Most men have a deep-down instinct for male friendships. It’s true most men are “homosexual” in their social relationships. Beside, our base instincts tells us to “compare” to other men, especially in looks, athletic figure, cock size, cut or uncut. We all human beings wish to have more freedom even to the point of touching another man’s body, cock, etc. Perhaps even trying to fuck a man or vice-versa. This does not mean that all males are either bisexual or gay, but there is something there, according to Freud, that makes kinky when we think about other men, especially close male friends. So, having an obsession with gay porno, doesn’t necessarily mean that you are gay. Most of us keep this obsession for gay porno and large dicks hidden in out hearts. We have been repressed by society, Judeo-Christian religion, and our own manliness. Most men would love to feel free and touch their closest male friend’s cock, even some would love to suck it, or vice-versa. We males are not one hundred percent straight. That’s for sure! So, don’t feel bad. – Anon
I began thinking that Anon, RobtheElder, Peter and all of the images describe my thoughts exactly. And then there are all the comments and I realised, there are so many wise men and we want and need to remove the barriers that keep us all, regardless of orientation, from this exquisite relationship with masculinity. You can’t truly be a Man alone. – Stephen
For years all a guy has to “play” with, admire, get turned on by (other than imagination) is his beautiful veiny hard throbbing dick. Many young guys even shoot their loads into their mouths and happily swallow it down. But later guys say that sucking or playing with someone else’s dick or giving a blow job is a turn-off. Don’t buy it. I think that young men should be encouraged to suck and fuck other guys…for fun…sexual release, to learn to fuck and what feels good etc. If they are truly str8 it won’t turn them gay. – Peter
Male friendships and engaging in touching is normal and natural. Society tells us it is wrong but the truth is it is the best relationships. Once I gave in it is the only relationship I want.
Hi HaPenis,
Sexuality is an essential characteristic of one’s humanity. After a very challenging pre-adult life, my sex life is an aspect of life I’ve had to learn to fall back in lust with, over and over. I recall in high school boasting to my peers that I masturbated to climax seven times in a row, only for the factual reality to be four times.
The heterosexual media I passively consumed in my family really harmed my erotic (and romantic) development.
This website is a positive, affirming portrayal of male sexuality (beliefs and behaviours) bodies (from slim to muscly to chubby to everything in between).
As a man-boy in my 30s, this decade will be a reintegration with my virility and femininity. When such a central psychological component of the self (sexuality) is rejected, infirmity may ensue.
We can all do with body self love, even if, by the highly idealistic (I.e. diversity disapproving) gay male bodies culture (which is unhealthy and unrealistic) we do not come up to par. Imagine if I had loved my junk food belly when I was 25 or sent affection to my tiny flaccid penis when looking at ‘big dick’ porn on the Net. Sexual positivity shows us that we can choose to fall back in love with our unique, sacred, God-given bodies. This process of self love may take me a lifetime.
But it’s a mind-body-heart relationship that can mend traumas and accept ostraction.
Thank you for producing a site that makes me 20% more comfortable to view porn, given the commentary that accompanies that visuals.
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I began thinking that Anon, RobtheElder, Peter and all of the images describe my thoughts exactly.
And then there are all the comments and I realised, there are so many wise men and we want and need to remove the barriers that keep us all, regardless of orientation, from this exquisite relationship with masculinity. You can’t truly be a Man alone.
I have had many male friends over the years and there are a few men I know today where the relationship is quite intimate, but not sexual as yet. Discerning whether they desire more thane just platonic friendship is difficult and a little scary. I have only been with a man in an aroused and naked state once (recently and not near to where I live) and it was wonderful. We explored many amazing things. How will I know if a man in my friendship circles now, might be drawn to me such a way that it would be sexual? I am probably not expressing myself very well.
I agree with thoughts on Male relationships ,
There are many different versions of male relationships . It’s completely natural and normal to be fascinated and or intrigued by another man’s naked body exposed . Who’s self assured with all aspects their lives , and comfortable naked amongst other men of any age just about anywhere and it’s not going to land ya in jail !
We’ve been trained by society that nudity is wrong and inappropriate . Since the beginning of time all men have engaged each other in all kinds of intimate contact. It has been over time schooled out of our mind set.
I can think of one friend of mine whose dick Id happily check out. Ive never seen it (yet) but the size of his bulge is enough for me. Unless I’m wrong and hes got a grapefruit shoved down his pants.
The rest of my mates are mingers 🙂
Terrific music. Erik Satie, Portraite de Socrate. “And now my fellows, I shall praise Socrates … but only for the truth’s sake” perhaps there is a great masculin truth to these works of art.
most men are or can be sexually flexible is in our nature. some are psychic rigid for self- social conditioning and some by their nature i mean pure str8 or pure gay
but most of us can be able to enjoy another’s male sex