I’m straight, married, in my mid 40’s and I get blown by guys. The more I look around, the more common this seems to be, but even if not, fuck it. I was freaked out by it at first, and even a bit ashamed, but it’s super convenient, and my wife isn’t into sucking me off, so I’ve got a couple guys that I can hit up for a BJ whenever I want. The visual isn’t so great, but you get used to it, and they have no problem with me playing porn. Pretty clearly, guys who love to suck dick are totally all about providing the best experience, so whatever makes it work best for me is what they want. I think this is why shit like this goes on all the time but nobody ever talks about it. It’s totally hedonistic. It’s all about me and getting the kind of BJ I’m in the mood for, be it a five minute quickie, or a leisurely half hour or so of getting my brains sucked out. I probably get 4-5 BJs a month, but the great thing is, it’s all up to me. There’s no real relationship to worry about (though we are friendly), no drama, and if I’m not horny, I just don’t go. No one’s going to call me to ask where I’ve been or if I want to come around today. On the other hand, if I’m going through a horny phase, I could swing by every day and it would also be no big deal.
It’s just so straight forward! I don’t have to manscape, or bring flowers, I just have to take a seat and get blown. Oh, and do I have to point out that someone who really loves to suck dick tends to do it really well? My one guy is gay and he’s all about throat action, he likes to take it deep and massage it with this throat muscles. The other guy is bi and prefers to do some crazy shit with his tongue. Both not only swallow, but love doing it. Neither wants anything more from me and they don’t even try to get undressed. No drama, no commitment, no worrying about it being anything more than it actually is, just a blowjob. Again, this all took some getting used to, but where the fuck are you going to find a woman who’ll blow you whenever you want and with no hidden agenda? Honestly, it’s fucking great and I highly recommend it! – A.NoN
No commitment, no drama… “The visual isn’t great.” I detect more than a little denial.
I have a regular straight married guy who contacts me whenever he wants a cocksucker to blow and swallow. No chat. I I stay clothed. Hi wife wont swallow
I’m in the market for a couple of horny straight dudes I can suck the life force out of… love being used as a neighborhood cocksucker. On call for horny cock day and nght.
I love sucking men who live in sex starved relationships. The glow they have about them when they arrive at my doorstep is 100% animalistic and raw. They’re horny, and full of seed. Seed that goes under appreciated, and he offers it to me like the Ambrosia.
I also love to show these men how their body is made for receiving pleasure, in ways they may not have thought of.
A str8 man’s reaction to his first rimjob is often priceless. He squirms and whimpers like a dog as my tongue wriggles around his rosebud while my hand works his cock.
Another guy I helped discover his own nipples. This guy was a bit more forward than usual. He wanted us both to get naked and have a lot of body contact. He liked to lie on his back, between my legs, resting his head against my chest (and feel my cock rubbing against his back. I would caress his while he jerked himself off. Then I reach for his cock to get some precum on my fingers, and I start playing with his nipples. Circular movements, gentle flicking, and soft pinching. He moans and squirms and thrashes his head. Just when I think he’s about to spew his seed, he gets up. “Can I fuck your mouth and cum while you do that??” I respond with an eager smile and a nod! “Pound it, brother!”
So he goes to town on my throat while I play with his nipples. He high pressure cum gush was beyond my expectations, and he was roaring at the ceiling and raising his arms in the air like a victory gesture. It was so much I had trouble keeping up with the swallowing. It drooled out in an even cum curtain in my beard. We thought it was gonna be an hour session, but it turned into an all-nighter. Again and again he wanted to fuck my mouth while I played with his nipples. Seeing him being consumed with carefree pleasure was so beautiful. Will never forget it.
Thank You, Ben
Skin on skin is all it is!! We cocksuckers are here to serve. The passion in my head just knowing that I pleased a man is orgasm enough!!
You need a real man to suck a cock properly.
Spoken like a truth teller – yes.
I am amazed at how the practical world of men seeking sex finds it’s own level and we are not offended if the dude doesn’t buy us flowers.
I have two cocksuckers. One on my morning running route. He’s not far from the river path so I make a small deviation and type a number in plus hash and the door to his building opens. I take the lift to level 4 and turn right and there in storage cupboard 25 I find him inside seated low on an upturned bucket. I close the cupboard door behind me to total darkness my crotch inches from his face covered with the brim of a baseball hat. He lowers my shorts and sucks me off. I brace myself with arms on the wall behind him. After, I leave and recommence my Strava run clock with slightly wobbly knees. All before 6:45am.
Another dude is a delightful clean freak. Quiet. Gentle. Expert. He slowly edges me for two hours before letting me cum.
Last time we could arrange a time at short notice, I had been to the other Cocksucker that morning (twice – coz he texted me after to say his flatmate was leaving for an extra shift and he know I had another load). I finished my biz breakfast meeting and headed back. Then Mr clean freak texted. So I returned the favour and sucked him – no hassle – but a new dynamic for that arrangement …!!
I also have buds who are gay and in the scene. I have dudes who are closeted. I myself am married. I fuck a bloke who is on the phone texting work, I have long afternoons with an artist as we massage each other.
I have a very special friend with whom we swap porn and our deepest secrets about lust and men and women. Importantly, he gave me the gift of teaching me how sublime it is to be fucked and to fuck. How my arse is an entire pleasure zone I never expected to enjoy.
Each situation is practical and effective. Each man gets what he wants. No one is “exploiting” or manipulated. We are equals. Kings of our own domain wielding our royal scepters to our joint pleasure. We have needs and the fantasy we create together is part of that and intentional. Each dude, when I see them at the supermarket or the street – we chat and pass the time. We go for beers every now and then. No weirdness. No awkwardness. BUT – these are NOT romantic relationships where we “date” and play mind games. Getting off is a serious dudes activity and we are all efficient and non-exclusive. We don’t judge each other. No cum face is too silly, but in fact full of a man’s dignity and honour.
Dudes rock…! Thanks fellas.
And each one an interesting bloke. All with a story. We cum together and all pretense is dropped and we are honest. I have friends. True mates BECAUSE we are fuckbuds or suck buds or frot buds
While these arrangements shift through time due to availability. But they have saved my sanity. They thankfully restored for me a personal agency that was lost during 30 years of marriage where I became the sniveling, nasty, petty supplicant begging for sex from my wife who was only prepared to give me crumbs. Rather than continue to be manipulated by her to “obey” within the narrow confines of her miserly regulation of my sexual life., I forged my own path. She thinks I’m in a much better mood nowadays, and we have date nights and cuddles and all that lovey-dovey stuff of a partnership that successfully raised two accomplished children to adulthood, negotiated financial disaster, sickness & health, for richer and poorer, and now gladly face old age together. She is beautiful and amazing. But her sex drive and mine no longer fit.
But, She doesn’t know why I’m so amenable now? Why I have this lease of life. And she like the new me to deal with. I’m not hounding her for sex. I’m not argumentative.
Yep dudes rock. But I’m happy not to marry one.
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Great witness .. now is too late for me this kind of life , or maybe it was not culturally possible in my 40 ,
i always mixed emotions with sex ..
i tried to have a
group of friends. Just for sex .. but could not !
I love to suck and I regularly suck many men in heterosexual relationships. This is exactly why they like to suck, because they can live out their desires in my throat without any complications.