Hello Gentlemen, I hope you are well. I hope you find the time to read this post with patience and understanding. I’m 24, a gay man. I have not been sexually active for some time. Most of my friends don’t understand why I cant find a boyfriend or at least a ‘shag’, they say ‘you’re a sweet looking guy you should have no problem meeting someone.’ However, I know that the problems lies within me. I have very low self-esteem when it comes to my body and how i feel about it. There is nothing wrong with it externally except that I don’t have a very large penis, I guess its average to small. However, in my mind I have shut down sexually. I feel I’m a very sexual person who is blocked or trapped by his internal inhibitions and low self- esteem. I feel tremendous pressure from the gay world to be the biggest, the most hung, the prettiest – u know what I mean. I’m looking for a serious relationship and if I’m to find the man of my dreams I must sort this problem out. Its causing me a lot of stress and even depression and I’m not sexually active which I really need to be. I’m usually more passive, very sensual and sweet. Yours, Kevin.
I wish there was a time stamp, to know when this was written. Was it recent or years ago? Not knowing this I won’t respond at length. I will say that the way society treats sexuality, and cock size, and what an ‘authentic’ sexual person is, well, it’s sick.