Very Homophonic?

I am not an ugly man. I am 59 and still alive. I feel like maybe the area I live in is very homophonic. I get treated like I am scum of the earth. I am with my ex wife but want to have a mutual friend of my own. How do I seek a man with same tendency’s. I want to share with him what I have inside of me. There is so much love I have to share, but forgetting how to put myself out there to be noticed by the right man. HELP! – Ron

Even guys can be very superficial and write you off simply because you don’t have the perfect body, the biggest cock, or are above a certain age. I assume you are already aware of all the hookup apps/sites that are out there. Create a profile on one that you like, and make sure you have a nice face pic. Then you wait. You can send a ”like” or a ”woof” of whatever the app calls it, but don’t appear too desperate or needy. If a guy responds, don’t send a dickpic with your first message. Just say hi, and that you like his profile, and go from there. Let him guide the conversation. Always wait for a response before sending your next message. Try to avoid walls of text and sharing of intense feelings from the very get-go. And by all means, if he sends walls of text at you, that might also be a red flag. You don’t treat someone you’ve just met as an emotional toilet. That comes much later with built up trust, appreciation, and friendship, yet you’d be surprised how many guys fall into that trap. You are also in a precarious situation where you are still with your ex wife, and that alone puts a LOT of guys off. I would leave that bit out of any conversation, until you know it’s an ok topic. But above all, remember that meeting guys online is not ideal if you are looking for love and a true connection. Regardless, if there is a man out there for you, you will find each other. Good luck buddy. – Ben