When I am horny, thinking about eating my own cum turns me on, but when I cum I lose the nerve. Why is that?
What you’re experiencing is actually pretty common and can be explained by something known as the “post-orgasmic shift” or “post-nut clarity.” When you’re aroused, your brain is flooded with dopamine and other pleasure-inducing chemicals, which can lead to heightened desires and fantasies, such as the idea of eating your own semen. This state of arousal can make almost any sexual thought seem incredibly appealing, even if it’s something you might not consider outside of that moment. Once you orgasm, however, your brain chemistry changes dramatically. Dopamine levels drop, and your body releases prolactin, a hormone that promotes relaxation and reduces sexual desire. This often results in a sudden shift in your mindset, leading to what you described as “losing the nerve.” It’s like flipping a switch from being totally into an idea to feeling uninterested or even repulsed by it after the fact. Many men experience this same Post-Nut Clarity in their feelings, whether it’s about eating semen or other fantasies that feel less appealing after ejaculation occurs.
Can you edge? If you can edge to the point of a mini-ejac then you will still be horny and eager to taste your cum. I find that the initial little spurt seems to taste a little sweeter than the full load. Also helpful is freshly brushed teeth – something about that seems to make the semen sweeter too. Once you have tasted that initial spurt, hopefully it will overcum any inhibition about consuming your own load, and you will be able to fully savour the wonderful taste and feeling of your own cum in your mouth. If you’re limber, you can try throwing your legs back over your head so that you can ejaculate directly into your mouth – I loved to do this in my younger days. That way you are enjoying your cum as you are cumming, so there’s no inhibition to deal with. Then get out and meet one of the many men who are more than eager to make a sperm donation to a willing mouth. Enjoy! – Amar Rama
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I think that dopamine drop could apply to a lot of post-orgasmic behaviors/feelings. When we were young did we really feel like cuddling right after cumming? I know I didn’t but now its definitely something I want to do… its part of the relaxation and just experiencing that post-orgasmic glow. Do I still want to do whatever more extreme kink from earlier? Naw… not really. Eating my own cum when I am alone falls between kink and cuddles… Its something I want to do in honor of my own orgasm, in honor and love of my own cock and in honor and love of all cocks/universal Cock. So its something I’m learning to do. Don’t do it every time… but just like cuddles it is something I am slowly getting used to and it feels good to me. I think, others mentioned, starting with tasting pre-cum is a good idea. Love this site.
I offered this comment elsewhere on the site; may it be helpful:
Can you edge? If you can edge to the point of a mini-ejac then you will still be horny and eager to taste your cum.
I find that the initial little spurt seems to taste a little sweeter than the full load.
Also helpful is freshly brushed teeth – something about that seems to make the semen sweeter too.
Once you have tasted that initial spurt, hopefully it will overcum any inhibition about consuming your own load, and you will be able to fully savour the wonderful taste and feeling of your own cum in your mouth.
If you’re limber, you can try throwing your legs back over your head so that you can ejaculate directly into your mouth – I loved to do this in my younger days. That way you are enjoying your cum as you are cumming, so there’s no inhibition to deal with.
Then get out and meet one of the many men who are more than eager to make a sperm donation to a willing mouth.
Enjoy!
I’ve eaten my own cum and while the taste is not disgusting it’s nowt to write home about either. If it tasted of Ben and Jerry’s it might different. (Not their cum, their ice cream).
“Directly after copulation, the devil’s laughter is heard.”
― Arthur Schopenhauer
Thank You foigtester
I agree totally. Rarely eat my own cum.
However I very much enjoy a sexual partners cum and that urge continues even after I have ejaculated.
I hate to stop until the man is totally spent.
finger-lickin’ good
Practice Practice Practice
Always being a top and finishing first more often (at the bottom’s request) I learned to keep my head (both) in the game to suck off my bottom to completion.
I wish this site was here years ago when I was growing up. Maybe I wouldn’t have spent all those years thinking that there was something wrong with me. Thanks for the information–and the pictures.
Bless You!
We all did, and what’s worse is we didn’t talk to anybody about it especially other men. Thank God for Mr. Cox and his ability to break the ice. I want to say hello to all my brothers here and let you know you’re all an inspiration to me!
Same with me. I have all that hot cum in my hand but can’t do it. Same after I have sex with another man… I feel totally guilty and I leave as soon as I can but 10 – 15 minutes later I feel I should have stayed
Same. But my cum tastes so GOOD! I know this from slurping it up from the chests, faces, and mouths of various lovers.