What Others Think

Your struggle will continue until you better understand that how you feel is more important than what others think of you, gay or straight . . . Like you, I am attracted to men more than women . . . don’t get me wrong, I love women . . . intimacy is not just about sexuality. I enjoy the company of fun humans . . . at some point a relationship between two people builds with sharing, honesty, communication of what is sexually pleasure able . . . shame and guilt are the enemies of pleasure. It is necessary for you to be yourself with whomever you are with, find attractive without remorse, without regret. – Brian E Mendyka

Brian E Mendyka thanks for sharing your experience and your wisdom. It seems to me that we live a negotiated life, and what we are negotiating is often what our imaginations, our desires, our hopes, fears, prejudices and assumptions are telling are the constraints.All generated within but massively dependent on what others teach us, directly or by observation. As you say, it is necessary to be yourself … without remorse, without regret. Only then can we live a life that serves us haPenis. Incidentally I love the video. I often burst out laughing after cumming. It feels like there’s a neurological trigger there. Love, Amar xx