Sacred Intimacy

Much has been written on the topic of being married (to a woman) and having a “relationship” with a man at the same time. To me, it all comes down to one’s ability to have […]

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Vilela Valentin’s Homosurreal Art

Vilela Valentin, a renowned artist, is celebrated for his homosurrealist creations that seamlessly blend the male nude form with satirical imagery. Drawing inspiration from the Art Nouveau masters and trailblazers of gay art, such as […]

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Piss Artists

A source of pride in my mid-20s was urinating on the street. Or in the woods, or on a tree in somebody’s backyard. Any place other than the officially designated location for my pee. I […]

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Not Gay And Not Not Gay

In the 1990s, the world-renowned spiritual teacher and author, Ram Dass, made a significant revelation about his sexuality. Known for his transformative teachings on consciousness and spirituality, Ram Dass added a new layer to his […]

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Casual Cocksucking

I’ve been sucking cock now for a couple of years; I started when i was 47, the day after my birthday in fact. I was aware of a local crushing spot so went along, my […]

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Mirror Mirror

I almost always have a mirror nearby but nowadays it’s a small mirror which allows me to focus on my beautiful penis. When I was younger and fitter I would regularly make love to my […]

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On The Crest of a Wave

I am a wanker and a dedicated edger. It is a rare thing for me to just have a quick wank…. why when (as long as I have the time) I can spend hours stroking […]

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How To Look Good Naked

Looking good naked is not just about physical appearance but also about confidence and embracing your own body. Stand tall and maintain good posture. Confidence often comes from how you carry yourself. Embrace your body […]

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Not Into Edging

I’m not into edging because when the actual orgasm happens it’s a total anticlimax, and sometimes I almost feel nothing. Only cum spurts out, but with no feeling of intensified pleasure at all. Instead, I […]

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Unfold Your Own

Since I was a kid felt interest in my own gender. Of course at the time (I am in my late 50’s) it was something I barely acted upon neither was something “normal”. Growing up, […]

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Arse Blessings

May Your Arse Bi/ Blessed. May you realize that your arse is a faithful and beautiful friend of your soul. May you be happy and joyful and recognize that your arse is sacred, holding many […]

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Starving 2014 Review

An emotionally detached sex-starved young man from central Buenos Aires can’t seem to shake the never-ending desire of wanting more. He stalks the dark streets, yearning for that touch – that taste. In this Argentinian […]

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Sex+Spirit = One

Roderick, your commentary on men’s relationships with other men really spoke to me. In the 30 years I’ve been a sexually active gay man, I have had the pleasure and great honour (Canadian spelling) of […]

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