God created you and me, every rock and every tree. All the beauty that we see. And then there’s you Strolling […]
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Labels Are 4 Clothes
Stripped of labels, what remains? Just a man, standing in his own power, seen and accepted. This is the art of […]
Sex & Homophobia
I have had sex with many men, most of whom identify as straight, many of whom are married with children (and […]
A Sexual Biography
For me, “bisexual” doesn’t describe a sexual biography like mine, nor does “gay,” so I’d rather just not bother to have […]
Real Men’s Wet Dreams
A young man asked on the old site. Can men have wet dreams about real men? Does this mean I am gay? […]
Peace Love HaPenis
I agree with you and have always been intrigued by dudes who describe themselves as bi. Only an individual can define […]
Horny Enough?
The only thing I need to understand male sexuality is being horny enough when I was young to actually be turned […]
Borderzone Bisexuals
Thanks, your article “Sexuality, Borderzone Bisexuals, and the Need for a Romantic and Platonic Orientation Graph”, it is a revelation to […]
If I Need A Label?
I am bisexual and I fully embrace it. I have known it and enjoyed sex with both men and women since […]
Nine O’Cock
As waves upon my head the circling curl. so in the sacred dance weave ye and whirl, Dance then, O heart! […]
Cathartic Dick Therapy
I’m a big believer in writing therapy! I often do that by roleplaying. Setting a scene with a stranger or a […]
шаман (Shaman)
The word “shaman” is quite interesting. Originally from the Tungusic шаман (shaman), it entered English through German anthropologists. It has encountered […]
Destroy Excuses
We should all be allowed and enabled to explore our sexuality, but we are first locked into societal definitions that quite […]
Men Love Sex
I have long felt that labels of Gay, and Bi, were created to put men in to a category they don’t […]
Not Gay And Not Not Gay
In the 1990s, the world-renowned spiritual teacher and author, Ram Dass, made a significant revelation about his sexuality. Known for his […]