The Secret Life of Men

101% str8You’re great, Seb, in that you’re promoting enjoyment free of fear! How do you feel about a man’s need for contact with male flesh? Same in the Shearing Sheds, mate. The backrub sessions after showers at night are always nude & finish with 69 or mutual masturbation. The married blokes are the hungriest for dick! They can’t get the laughing gear around the head fast enough. (I’m not complaining.) The Secret Life of Men used to be everywhere in Aussie. I reckon it needs to be encouraged & protected again. Get those doors locked at the footy club changerooms, the gyms, the lifesaving clubs, the army barracks & let the young blokes enter the Man’s world of cockfun! It’d be great to see you in Aussie, mate, & to hear what you have to say. Stay hard, suck often. The Team heads Bush in a few days, Seb & yarning about the erotic side of being male has really stirred them up. You’re obviously a bloke who knows his body & the bodies of other blokes. So your opinion matters; it’d certainly matter to us. The young bulls reckon that these are liberated times, but I’m not too sure. At the wrestling club, the young bulls often have the wood on me & I end up held down spreadeagled. One of the few places I reckon where young men can see that an old bull getting his nackers played with roars with laughter as much as they do, yells curses but can’t get enough of being hot dicked while 3 or 4 young blokes tease him & pumps his chest just before they watch him blow a top load. Where else do they see the real thing? I reckon with the unisexing etc of footy clubs, gyms etc, the Internet’s where they’re looking. We’ve just been scanning through some of my Yahoogroups. There’s some great stuff there, but I’ll take my 20’s at Findlays Gym in Melbourne in the 60’s. Mr. Australia at the time, ran it, a great bloke in his early 40’s. 2 sons who soon learnt that a bloke in the gym whose jockstrap bulge was too tight stripped it off and would be masturbating before he made it to the change room or sauna. That’s the way men accept each other! The young blokes all looked forward to being mature men. At Findlays, one wall of the change room was fully mirrored. Bodybuilders of all ages stripped & practised their posing routines there. Peter always ran through a beauty in the sauna. His body was magnificent, athletic & not super bulked as the builders are today. There was always a roar of laughter when Peter hit the traditional pose of one knee bent, chest expanded & a hand clasping a wrist behind his back. He’d bounce his erection, wicked grin on his face, for about a minute. He was proud of his body,  proud to be a man & proud of being erotic! His physique posing routine really got the blood surging through our veins & XXXXx wasn’t the only one who enjoyed the masturbation session.  No waxing in those days,jock-army-bear

Seb. Bodybuilders were given a full body shave by Charlie on a table near the showers. Helped lather up many a body being prepared for a physique contest & had great fun with a soapy shaving brush on the head of a bodybuilder’s dick. They might’ve laughed but never complained. To whip the bush off easily, Charlie slackened the lad’s horn with his expert handjob. He’d been in the British Army for 10 years & got plenty of practice there. Seb, in those days there was plenty of Secret Mens’ Business! Where is it now? A few Shearing Teams like mine, a few Wrestling Clubs that still have M2M Sessions wrestled in the raw, but it’s pretty rare. The young blokes might say that everything’s now out in the open, but in some ways there was far more honest action between men of all ages etc etc than there is now. Georg Hackenschmidt, the great Russian Strongman & Wrestler, regularly gave private physique shows &/or wrestled in the raw for male audiences in Paris, London etc. They always ended in a sex show. He was proud of his body & unashamed of its erotic possibilities. The young bulls in my Shearing Team have seen my collection of Hackenschmidt  photographs & reckon they’d love to’ve been in the audience watching him masturbate. It’s not happening now except in the most restricted clubs such as the New York Bondage Club. Time for Men to strike a blow I reckon! I’ll never forget the world that Findlay’s Gym opened up for me.  Stay hard, Seb, James  be great to see you in Aussie, mate, & to hear what you have to say. James


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About Big Lingam Tantra Male Massage Group, aka The Brotherhood of Pleasure

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A great environment to learn and practice. Loved being natrually naked with other like-minded men in a non-judgemental and non-critical atmosphere. Hands on experience in every way – the only way to learn how to give in a more fulfilling way ”— Pete on Jul 11, 2010.

