“You take the first step into a tribe, then you can become one of them. That is what we did when […]
Sacred Journey
“Sex is a spiritual force when sensual pleasure becomes a means to an end and not the end in itself. The end is meaningful connections, resilience and human warmth” – ON THE COUCH, VOLUME 1 (by Tom Bianchi)
Spiritual Orgasms
Hello Mr Cox, There were only two events in my life where I had experienced these spiritual orgasms. The experience was so […]
Cosmic Truths
As a 66 year old man in a committed heterosexual relationship, this site does sooo much to validate what I feel. […]
The Journey
The journey of being a happy homosexual, is deeply human, connecting to the very core, of who you really are. It’s […]
The Cock Lover I Am
I had a hard time accepting my homosexuality. I married a woman twenty years ago. At the time I thought I […]
Massages By Men
My road to acceptance of my desire for contact with other men has been a decade long progression. Fear of bringing […]
The Wizard Of Oz
I am a happily married man of 55 years. My wife and I have three grown children. We no longer engage […]
UPS Driver
Just this week the hot young UPS driver delivered a package. I happened to be on way out the door at […]
A Thank You
There is boundless amounts of information here. At my advanced age and after 4o plus years of figuring out my sexuality […]
About The HaPenis Project
I wish this site was here years ago when I was growing up. Maybe I wouldn’t have spent all those years […]
I Am What I Am
I grew up in a time where I was a closet homosexual. That was what I called myself. I had a girlfriend, […]
Sacred Intimacy
Much has been written on the topic of being married (to a woman) and having a “relationship” with a man at […]
The HaPenis Widowers
One of my masturbation buddies regularly masturbated with another guy for decades, and then they both became widowers within a year […]
Cowboy Parking
Surround yourself with those who lust in you, those who light you up and inspire you. Life is too short to […]