3 thoughts on ““Black Brothers #2”

  1. And here we are, in 2024, and predictably, little has changed. In fact, it may even be worse so far as black dudes like me are concerned. Whether gay or straight, contemporary porn has no problem exploiting and objectifying the black man’s penis: from the moniker “BBC” that’s ubiquitous in the erotisphere, to films that have black me cuckolding their seemingly inadequate husbands. It all goes back to (and reinforces) the “Negro savage” stereotype that can be traced to ‘sploitation flicks’ in the 70’s like “Mandingo” to the erotic novels that always had some slutty woman/wife/mother leering after the well-endowed slave/field worker/ranch hand/prizefighter. Even now, gay white men ask me “how big are you?” before making any inquiries as to my thoughts, philosophies, favorite things, et al. Frankly, I am still taken aback when a man (gay or bi) remarks on my smile, my beard, my sweet ass, and not my dick.

  2. Thanks for this research.
    So much queer history is hidden or denied or ignored. Black queer history more so, I suppose.
    The reminiscence of those times evokes my own internalised homophobia that still causes me to squirm a little even as I protest that I have released myself from shame about my sexuality.
    I also squirm a bit guiltily about my own fetishisation of black men.
    These images from the eighties take me back to that place in my life when furtive acquisitions of such magazines was one of the ways I quenched my thirst for erotic connections with men.
    Of course it was also the time of the AIDS crisis and my fears around that further clamped me down and stopped me having fun with guys.
    No regrets, here I am today, happy and exploring (when I can) the possibilities of pleasure between men.
    I love men.

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