Do What Thou Wilt 

Ruff asks, In your belief, can a single gay man preform sex magick properly or does there always need to be […]

The HaPenis Buoy

I am a man who considers myself to be essentially 100% str8 but I have slept with lots of men and […]

Obsession with Beauty

Dear Mr Cox, I’m writing with a question – but first let me just say that you have what I think […]

Ancient Knowing

It could be a meeting on the street, or a party or a lecture, or just a simple, banal introduction, then […]

L’oiseau

In the text of Amar Rama, I find myself completely. I got married to do like everyone else and it was […]

Begging 4 Release

For more years than I care to remember, I’ve always enjoyed having my body and/or genitals touched and massaged, especially by […]

Guardian Angels

I so enjoy reading the comments and personal histories of the many men who generously offer them as a universal affirmation […]

Joy Of Oz

I am a happily married man of 55 years. My wife and I have three grown children. We no longer engage […]

What I Have Missed

I am a 69 year old male who loves his wife. However, like others, we no longer have sex. She has […]

The HaPenis Prize

“Having a penis can be like having an illusory prize dangled in front of you. It symbolizes a historical birthright to […]

 Peace & Light

Gay mens true role in the highest sense is to be peacemakers and light bringers. Some of my ideas and beliefs […]

Mystical Communion

Getting older (early fifties) has not meant that the experience of sexuality, passion and desire has dissipated and petered out. On […]

A Manhood Blast

I’m a married man in my 50’s. I love my wife and family and I’ve been always attracted to men, since […]

Sacred Gay Sex

For gay men, finding sacredness in sexuality involves considering a deeper sense of respect, and mindfulness in their sexual encounters. Engage […]