Sacred Intimacy

Much has been written on the topic of being married (to a woman) and having a “relationship” with a man at […]

Sex+Spirit = One

Roderick, your commentary on men’s relationships with other men really spoke to me. In the 30 years I’ve been a sexually […]

Sexually Active Not

Hello Gentlemen, I hope you are well. I hope you find the time to read this post with patience and understanding. […]

Scottish Masculinity

Having survived a brutal Scottish childhood where sex between men was illegal until 1980 , It took me decades to cultivate […]

Axing My Hayhât

Not to see what appears to your self, Flying to the heavens, tearing, every instant, a hundred veils! The first moment […]

Trust & Intimacy

With a pair of warm hands and plenty of oil, rub and massage the inside of my thighs and groin area. […]

The Capacity To Be Alone

“The capacity to be alone is the capacity to love. It may look paradoxical to you, but it’s not. It is […]

Sex Magick

“Sex magick means using your sexuality in order to work magick. This technique is not new nor outrageous; although usually kept […]

The History of Male Prostitution

Male prostitution has a rich, complex history, often intertwined with societal perceptions of masculinity, sexuality, and power. In ancient civilizations, including […]

Mind Body Spirit

It was many years ago and I have not experienced it again since that time. I was alone and masturbating when […]

The Sacred Whores

The Whores with the Golden Heart existed in ancient cultures. Approximately 10% of the Sacred Whores were men. They lived in […]

Cimetière Marin

Cimetière Marin” by Arve Henriksen is a hauntingly atmospheric piece that evokes a deep sense of introspection and calm. The song, […]

First Touch

Early on I didn’t like to be a guys first, the fear of leaving them with a bad memory, of letting […]

The Virtues of Selfishness

If you are not selfish you will not be altruistic, remember. If you are not selfish you will not be unselfish, […]

Don’t You Know Yet?

The quote by Rumi, “Don’t you know yet? It is your Light that lights the worlds,” speaks to the inherent divine […]