I enjoy being objectified, especially for my penis. I love when someone focuses on my penis so much that they forget I’m even there as a person. Men crave this specific kind of attention, and because we identify with our penises we never feel left out when someone ignores everything else but our phalluses. – Peenwolf
Men definitely enjoy being objectified. It’s a natural part of masculinity, and also of our anatomy. The phallus is, in and of itself, an object. It aggressively stands out, it wants to be noticed, it penetrates both you mind and your attention, as well as you body. This is why men all throughout history have never understood women’s aversion to being objectified. To them it’s affront, to us it’s flattery. To objectify a woman is to diminish her, but to objectify a man is to worship him. I objectify every man I’m with. I make him feel like an idol. His body is my monument to worship and adore. His pleasure is my command. He is my god. And I’m his. Two beautiful objects carved out of flesh by evolution, made to perfection. – Ben
This thread closely relates to another – “Sacred Witness”. When I am masturbating my cock with another man, online, we are both witnessing phallic worship, and each of us is objectifying the other. When a man is masturbating to the image of my cock it is/I am the object of his sexual desire. And that is the beauty of these encounters! To know that my cock is the focus of his lust is so erotic for me, and when I see his cock ejaculate it’s seed, I feel a sexual satisfaction that is in a way deeper than my own orgasm. There is a pure masculinity in this mutual objectification that I truly love! – Phalluster
This thread closely relates to another – “Sacred Witness”. When I am masturbating my cock with another man, online, we are both witnessing phallic worship, and each of us is objectifying the other. When a man is masturbating to the image of my cock it is/I am the object of his sexual desire. And that is the beauty of these encounters! To know that my cock is the focus of his lust is so erotic for me, and when I see his cock ejaculate it’s seed, I feel a sexual satisfaction that is in a way deeper than my own orgasm. There is a pure masculinity in this mutual objectification that I truly love!
Noticing the eyes of a man or woman drawn to the bulge in my trousers feels good. I like that they are drawn to the sight of my cock and that it’s aroused a primal urge in them.
They can’t fight the primal urge for cock and it’s totally natural.
I enjoy being objectified, especially for my penis. I love when someone focuses on my penis so much that they forget I’m even there as a person. Men crave this specific kind of attention, and because we identify with our penises we never feel left out when someone ignores everything else but our phalluses.
Just as an object yes, not a person, just flesh and bone, no personailty, no emotions
Yes. This is obvious to me. It is part of my (and I imagine most men’s) sexual fantasy. We love the idea of being a desired thing, for itself, without the complications of a relationship.
I am having this experience with my ex, who is 20 years younger than me. And I have to say, for some reason, the sex is more satisfying, as I explore and they explore more. Being Bi and finally having someone to come out with and her allowing me to explore and having her being a visual participant with anther partner, makes us wanting to venture into more areas. I let her control most of the situations, whether it is just with her or another lover.
Men definitely enjoy being objectified. It’s a natural part of masculinity, and also of our anatomy. The phallus is, in and of itself, an object. It aggressively stands out, it wants to be noticed, it penetrates both you mind and your attention, as well as you body.
This is why men all throughout history have never understood women’s aversion to being objectified. To them it’s affront, to us it’s flattery. To objectify a woman is to diminish her, but to objectify a man is to worship him.
I objectify every man I’m with. I make him feel like an idol. His body is my monument to worship and adore. His pleasure is my command. He is my god. And I’m his. Two beautiful objects carved out of flesh by evolution, made to perfection.
Agree 100%. This is a very important part of the difference between men’s and women’s views on sex. Women want it both ways: ‘Want me for my personality and being and also be hot for my bod.’ Well, that’s nice and happens, but it’s just not the way men look at it. Men (well, me anyway) can’t easily jump from lustful objectification of a beautiful body and the gestalt embrace of the whole id. Sorry. We just lie about it and that works until it doesn’t.
Yes, Ben, I totally agree with you. I experience what you describe with every man I’m with. This fact, surely, is why sex between men is the ultimate turn-on for men.