I’m mid 50’s now, and for 30 years I’ve lived with the same situation. Real lust for cock – suck it, deep throat it, take it in the bum. I want all of that and yet I’m happily married. I used to think it was just when I had a drink or a joint until I met a guy on the internet who is the same as both of us. And I’m lusting for his cock even though I’m stone cold sober. I once went with a guy – 25 years ago – and chickened out just like you have done. Now I’ve met this guy the memories are coming flooding back – repressed memories – I’ve been thinking I get the urge just occasionally, but the memories that have returned are telling me that I’ve always had men on my mind. I don’t know how we’re going to meet but I am intent on meeting him – I have to do this once or I will end up going to my grave regretting that I don’t know what it’s like to have a man inside me. Bite the bullet, find someone in a similar situation, and be gentle with each other. My guy says he’ll be slow tender and gentle – he’s better. He’s 9 inches! And boy, am I looking forward to that. Martyn
Yesterday I experienced my first male anal orgasm, it was the most intense climax of my life and I want to shout about it from the rooftops. Hence me looking for more information today on the internet, and ending up on this site. Every man should experience one, at least once. Some background first : I have enjoyed being penetrated by fingers, vibrators or dildos during oral sex and masturbation with partners for some time now. On many occasions I have solo masturbated with dildos but have never achieved a climax, without also stimulating my cock by my hand at the same time. I read that a small percentage of men can climax purely from anal stimulation and wanted to explore this. I now believe that many or most men could achieve this if they would only:
1 Learn to explore and understand their own bodies.
2 Become less cock oriented.
3 Learn to take their time over sex.
4 Loose their fears about anal play being indicative of homosexuality and so reflecting negatively on their masculinity.
The Orgasm : I had the house to myself and so I went to bed in the early evening. My girlfriend has been away because of work for the past week, and I haven’t cum since she left. We both regularly use a variety of sex toys, so I had many to choose from. I have tried realistic dildos before and found the “veins, ridges and folds” uncomfortable, so I took the smoothest longest (easier to hold) smooth bodied soft vinyl dildo we had. It seemed very large (250mm X 45mm), and a little intimidating, but I knew that because of its size I would have to take things slowly. I covered it with a plain condom and applied most of a tube of KY to the head and shaft of the dildo; then placed a blob on my anus. To insert the dildo I lay on my left side with my knees drawn up to my chest. I relaxed and concentrated on my breathing. I took the slippery shaft in my right hand and curled my first and second fingers around the flared base end to enable me to apply a penetrating pressure. I reached around my right thigh and placed the head against my anus and pushed gently. I am used to being anally penetrated but it took several minutes for my body to adjust to the large diameter. I just lay there and relaxed, keeping the pressure on and the dildo in place.
Eventually I breathed deeply, exhaled and pushed the dildo deeper into me. Then I rolled onto my back with my legs bent and my knees wide apart and upright. When I first inserted the dildo my cock became a little hard, as I paused to allow my anus to adjust, my cock quickly softened. After this my cock was soft for the whole session and just lay upon my belly. Not once did I stimulate or touch my cock in anyway. In fact I forgot about my cock entirely, probably the best thing that I could have done. I begun to move the dildo in and out of my body very slowly. I focused on the sensations I could feel centred about the dildo. I tried different depths, angles, and speeds of penetration and withdrawal. Several times I withdrew the dildo and reapplied lube to dildo or hole whenever I felt I needed it. I must emphasise that I used the dildo for over 30 minutes before I orgasmed. There were a very wide range of sensations, some were very pleasurable, some were just novel and different. Finally I just seemed to settle into an easy rhythm, with the dildo moving in and out for a few inches of the centre of my body.
I noticed that as I began to enjoy the dildo more, my hips began to move like a woman’s, up to meet the penetrating thrust. This surprised me, as did the pleasure I was getting from nothing more than penetration. Then I realised that I was beginning to experience the sensations that usually precede my climax. I looked down at my cock and could see my whole cock contract and expand, the cum hole was in a series of spasms. In effect I was having a dry climax, I was still enjoying the sensations coming from the dildo and so I continued moving it in and out, but with a faster rhythm that felt right. Then I ejaculated, just a little of a clear liquid, much less than normal. The dildo still felt good, so I continued to use it. Although for a second I thought I had wet myself not cum. Then I ejaculated again with the same clear liquid, but a more usual amount. I continued to move the dildo inside me, which now felt really good. Suddenly I came again. This time I shot a forceful stream of clear cum from my soft cock resting on my belly, up my body, across my chest and onto my shoulder. If my head had been positioned slightly differently I would probably have shot cum into my own mouth. I continued to use the dildo, and climaxed in the same violent way 3 more times. Suddenly I felt tired and very satisfied. I slipped the slick, body heated dildo out of my behind and laid it on my belly alongside my soft cock. It had taken me the best part of 40 minutes, and I had cum 6 times in less than 3 minutes.
