I Am A Wanker – The HaPenis Project

A Farmer’s Truth

My name is Emre, and I am a farmer in the hills of Turkey. My hands know the soil, my body […]

“Whenever we manage to make love to ourselves without expectations, calculations, negotiations, we are indeed in heaven.” A.MEN – Amen – […]

While some men consider them a hinderance, I find condoms oddly thrilling. In my mind, condoms are linked with the anticipation […]

A long time ago I thought that sex would die after about age 49 or so. Now almost 10 years past […]

Welcome to the wonderful world of “My Secret Wank Life”. Here at the HaPenis Project we are fascinated by men’s secret […]

I prefer cruising. I like walking into a public space and noticing too many men hanging about with a nervous, expectant […]

Complimenting yourself on your beard can be a great way to acknowledge your masculinity and boost your confidence. Authenticity is key […]

I have masturbated in front of somebody else. I think it is a turn on to show them what feels good […]

The Great 13th-century Persian poet RUMI was asked once what to do about a young man caught masturbating. Rumi politely told […]

Your body contains seven special energy centres, usually called “chakras” in tantric literature. Start your session with a gentle massage of […]

Submit to a daily practice. Your loyalty to that is a ring at the door. Keep knocking, and the joy inside […]

Listen to yourself to the subtle flows of emotion, desire coursing through your body. You need not conform to any boxes, […]

I’m not into edging because when the actual orgasm happens it’s a total anticlimax, and sometimes I almost feel nothing. Only […]

“Masturbation is not the happiest form of sexuality, but the most advisable for him who wants to be alone and think. […]