in Memory of Mike Bernardo

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Michael “Mike” Bernardo (28 July 1969 – 14 February 2012) was a South African kickboxer and boxer from Cape Town. Bernardo was known as Beru-chan in Japan, where he has taken part in K-1 World GPs since 1994. He had notable wins over Mirko Filipović, Andy Hug, Francisco Filho, Branko Cikatic, Stan Longinidis and 3 straight wins over K-1 legend Peter Aerts.mike_bernardo

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Mr Cox, First of all I’d just like to say that I really like your site. Secondly I wonder if you could offer some advice here. I’m a 32 year old male who has never had penetrative sex with either a man or a woman. I’ve often wondered why this is. Without wishing to sound vain I’m not physically unattractive and I’m a pleasant person to be with. Last year I had to leave work because of depression and go into counselling. It took me a while to begin to explore the deeper aspects of my psyche but eventually I managed to start talking about various traumatic events that had happened to me while I was younger. This included being abused by a variety of teachers at different schools and having the shit kicked out of me when I was 17. This led to severe depression, self harming and a non existence social life for about 11 years. I’ve always enjoyed masturbation and I’ve experimented with a vibrator on myself but I have this deep rooted fear about penetration. The odd thing is that I have managed to deal with other aspects of my sexuality more successfully. Earlier this year I started seeing a very good professional dominatrix in London who specialises in adult baby and spanking fetishes. I’ve gained a lot of confidence since seeing her but in penetrative sex terms I would feel more comfortable making my first explorations with another guy. I’m currently weaning myself off anti-depressants at the moment and as these have an effect on my libido I’d like to be off them before I possibly plan a session with you. I’m not really sure what I’d want to do so maybe its something we could discuss. As I said i enjoy masturbation and using a dildo on myself so I think I’d enjoy being fucked. My mistress has suggested to me that I also explore submitting to another guy so maybe this is something we could talk about as well. I wouldn’t probably feel emotionally ready for that in the first place as I really need to deal with my bodies emotional and physical need to have sex first of all but I like to keep an open mind.

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SeB Cox Replies : Doing things that scare you gives you a magickal energy. Have you thought about taking up a physical discipline, like there is kick boxing for example? If you are a bit shy you could try a few private lessons before you take part in an actual class. Remember you need to learn to ride before you learn to be ridden. Come to one of my Rose-Buddy Massage Classes. Oh, and in relation to your depression, have a good wank at least three times a day and eat your spunk, as it contains prostaglandin, a hormone specific to semen, and those who eat their own have lower rates of depression than those who don’t. And thats a scientific fact.  I wish you lots of love and penetration.

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There are men who say they are 100% gay, there are equally men who say they are 100% gay. I am an old man. I have spend my adult life being a warrior. I have on occasions been very brave and asked somewhat very difficult question. I think I may have actually meet 1 man who absolutely convinced me that he was 100% gay, but I am still waiting for a str8 man to convince me, that that the opposite is possible.  I think it was probably in 1975, that I meet a man who got the closest. Even he agreed that he was probably only 99.99%, but after a bit of one or t’other it was definitely slightly less. It was the first time that I ever seen red underpants. You probably won’t believe me, but I still have’ em, anon. From the wisdom of olf cox…

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Although it was in ancient times called the wally wally exercise, Seb Cox like’s to call it the jolly lolly. Before you get started with this cock workout ritual you need to drink a lot of water. To begin you always need to do some warm up and cock stretching EXERCISES. Using a hot face cloth apply heat to your cock and squeeze slowly, STRETCHING your cock away from your balls. Tell yourself how amazing you are. Have a jug of hot water convenient so you can repeat this as required. Take brakes as you need to have a piss. Once you’ve started and are into a really good flow, stop pissing. Pull your cock forward from the base and give it a really good flutter. Don’t worry about some drops going on the floor. Then continue, as soon as you are back into a good flow, stop, and repeat the PROCESS. The muscle you are using to stop pissing is called your PC flutter muscle. Learn to exercise this muscle, as it really helps you to have much stronger EJACULATIONS. You can also exercise it when your not pissing. Make yourself comfortable sitting on the edge of the chair. Become aware of your breathing, remember the more you breathe the more pleasure you rreceive Massage your cock fully erect. Now hang a small towel over your cock and contract the muscles to make the erection stand all the way up against the resistance of the towel. Hold the up position for 1 to 8 seconds. Do 18 to 81 reps. This exercise though mostly for the PC flutter muscle, will also strongly other local muscles.old hung man exposes his huge dick

