards). I usually give an exit interview as I am wiping spit and cum remnants off of my spent dick, and I will ask; “Did you like that load?” – “Was it sweet?” (I know the answer, I eat my own often) – “Do you suck cock to get the load, or do you suck cock because you like to suck cock?”
And with the last question, I find that all men stop and pause because no one ever asks that question and they have to think about their motivation, and about 75% say that they do it for the cum. They like eating cum, they enjoy the feeling of it shooting on their mouth and get a rush as they savor and swallow it. The other 25 say something to the affect that they like making a man feel good, or they like being used by a man, or they like feeling a hard cock pounding their mouth and head – these men enjoy the power it gives them to make a man cum. People are fascinating and I am thankful for these men, whatever their motivations are. – JoE
I’m predominantly a giver of cock, it relaxes me and pleasures me enormously, it’s a comfort to me in times of trouble. I also like sucking cock with certain blokes and I like 69ing as it gives me the best of both positions. The taste of cum I can give or take although it’s OK if one has been drinking or eating pineapple or other products high in fructose. I’m always disappointed with the colour and texture of cum though and think it would be great if were like coloured glitter glue; then we could wank and make homemade Christmas cards at the same time. And maybe if it tasted of Lindt D’or. – A.NoN
For me it is both but I will admit that ultimately, I want to taste your cum. However, I do enjoy sucking cock. I like the taste of it in my mouth, I like feeling it get hard as I suck it, I like hearing the man moan, breath heavy, and squirm as he gets closer too orgasm. But, in the end, I am hoping that he will cum in my mouth and let me swallow it. So, yes, cum is the goal!
I must add to my original remarks that I love taking care of a dude’s balls.
I have found most guys don’t get much of that and they LOVE IT even its just my hand/fingers.
And, i’ll use my thumb to press on that spot behind his ballbag over the prostate.
Had one dude shoot off instantly when i did that.
It is amazing to pleasure a dude.
Thank you for sharing this. I have often wondered why some men enjoy sucking. This helps. Maybe it can’t be explained. I liked to invite others to share what is about sucking the before, during & after that they like. Also regarding the cum, yes / no in the mouth, like the taste, swallow or spit? Does size matter.
Robert.
I had a friend who was big. His cock was huge and it my jaw ache after a few minutes, never mind making me gag when he got excited and started thrusting but within a few times of us playing he calmed down. He was/is a world class cock sucker.
Another friend has a cock the same size as mine, five and a half inches, which is damn nearly perfect for sucking.
I’ve sucked and wanked a lot of cocks, the average, in my experience is five to seven inches and I much prefer intact, as in uncut cocks. I always swallow. I have recently had the pleasure of being face fucked or skull fucked, a term I dislike, but the bloke has a short thick cock, he holds my head in his hands a quite literally fucks my my mouth. “Better than any cunt” he always says after.
I always hated having my head held while sucking cock but his cock is so short it does not make me gag.
Sucking cock is empowering, I’m in charge, I direct proceedings. Yes, a bloke can get all manly and go all “suck my cock etc” but ultimately I am the one giving.
Love and hugs.
Mark.
Hot trucker from CA with a 9 1/4″ tool when I said you must get alot of hot blowjobs he said this is the best.
I like to take my time and tease and edge. Never had a complaint about that!
I just love everything about sucking a nice cock. Feeling it in my mouth, how his, thick, stiff head feels in the back of my throat. I love taking my my time, licking, massaging and sucking it all, cock, balls all of it. Do I do it because I love sucking cock or for the sweet, salty cum reward? YES! Definitely both. I don’t enjoy agressive face fucking, but being able to savor the scent and taste of it all with his rigid cock filling my mouth. Total heaven to me