I Left The Gay Community

“You take the first step into a tribe, then you can become one of them. That is what we did when […]

Spiritual Orgasms

Hello Mr Cox, There were only two events in my life where I had experienced these spiritual orgasms. The experience was so […]

Cosmic Truths

As a 66 year old man in a committed heterosexual relationship, this site does sooo much to validate what I feel. […]

The Journey

The journey of being a happy homosexual, is deeply human, connecting to the very core, of who you really are. It’s […]

The Cock Lover I Am

I had a hard time accepting my homosexuality. I married a woman twenty years ago. At the time I thought I […]

Massages By Men

My road to acceptance of my desire for contact with other men has been a decade long progression. Fear of bringing […]

The Wizard Of Oz

I am a happily married man of 55 years. My wife and I have three grown children. We no longer engage […]

UPS Driver

Just this week the hot young UPS driver delivered a package. I happened to be on way out the door at […]

A Thank You

There is boundless amounts of information here. At my advanced age and after 4o plus years of figuring out my sexuality […]

About The HaPenis Project

I wish this site was here years ago when I was growing up. Maybe I wouldn’t have spent all those years […]

I Am What I Am

I grew up in a time where I was a closet homosexual. That was what I called myself. I had a girlfriend, […]

Sacred Intimacy

Much has been written on the topic of being married (to a woman) and having a “relationship” with a man at […]

The HaPenis Widowers

One of my masturbation buddies regularly masturbated with another guy for decades, and then they both became widowers within a year […]

Cowboy Parking

Surround yourself with those who lust in you, those who light you up and inspire you.  Life is too short to […]