Afterwards : The feeling of cumming was intense, and very different to a normal climax. It does take longer than a quick ‘solo stroke’, although (I hope) this may get quicker and easier with more experience. Actually, it was so good, that I’m not sure that I could handle it every day. It was very very intense. Having said that I must also say that I am very keen to experience it again, although in a slightly different form. Today I ordered a really hot leather dildo strap-on harness for my girlfriend. We both love anal, and it means we can now share the experience even more. I can’t wait to have her fuck me using the harness and a big beautiful dildo, although we may need a slightly thinner, shorter dildo if she’s in control, as I was really full and stretched.
Advice : I enjoy being anally penetrated and I was psychologically ready for this and to some extent I was physically ready also. If this is new to you, take it slow and easy. Good anal doesn’t hurt. Remember I only used about the first two thirds of the dildo, so a shorter one should be fine, but it may be harder to grip. I don’t know if the large diameter, or the smooth surface and large rounded end helped; you’ll have to experiment yourself. I would also give the advice to put on much more lube than you think you’ll need, and to re-lube frequently. I would also advise you to relax as much as possible, forget that your cock exists, and concentrate upon the sensations in your behind. It will also take time, it can’t be rushed; it could take several sessions before you can orgasm. The cum will be different, more of a clear liquid and the climax intense. Whatever you do, try this at least once, it could change your whole sex life. This must be tried to be believed. Bi/ Osman
Penis Massage 4 Professionals Article for Seb Cox By Barefoot Shaman
Massaging the penis is a form of prayer. The first Penis Massage I have ever had was by a woman. She took her time. It was wonderful! I felt blessed. I was young. 21 years old, and still called myself bisexual…at 40 I came out as gay…finally. There is something about having my penis massage by another man. He knows what he is doing. I’ll tell him how to do it the way I like it best. That he takes his time. By the time I massage a man’s penis, I have massaged his entire body. This usually takes around an hour, sometimes 90 minutes. By all this time of pampering, he is usually ready to have his penis massaged. I usually start by massaging around the scrotum (the balls), the perineum (the area just below the scrotum and in front of the anus). Sometimes I’ll penetrate the man using a digit (a fingertip) as an introduction to the prostate massage. I can usually tell how comfortable he is with this type of massage. Some men are not and a digit is all they can handle for now. And that’s O.K. Massaging the penis involves plenty of lube (massage oils and/ or spit). It can involve one hand or two, depending on the size of the man’s shaft. Sometimes I won’t use my hands, just massage his penis with my forearms. The man’s penis has 7 pressure points or chakras. Just like the body. While most men massage just the tip of their penis when they masturbate, I massage the entire man’s shaft, from the base to the tip and around the bulb (the penis head). Every penis is utterly unique and precious, and needs to be treated as such. Every time it is massaged. This cannot be rushed. Massaging a penis is a form of prayer.
I have only ever experienced a full body orgasm once. The guy that gave that pleasure to me, knew how to deliver it. It was amazing as I felt I was weightless. On this occasion I was lying on my back and he was stroking me with different techniques. Amazing. If only I could learn the same. Usually though, I like to have my manhood massaged by rubbing against another, stroking it fully and with my balls and perineum played with at the same time.
When I am hardest, I like to take a finger and my thumb at the base of my penis and bring them to the tip to get the first few drops of precum. After that the precum flows nicely. I love to play with my precum. When there is plenty, I rub my urethra very gently. I tense up like I’m gonna cum, but I can’t. I do this over and over and play with the precum. Eventually I just get tired of waiting for the orgasm and adjust my stroke til I cum. But I never go fast like so many guys. I never understand why guys move their hands up and down so fast. I’ve tried it and I have no feeling left. Slow lets me feel everything. I can concentrate on the strong feelings. I can think about my toes curling. I feel the muscles tighten in my groin. I can actually feel the cum starting to move through my body before I have that cross-over feeling and point of no return (Slow Lover)
TOUCHING ANOTHER MAN’S COCK MAKES YOU MORE INTELLIGENT. THE ADDED INJECTION OF ENDORPHINS AND SEROTONIN THAT RESULTED FROM THIS INTIMACY ALSO STRENGTHENED SELF-CONFIDENCE. TOUCHING ANOTHER MAN’S COCK NOT ONLY EXCITES THE BODY BUT ALSO THE BRAIN AND THE INCREASED AMOUNT OF ADRENALINE AND CORTISOL HORMONES THAT ARE PRODUCED STIMULATES THE MIND, BODY AND SOUL.