My masturbation is barely linked to sex or libido. It makes me feel good, it allows me to relax. When I am sick, it actually makes me feel better. I am married and we have low sex life. I even get to see from my past relationships that I don’t need so much sex, I don’t seek it a lot. I was “dumped” after several dates because I had not yet done the male thing of asking for sex. Because for me the talks, the interactions, the rapport, were good enough. I have thought for years that I had a high libido and that masturbation was a way to run it. I now realise I don’t have a huge sex drive. Not even average, But I love the relationship I have with my penis, the intimacy, the special feeling when it grows and I can “feel it properly”. I masturbate because it is a nice way to treat myself, to get to accept myself as I am. Since I accepted the bare fact that I enjoy masturbation on its own, not as a sexual activity, I have felt better in myself. I am happier, more relaxed, more understanding of others, caring, empathic even. It is strange, or is it really? that by accepting myself as I am, I accept others better, built deeper, stronger rapports and am in a better relationship with my life partner. Masturbation is natural, it is a part of who and what I am and it accepting it fully in my married life has made me a better person. – Seb Natural
I think every man has his own special relationship with his penis. How could he not? After all, as is often said, that part of your anatomy has a mind of its own, poking up when you least expect it, creating difficult moments for you, or simply lying there, refusing to prove to that other person that he is as powerful as you said he was.
I’ve talked to literally hundreds of men who have all told me unbelievable stories of their penises standing at attention for no apparent reason, at the most inopportune occasion, or getting stage fright at the very moment you are depending on him. We try to calm the little guy, take a break or hide him behind a towel or sports bag if he decides to make you look like a sex fiend.
In an attempt to tackle this universal issue, I resorted to writing about it:
Penises
Penises are wonderful, penises are grand,
Penises are everywhere, they hang on every man,
Penises are glorious, cocks are a delight,
We love to use them every day, and even more at night!
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They can be very difficult, or even brash or shy,
It’s Nature’s way of having fun with every single guy,
Sometimes they tend to disobey our wishes and our needs,
They want to sit and rest awhile, we want to spread our seed!
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But if he decides to work with you, he turns to granite rock,
And you’re the proud possessor of Man’s birthright; SUPERCOCK!
-Leo
since the year my wife passed away, there were periods the only sex life was through masturbating. things change when wife got cancer, so the only left to so play with the penis, dreaming of normal intercourse as the hand go through the motion of entering the pussy. the difference of sex, one has to imagine the pleasure we both recieve from it, my thought of our time together increase the need to masturbing just feel alive as whole person
i have lived with masturbating is wrong, for a large part of my life , I believe my / our christian up bringing made me feel it is wrong until maybe 15yrs ago when i started going to mens club and realised what i was missing out on . I am married and have been for many years. I had a very stressful Job and sex slipped for me and my wife has not been one to encourage sex and didnt know or want to know what I liked. She would enjoy oral stimulation but no return gestures discouraged me. Porn became my stimulation method. I am now faced with my wife having Stage 4 cancer and how will i re-act. I have found these comments encouraging and .challenging.
I met a dentist who answered my offer of oral sex. The only place around where he felt comfortable and safe was off a trail in a nature park near his home and the coffee shop where we met. He had a beautiful cock and his orgasm was deep and strong. On the way back he told me that his wife had been bedridden for over a year, and they hadn’t had sex for even longer.
During our almost weekly half hour walks to a secret spot shielded by oaks, he said that he felt that seeing other women for the affection he craved would be a betrayal; and he also feared he would fall in love and betray her trust when she needed him most. He did not fall in love with a man, but with me and others (I moved away at pandemic time) he deepened his bond with other men, a craving he hadn’t recognized before. The depression he had felt over his wife’s illness and care lifted, and he was able to bring his full self, happily, to give her love and care.
Note: As covid dragged on, he instigated a small group of other men for walks together in the clean air of the park, and in the comradery and comfort of their walks, he felt bold enough to share his experience, and was able to expand his to a few others who would meet him for walks on other days, and seek the shelter of the oaks.
Thank You jack
I have to agree with what you’re saying that masturbating isn’t a bad thing and it actually does make me feel better and calmer when I play with myself too! I really appreciate this comment about masturbating cuz God made us humans and we have true feelings and we have to do what makes us happy for ourselves! I totally understand and agree with this!