A young man asked on the old site.
Can men have wet dreams about real men?
Does this mean I am gay?
What a great question.
1-Having a dream doesn’t make anything tangible.
2-Having actual sex with a person of the same sex won’t make you gay just as much as having straight sex won’t make you straight????
Geeezus people…get over yourself. What is missing here is the fact that young men aren’t educated by real men about sexuality and I am not talking physical…but as a mentor. When I was young I resisted being gay. One time I had a wet dream with a woman in it and I was like YAAAA I am not gay lol…WRONG lol. But I believe that 99% of wet dreams are homosexual based and that straight guys are afraid to acknowledge this fact. I have many wet dreams where I am sucking my own dick (what does that mean lol) and in the end…it’s a wet dream…YAAAA. As men, we need to let the young men know that waking up with morning wood when your buddy stays over doesn’t make you gay. Having an erection in the gym showers doesn’t make you gay just as much as having an erection in math class doesn’t make you a pervert lol. Stop the if-then routine and use the Hey…I like this…and be yourself.
BCHNCA
Dreams are bizarre, and sex dreams even more so. If you want to dip your toe in the all (nude) men’s pool, though, a circle jerk is probably the best way to start.
Can I get some personal experiences from you guys regarding your wet dreams? As I stated, 99% of my wet dreams involved men, oral sex, and many of me sucking my dick. I can’t remember any with me topping or bottoming with a man.
Do your dreams involve mostly men?
Have yours ever involved self-sucking?
Have yours involved penetrative sex (please state if you were a top or bottom in the dream)?
I am especially interested in your younger “straight” years because I believe that men’s wet dreams are mostly homosexual.
Thank you,
BCHNCA
99 times out of a 100, the person who asks the question “Am I gay because a, b, and c…” already knows the answer to the question.
He worries because he knows the answer is yes, and he wants to hear that he’s wrong.
Giving him notions of “no it doesn’t mean you’re gay, there are no labels, because you can be anything you want…” is simply false information. The majority of us can’t be anything we want.
I feel that “you can be anything you want” is simply code for “it’s ok to be gay”, so why not just say that instead?
Ok so you have wet dreams of sex with real men! Good for you! Enjoy them! Now, your next task is to find yourself a real man and realize your dreams! Find several real men!
So many incels out there grow old a bitter without ever knowing the intimate touch of another human being. You my friend, are lucky to be a man-craving homo. Because you have a multitude of options that straight men lack.
Go in the direction you cock points, forward and up. It’s your compass to happiness.
Very hot and sexy would love to master bate along with you and I enjoy tasting your sweet cum juice .
Cock on the rocks is my taste, yes sir
I really love the cock on the rocks picture. God, I need to jerk off right now. Have a great day and thanks!
This is why as a young man (22 yo) I enjoy browsing this site. Not just for the BEAUTIFUL wonderful daddy cocks, but also because of words of wisdom like what BCHNCA wrote, sexuality is either so misunderstood or so over simplified.
OiOiOi Uwe, it’s not just the horse thats waiting for him, god is waiting
The point of wet dreams is that they are bizarre. The more sexy, the more amazing, the more exploratory, the more satisfying. Just like fantasy – wet dreams need to be fucken awesome. What’s the point of having a boring fantasy? Would a normal situation make you cum man jam in your Jim jam pants? Wake up and smell the coffee peeps and grab your woodie while you’re at it.