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Society is so hypocritical and limiting. The fact that one calls oneself “straight” or whatever doesn’t reveal anything about one’s true fantasies or desires. It’s not that people can truly know every aspect of your being by simply referring to limited concepts like a presumed sexual identity. “I am” this or that is therefore so simplistic, as if things are fixed and never change. It’s as if that one aspect defines your total state of existence. Jake
Most men have a deep-down instict for male friendships. It’s true most men are “homosexual” in their social relationships. Beside, our base instincts tells us to “compare” to other men, especially in looks, athletic figure, cock size, cut or uncut. We all human beings wish to have more freedom even to the point of touching another man’s body, cock, etc. Perhaps even trying to fuck a man or vice-versa. This does not mean that all males are either bisexual or gay, but there is something there, according to Freud, that makes kinky when we think about other men, especially close male friends. So, having an obsession with gay porno, doesn’t necessarily mean that you are gay. Most of us keep this obsession for gay porno and large dicks hidden in out hearts. We have been repressed by society, Judeo-Christian religion, and our own manliness. Most men would love to feel free and touch their closest male friend’s cock, even some would love to suck it, or vice-versa. We males are not 0ne hundred percent straight. That’s for sure! So, don’t feel bad.
While emphasizing the continuity of the gradations between exclusively heterosexual and exclusively homosexual histories, it has seemed desirable to develop some sort of classification which could be based on the relative amounts of heterosexual and homosexual experience or response in each history… An individual may be assigned a position on this scale, for each period in his life…. A seven-point scale comes nearer to showing the many gradations that actually exist, pp. 639, 656 (Kinsey, et al. (1948). Sexual Behavior in the Human Male)
A Pastor in A Bapist Church in the US has ordered Naked Old Christian Men to Only Think About Jesus While Masturbating.
The church which has recently lowered the allowable age of masturbation to 65 for recent widowers. “We really had no choice,” noted a tired and distraught Pastor Deacon Fred. We don’t ignore the parts we don’t like, as the John 3:16 pseudo-Christians do, nor do we add to the Bible, like those Pope-loving Catholics The new policy is not without its limitations, however. “While the Bible does not outlaw masturbation, it severely restricts the circumstances under which it may occur,” noted Pastor Deacon Fred. The first restriction is that no gentleman will be permitted to reach the stage of ejaculation. “The Bible is very clear that a man’s seed is for copulation only,” noted Pastor.
“In fact, the Bible says that when Onan chose not to copulate and instead released his seed on the ground, God was so angry that he struck Onan dead (Genesis 38:9-10). The last thing we need is some media scandal as reporters click photos of colored janitors removing corpses from Landover restrooms.” Recognizing that a few men may err and sin by not stopping in time, the new policy requires all who decide to participate in the act to register with Pastor Deacon Fred. Specially made Tupperware seed-containers will be signed out of his office by Mrs. Watkins who will be keeping a record to guard against overuse. The sinner must catch his mistake in his numbered container before it reaches the ground. All containers are to be returned to Mrs. Watkins within one hour of check-out. The contents will be collected each week in a larger vat and provided to Mary Lou’s Christian Salon where it will be used to treat dry, scaly skin.
The second restriction is that no man will be permitted to have any sexual thoughts during the process. “The apostles told us repeatedly that Jesus forbids lust, since sex is for baby-making, not anxiety release,” continued Pastor. “We are to ‘abstain from fleshly lusts’ (1 Peter 2:11) and ‘flee also youthful lusts‘ (2 Timothy 2:22), for lust ‘bringeth forth death’ (James 1:15). And more to the point for those debauched divorcees, Matthew told us that ‘whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart’ (Matthew 5:28). This means that masturbation of an erect organ can occur only if the erection is naturally-induced, such as by the morning sun or an overfilled bladder.” Pastor Deacon Fred then concluded, “The only way to masturbate without lust is to keep your mind on Christ at all times.”
The new policy instantly drew the ire of countless Landover members. Longstanding church member, Mrs. Judy O’Christian, was incensed. Despite being a woman, Mrs. O’Christian was allowed to speak since the press conference was held outside the chapel. “As co-chairs of the Ladies of Landover Welcoming Committee, Sister Taffy and I have to greet all new church members,” she pleaded. “This policy means we will have to destroy our silk gloves every time we shake hands with a male member . . . ah, church member, that is. Halston doesn’t sell accessories in six-packs, you know.”
Pastor Deacon Fred attempted to assuage the ladies’ concerns. “This policy will in no way open the floodgates, so to speak. Punishment for violations of the new restrictions will be swift and certain. The Bible says that if a part of our body offends us, we must cut it off (Matthew 5:29-30). Any man found to have engaged in sexual thoughts during the process, or to have reached full fruition without capturing the full emission, will have his organ severed and his preferred hand amputated. And every man will know that when that happens, his destiny is Hell, for as God told us: “He that is wounded in the stones or hath his privy member cut off, shall not enter into the congregation of the Lord” (Deuteronomy 23:1). Rest assured, God takes no stock in the Satanic adage: “A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.”.
- It is not possible for men to achieve an erection in space.
