Welcome to the wonderful world of “My Secret Wank Life”. Here at the HaPenis Project we are fascinated by men’s secret wank life. In fact we believe that how a man masturbates is a reflection of his personality. Join the revolution, tell us about your Secret Wank Life, by adding a reply below.
My secret wanker life is mutual masturbation with men, online. I have a few favorites, and we edge for a long time, chatting and looking at pics until we both know that it is time for our mutual, shared orgasm, so deep and intimate. I mostly love just to be masturbating in the presence of another man who is also masturbating, so much so that I almost cum to the thought of it. I’m so excited and happy the moments that we connect, and are touching our penises. I cannot tell my ordinary friends about my passion for mutual masturbation, but I can tell you here 🙂- Jack



For me it’s something sort of new. I was always ashamed to masturbate, now I like to explore and edge and try new techniques. I masturbate alone as my husband is asexual, I have tried a masturbation sleeve but for me the thrill is from knowing I can do it on my own with just my hands. Sometimes I wear erotic underwear, sometimes I watch videos. I have been getting into instructional/guided masturbation videos lately. I wish I could connect with guys who would help guide me on my journey more, but websites like this help. – BennyACT
I consider myself straight guy, but I like to jerk off with friends too (just jerking off, comparing sizes and maybe switching hands). But when there is a girl in between us, then the real party starts 🙂- JohnySerb20
love to edge my cock for hours and days without cumming, once i cumm it takes me a while to get really horny again. i mean maybe a day or two. i have gone as long as 45 days without cumming . usually i last about a week before i cumm . i have said when i am really horny, that will never cumm again just so i stay horny all the time . butt eventually i cumm, love to look at porn and do poppers when i masturbate. i watch and look at myself in a full length mirror.i dance naked and masturbate at the same time while i watch myself. sometimes i blow a big load without really cumming. love the taste of my cumm. i edge my cock every chance i get during the day and at night in bed. my wife has no idea how much i masturbate . she likes to watch me doing poppers and masturbating looking at gay porn. she masturbates also. i have actually edge fucked her and pretended that i came just so i would stay horny. i am a sex addict and pervert and don’t plan on changing. i am going to the bathroom now and edge for a while. i am very horny. i can’t tell you the things i think about. oh i am 78
Jack,
You do honor your name! But don’t mind me saying, it’s not so secretive I think if you jack off with some other bloke. Even if it’s on-line. But I admire your nerve anyway. Jerking off with another bloke is one of my secret wishes too. Though I would like to do in person myself. Getting another bloke a hardon and get him ejaculating wouldn’t be quite enough. Not just to see him squirt. I would like to feel his cock getting hard. And if he likes it I won’t restrict to jerking. I would like to taste him too. If you know what I mean. You obviously do! But like I said I don’t really have the nerve. And to be honest I don’t know if there is someone symphatic in my neighbourhood who wants this slim old man (72!) to relieve him from his inhibitions. But then again who knows? I will be bi-curious!
I volunteer to be your buddy! I was fortunate that I had a Jo buddy starting early. We began early in our school days and continued until I left for college. It created a special bond between us which still continues although we don’t mutual Jack off any more we are still special friends in our older years.
Just posted this comment. It hasn’t my email adress. But I was actually hoping it would. To find that symphatetic bloke in my neighborhood. So: pjdenhaag@gmail.com
Just posted this comment. But forget to tell where my neighborhood is. This slim 72 year old music lover lives in the centre of The Hague, The Netherlands.
As usual, so many amazing liberating comments here! I think I found this site about 5 years ago. I’ve been a bit shy but have started commenting a bit more recently. I guess you could say I have latent strong and powerful homosexual attraction. I used to say I was straight but over time came to “bi”… and now? I know labels are contentious, but it’s think this one one of the powers of this site – it isn’t bound by prejudice.