Truth, Goodness, Beauty – all in a respectful and safe environment.  It is an opportunity to truly connect with yourself and others…and to demystify Tantra! Great One Seb!!! ”— J T on May 24, 2010.

sexological cockNot only is it a way of meeting like minded people and as the first two meet ups proved a way of connecting with others, sharing in their experiences and acquiring new techniques along the way. ”— Warwick

Thanks guys for a fabulous afternoon. wonderful massage, chat and company. any suggestions you have for future meetups of Naked Warriors in Manchester let me know and stay in touch. john ”n May 30, 2010.

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This was a really insightful, lovely session! I learned so much, and was so intensely inspired by watching Lovely Men, who, having never, or done very little Massage before, really excelled themselves. The intention was good, the energy vibrant and flowing, with a sense of connection with everyone. I feel we have all grown so much as Men, learning this. A very Sacred, privelidge to have witnessed. So many ways of giving Men so much pleasure that really enabled them to express their feelings of pleasure. Truly just as the meet was titled: Trust, Truth and Respect. Very much so. Thank you Seb, for all your passionate input, thoughts and planning that goes into making these events so very special.

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On my first visit to this group I have come away wanting to learn more about not only tantric but also the people in this group.  kd on Oct 4, 2010.

very nice massage techniques filled with sensual and engery flow more relaxing can feel when we are having 4 handed massage

enjoy your arseBrotherhood of Pleasure“ I really enjoyed it and will be going back. Lovely food and ace music ”Sep 13, 2013.

Brotherhood of Pleasure“ Can’t wait for the next I can attend ”— Aug 15, 2013.

“ could not have a better group of people and ideas-to give and receive a warm massage- a all round 5 star afternoon -could have spent a whole day working on different bodies -thanks for a great afternoon food -people -host -and great massage space.  PETE on Jun 17, 2013.

enjoy your arseholeBrotherhood of Pleasure“ Very Friendly…. ”— George on Mar 26, 2013.

Brotherhood of Pleasure“ masculine, safe and nurturing. Each time I go I feel able to let go of my inhibitions just a little bit more ”— Mark on Dec 23, 2012.

Brotherhood of Pleasure“ Seb shares the space with so much generosity and professionalism, that one would never believe he actually lives there too! ”— Michael on Dec 23, 2012.

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Very happy to be a member. — Greg on May 29, 2011.

celebrate touch hapiness and your beautiful lingam of course and thank to kindness of seb ”— benoit on Feb 28, 2011.

Have been to 2 meetings, both well organised & enjoyable. The Big Lingam Tantra London group is enthusiastic & friendly ”— Colin on Feb 14, 2011.

Sexual Healers masculineThere should be more groups like this, brave enough to want to get this knowledge out to men. Thanks to Seb & Jayck for putting it together. ”— jeoff  on Jul 13, 2010.

A great, non-threatening, supportive space for men to learn grow and discover their sexual and inner potential ”— Peter 10, 2011.

“ love it, the tantric teacher was very charismatic and genuinely made us enjoy all the moves, this is my first ever yoga and for sure not last, one, thanks for such a positive vibe, made me think more seriously about life appearance and grooming……..inside out ….

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Great evening lots of new techniques…

very friendly and relaxing, and welcoming  Jul 9, 2012.

Great evening lots of great guys and new techniques to be tried … Great to Way to spend an evening..

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Good men, good intention, brother hood. ”— Duff on Feb 4, 2011.

interesting and sexy! ”— Jufdi on Jan 30, 2011

Good men, good intention, brother hood. There should be more groups like this, brave enough to want to get this knowledge out to men. Thanks 4 putting it together.  Jul 13, 2010

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