These contractions stop the muscle from shortening. As you get stronger add weight by wetting the towel or by using a larger towel. Take brakes as you need to have a piss. Once you’ve started and are into a really good flow, stop pissing. Pull your cock forward from the base and give it a really good flutter  Don’t worry about some drops going on the floor. Then continue, as soon as you are back into a good flow, stop, and repeat the process. The muscle you are using to stop pissing is called your PC flutter muscle. Learn to exercise this muscle, as it really helps you to have much stronger ejacualtions. You can also exercise it when your not pissing. My record is 81 stops and shakes during one piss. Can you beat that? Massage olive oil mixed with 9 drops of tybra aromas into your fattening cock. Take your cock and slap it around gently. Slap it more than 30 times, onto your right leg and and then on left leg. Make sure you cover your balls with your other hand. Using your thumb and a finger, squeeze the base of the cock shaft slowly and sensually pull down to the head of your cock. Repeat, at least 81 times with alternating hands. Make sure each stroke last about 3.14 seconds. When your cock becomes SEMI-ERECT, make an “O” shape with your thumb and forefinger of your left hand. Tighten the “O” firmly around the base of your beauty. Starting from the base, pull your cock firmly away from your body, shaking it furiously. This will make the head of your cock expand. Now change to your right hand and do the same thing, starting from the base and stretching downward to the head. Alternate both hands in a “milking” motion, touching upon every part of the penis except the head. Don’t forget to shake furiously. Cuntinue this for 20 minutes everyday. Always finish with ten minutes of gently massage your cock. Then place your cock in a bowl of warm water for another few minutes.

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I was very relaxed, just having had a little smoke. I was lying on my bed naked and horny. My cock was annoying me. I had just changed the bed-sheets and did not want spunk all over them. But, as ever, I decided to give myself a little treat. I generously lubed up my hungry arse and stuck my prosager up it. I must have fallen asleep shortly after that. I awoke to this little device pounding on my prostate. And then it happened. My spunk did not squirt out as it usually does. There was one big blast and I was fucking covered in it. It being, well I am not quite sure, it certainly smelled like spunk, but it wasn’t as thick as my spunk usually is. There must have been at least a half pint of it, yes all in one blast. Beleive me I never cumm that much. If I am honest I was a bit over whelmed by this experience, a bit shocked. I would not like to experience this every time I had sex. But as a very occasional experience I can only say ‘mind-boggling, And by the way I did need to change the sheets, and turn the mattress

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Massage & Sensuality

(From the Discussion Board, Manchester Male Massage Meetup, please feel free to continue the discussion by leaving a reply below)

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Massage and sensuality are all about energy, and the age and shape of the body are less important, yet perception is that an adonis is fully adorable even though they may not be skilled in massage. Why do we equate skill with body beautiful? M

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Personally I don’t equate skill with a beautiful body. Anyway, although it may be a cliché, beauty very much comes from within. J

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I would agree with J. I have built up a network of massage exchange partners of all shapes & sizes, sexualities and genders ranging from skinny (me) to more than a few extra pounds none of us feel it is important to look like a Greek god/goddess in order to give a skilled massage.

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Its interesting that neither person who has replied relate massage skill and body beautiful. I would agree with them as after many years have found that massage skill and energy are what matters, but Ive also seen people going straight for the adonis type when selecting partners to massage (even though they dont know the ability of the other). Ive noticed on here a preconception of people by age and beauty. M

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(From the Discussion Board, Manchester Male Massage Meetup, please feel free to continue the discussion by leaving a reply below)