I had a hard time accepting my homosexuality. I married a woman twenty years ago. At the time I thought I […]
Sacred Journey
“Sex is a spiritual force when sensual pleasure becomes a means to an end and not the end in itself. The end is meaningful connections, resilience and human warmth” – ON THE COUCH, VOLUME 1 (by Tom Bianchi)
Drain The Residue
“Us men worship our cocks and jerk them as often as we need …. I edge for hours, and sometimes don’t […]
Real Divinity
I have a question, well more of a thought. As I grow older I find that I don’t want to have […]
Do What Thou Wilt
Ruff asks, In your belief, can a single gay man preform sex magick properly or does there always need to be […]
The HaPenis Buoy
I am a man who considers myself to be essentially 100% str8 but I have slept with lots of men and […]
Obsession with Beauty
Dear Mr Cox, I’m writing with a question – but first let me just say that you have what I think […]
Ancient Knowing
It could be a meeting on the street, or a party or a lecture, or just a simple, banal introduction, then […]
L’oiseau
In the text of Amar Rama, I find myself completely. I got married to do like everyone else and it was […]
Begging 4 Release
For more years than I care to remember, I’ve always enjoyed having my body and/or genitals touched and massaged, especially by […]
Guardian Angels
I so enjoy reading the comments and personal histories of the many men who generously offer them as a universal affirmation […]
What I Have Missed
I am a 69 year old male who loves his wife. However, like others, we no longer have sex. She has […]
The HaPenis Prize
“Having a penis can be like having an illusory prize dangled in front of you. It symbolizes a historical birthright to […]
Peace & Light
Gay mens true role in the highest sense is to be peacemakers and light bringers. Some of my ideas and beliefs […]
Mystical Communion
Getting older (early fifties) has not meant that the experience of sexuality, passion and desire has dissipated and petered out. On […]