- Priapism (prolonged erection) is named after always-hard Greek god Priapus
- The fear of thinking about or having an erection is called “ithyphallophobia”
- William Shakespeare referred to an erection as “the dart of love”
- A man sued BMW because his motorcycle gave him a two year erection.
- To maintain firm erections, the penis needs to have erections regularly. Without regular erections, penile tissue can become less elastic and shrink, up to 1-2 centimeters.
- The brain has an “automatic penis maintenance” function that cause erections during sleep.
- For some men who are physically unable to have an erection, due to nerve trauma or blood vessel damage, they can use a device like a vacuum pump that causes the penis to swell with blood
- A man has an average of 11 erections per day. He has around 9 erections at night.
Men who are spiritually ill (suffering from homophobia) need to take a big deep breath, followed bi/ a bit of a lie down, as that will make them feel much better, much better, about them cocksucking selves
Researchers say anti-gay prejudice rooted in fears about ‘contamination. Homophobia is not an actual phobia, according to three University of Arkansas psychologists. In a study published in June 2004, these researchers showed that Homophobia originates not out of fear or anxiety – as true phobias do – but from feelings of disgust. The UA researchers also found associations between Homophobic tendencies and concerns about contamination as well as conservative views about sexuality in general. Their findings suggest a social, attitudinal basis for Homophobia rather than a psychopathological one, as the term itself implies.
“If you can identify the underlying emotions of certain attitudes and behaviors, you can better understand how those attitudes formed,” explained Bunmi Olatunji, a UA doctoral student and lead author of the study. “That has implications for treatment, but it also enables you to consider a condition in the proper context. In this case, Homophobia shouldn’t be pathologized.” With the help of various graduate students, UA professor of psychology Jeffrey Lohr has spent the past several years attempting to identify the emotional mediators behind a variety of phobias, including blood injection/injury phobias and spider or insect phobias.
The study on Homophobia – conducted by Olatunji and doctoral student Suzanne Meunier – represents the latest chapter in that program of research. To assess the emotional constructs behind Homophobia, the UA researchers asked 138 participants to complete a series of surveys. These included the Index of Attitudes toward Homosexuals (IAH), the Sexual Attitude Scale, the Disgust Emotion Scale, the Padua Inventory – which assesses contamination obsessions – and three questionnaires that measured levels of fear and anxiety.
Statistical analysis of the results showed a negative correlation between attitudes about homosexuals and measures of fear or anxiety. However, results from the Index of Attitudes toward Homosexuals was positively correlated with results from the Sexual Attitude Scale, the Disgust Emotion Scale and the Padua Inventory. In other words, subjects who showed Homophobic tendencies on the IAH also displayed conservative sexual attitudes, elevated levels of disgust and dread of contamination. “We included the Padua Inventory because fear of contamination clarifies the type of disgust that people are feeling. Without information about contamination fears, you could assume that Homophobic people were just disgusted by the abnormality of the homosexual lifestyle,” Olatunji said. “But this tells us there’s a perception of contagion that feeds into Homophobia.”
The purpose of identifying such specific emotional components is not just to quibble with use of the term “Homophobia” but to understand the origin and nature of the condition. For example, fear and disgust tend to arise out of different circumstances or contexts, and they manifest in very different ways. Fear causes immediate physiological arousal, leading to elevated respiration and heart rate, and it inspires a flight reaction. Disgust, however, triggers a bi-phasic physiological reaction, with heart rate and respiration initially rising but plummeting shortly thereafter. While fear causes a “get me away from that” reaction, disgust manifests as “get that away from me.” These different emotional reactions can lead to very different behaviors, according to Lohr.
“The same emotions that mediate attitude can mediate behavior,” he said. “If fear mediates avoidance, other emotions may mediate attack. That distinction becomes very important when what a person intends to avoid or attack is not an animal or an inanimate object, but another human being.” Additionally, different emotional constructs require different approaches to treatment. Clinical psychologists often treat true phobias by forcing patients to confront their fears. Flooding – or prolonged, repeated exposure to the feared stimulus – can weaken the fear response and allow people to practice controlling their reactions. But such a procedure may not be effective in eliminating disgust and, furthermore, would be inappropriate if the object of that disgust is another person.
Lohr suspects that the type of disgust associated with Homophobia arises from social conditions rather than psychological ones – that it represents a prejudicial attitude more akin to racism than to phobia. If that’s the case, any attempt to treat or reduce homophobia would have to be conducted through a process of attitude reformation, which could occur in a social context such as homes or schools rather than in a clinical setting. “If contempt and disgust drive homophobia, then it seems more of a moral or social problem than a psychopathological one,” Lohr said. “If we start to consider negative attitudes pathological – implying that there’s something medically wrong with prejudiced people, that they’re somehow sick with their own attitudes – that seems to me misguided.”
Commenting on the research Seb Cox said “this research is very interesting but does not consider the fact that most people suffering from Homophobia, are repressed, or maybe even stressed, homosexuals. So to that extend it’s a form of self abuse and should therefore be treated as such, and my research had alot more than 138 participants so is probably scientifically more valid.