Within many male social circles—especially gay and bisexual spaces—fitness standards can feel intense and hyper-curated. A dad bod breaks that dynamic; it signals a partner who doesn’t obsess over body metrics or live in the gym. As Garrett Schlichte captured when reflecting on the pressure within the community: “Every time I gain or lose weight, I am made exceedingly aware of the power a thin waist and broad shoulders holds in my community. And while I’m thinner now than I once was, I’m still acutely aware of when I’m the only person in the room without a flat stomach… Straight men with average bodies have had their renaissance with the dad-bod movement. When will gay men have theirs?”– Garrett Schlichte
Prefer an (unmarried) Dad Bod…ANYTIME & EVERYTIME!
Normally, this men have larger cocks to enjoy!
My dad bod to share
Dad bods? LOVE EM ! when I started gaining a bit a buddy told me about some websites devoted to dads and dad bods………..Biggercity.com……..Chubroulette.com……….ive never been happier. So accepted and admired and yes even lusted after by gay men who LOVE bigger men. I remember a phrase someone told me many years ago……..” every pot has its cover”……..and its true!……Just have to get out there and find your cover.
All of them are sexy looking.
I feel fortunate to be in a place where I no longer give energy to what others believe is “the standard” – for anything really. I subscribe to the notion “There is a butt for every saddle”. At one point in my life I was that thing that others desired but then a friend of mine said “All puppies are cute” and I realized that would quickly pass, and it did. It gets replaced. I am not saying that what it is replaced with is better or worse either – just different. The more we can say in life “I used to like this, now I like that” I think the happier we will be.
What a well thought out comment. How true life shows us that what was then is not neccessarily now but by the same token it could be better now!