As a bi married man this is my go to site to see various cocks and read about many different things. I have been married for 35 years and knew that I was into cock well before getting married. At the time, getting married and having a family was the only option I felt that I had and I have made the most of it for all these years. I love my wife and justify my need for male attention by saying they give me something she just can not. I have had two long term relationships with men since being married. I am not the type to go out and just find a guy to play with as a one and done. For now I am not playing outside of my marriage and thus come here for all the cock I need. Bought myself a toy for those times I need more than just stroke and for now am very happy. Thanks again for your great site! – Ray
You have spoken the same as I would have. I have made masturbation a significant part of my life. It started when I was a junior in high school. I married at age 28 and my wife and I have three beautiful children. I wouldn’t have it any other way. I also have had two significant relationships with other males. Yes, there is something another male can give you that a woman cannot. Having a fuck-buddy is a look forward to a relationship. I also discovered edging quite by accident. I was doing it and did not realize it had a name. The pleasure of it is wonderful giving that pleasure to all of your body. I am older now with prostate difficulties and no cancer. My Urologist at the Mayo Clinic in Rochester, Minnesota, USA, gave me Cialis for my difficulty. It works wonders has a side effect which I love. As long as you stimulate your cock, the longer your erection responds. Our children are gone, and it is my wife and I. Actually, it is my cock and myself. Seb has given me a lot of pleasure in his website. I’m glad I have it. Peace.. – Jack
Hi, Ray, The bisexuals like you have always found me, even if I wasn’t looking for them. That’s why I would be willing to have a relationship like the two you describe. But up to now, none of the bis I was together with had the courage to go much further than having one or two times sex with me: as soon as they saw that it was/became more tender with caresses, taking up to a whole hour, they apparently got emotional and scared that their feelings for another man could be noticed by their wife/children. That’s why I would like to ask you: does your wife know about your sexual interest in men? Did you tell her before your marriage? How did she stand for your declaration that men give you something she just can not? (Women take that very often bad, believing that they are not able to satisfy their boyfriend/husband and that it’s their fault; they very often get hysterical because of that.) Did she know your two boyfriends? Were they also bisexual or homosexual? Thanks for your help. AL|PE|SIN
Bi and married is likely more the norm than people realize or care to admit. As men our penises are mostly exterior, thus responding to external stimuli, triggering or arousing more external than internal response. Men have always been naked in the company of other men – we’re wired that way and it’s only modern living which has changed. We’re into to our own cocks, and thus other men’s. I don’t see it as a matter of orientation as much as being alive with a penis. A concise word is that as men we’re homosocial, enjoying other men’s company, with or without clothes. Some might see it as an abbreviation for homosexual socialist, but the truth remains: men need one another in brotherhood with penis in common.
Totally agree StoneAndy. The fact that there are many sites catering to men who, like us, understand this is testament to the fact. Google “phallic brotherhood”, which is really what we are discussing and you will find even more enlightenment.
A couple related thoughts – all men masturbate, masturbation is truly about cock, so masturbation should only be to cock and homosexuality. And once you under this, you will learn that masturbation to homosexuality brings more to your life than masturbation to hetero porn ever could. It’s a little bit of having you cake and eating it too!
Thank You Gentle Men
Good to see this thread re-erected. it’s always good to be reminded of how many of us are out there, and to have a place to find each other thanks to Seb. My sincere hope is that men connecting through this and other related sites leads to less guilt and shame and more men embracing their homosexuality. It is a journey for those of us who do not fit into a neatly defined category. I now identify as Phallic sexual rather than bisexual, and I choose to remain faithful to my wife and focus on the pleasure I get from my Phallus while masturbating to thoughts and images of only men having sex with men.