Our sexuality is a private thing. Some want to shout from the rooftops-that is their choice. So many brave Men here on this site!
I look at it this way. Nobody expects straight folks to announce their preferences publicly so it seems there is a double standard of sorts. Yes wedding rings and affection give it away I’m not referring to those things.
Its best to work on not caring what anyone thinks for true peace and HaPenis as a divine Man God. No one can tell anyone else how to live their life. Period. So the brothers who choose to remain “DL” are no less blessed than the rest of us so long as they make peace with that for THEMSELVES. I applaud the Dl men who have the courage to go out and explore their sexuality. And as a consumer of their self-freedom at times, I can’t help but feel this way. So many I’ve encountered seem wholly comfortable in their own skin including exactly what it is they want from another man. I find this confidence to be an enormous turn on and I’ve done things I did not think I would as a result. Who can argue with that? Who am I to judge them simply because their life is different from my own life. John N
