Becoming A Gentleman

Extraordinarily Timely. Comforting. Encouraging thoughts and words. Transitioning from being fearful and feared to becoming a gentleman has been a difficult journey. I have lost my fear of loving another man. In the process I have become extremely careful about the type of man who I become emotionally attached to. Men who don’t love other men are to be avoided. Women who don’t encourage men to love other men are to be avoided. Men who love other men, so long as they are gentlemen about it, are worth listening and opening up to. I have met a few but at the time I didn’t know how to proceed. I’m learning, slowly. Cautiously, but no longer afraid. – Alan

5 Replies to “Becoming A Gentleman”

  1. Hello Alan, Wise words. I think the best advice I was given as a young man was about the people you surround yourself with. The advice was if they didn’t add up, you had to subtract them.

  2. u can love a men physcally or virtually
    we love our sport pals our friends no need to have sex with , but is love mild diluted but love anyway!
    physical love is another thing , even once in a while is reaharshing you as you can let yourself go be yourself with a woman ( imho) is not the same u must always be aware of what u do say ask

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