You think because you understand ‘one’ you must also understand ‘two’, because one and one make two. But you must also understand ‘and’” ― Rumi
I recently held one of my mindful masturbation classes in London. We used the 3 Circles ritual to guide us as a tool for our sexological learning. Facilitating this type of erotic event scares me, i mean, really fucking scares. But, I am inspired by the Balcan Godess, Marina-Abramovi who says you have to do events that scare you. We began sitting in a circle, we discussed what advice we would give to ourselves as older men talking to our younger self. We all had to write three words to represent that advice we would give ourselves about masturbation.
The words displayed were as follows
Breathe, Feel, Come with Pleasure, Relax, Magick,
Dance, Enjoy x3, No Guilt x4, Love it, Passion,
Relish, Often, Slowly x3, Connection, Float away
I would like to thank the very brave men who attended this event. An amazing evening of self love, massage dance, touch and respect. For myself it was the first time I have ever danced in public. Witnessing the anoniting of our alter with reams of spunk at the end of the ritual really struck a chord. What a celebration of masculinity. What I have learned from this evening is invaluable. The tantric(k)nowledge I have gained will be gently woven into all of my future classes. I do hope you CUMM, i think you would be amazing.
There were only two events in my life where I had experienced these spiritual orgasms. The experience was so immense it is hard to describe into words. Most importantly is recognising that it takes a lot of time to get there and worse of all it is not easy to remain in that state for a long time. Everyday living, the distractions cause you to come off that plateau. I think it is best to describe how I got there and maybe words will come to describe it. It started off with a shower and making sure the insides are thoroughly clean. Lie naked on the bed with several pillows under your lower back raising your bottom slightly in the air. Legs are bent and spread apart like a woman in a birthing position with under the knees supported with more pillows. In this position one should feel comfortable and relaxed with no muscles feeling the strain to support your legs. Begin breathing exercises through the nose all the time concentrating on letting everything go, clearing your mind. Carry on deep breathing while at the same time working on your chakras opening them up. Start with the head, moving down to the throat, down into your chest. At this point your breathing should be shallow and deep and slow and you would be feeling very relaxed.
The hard part is moving the chakras further below to the navel and eventually the groin area. Continual deep breathing is essential to eventually break open the groin chakra. One trick discovered was when breathing in, press gently your pelvic bone in a brush down motion to facilitate the opening of the chakra. While doing this continue to free your mind of thoughts and clutter and focus your eyes slightly to be receptive of a vast expanse of whiteness in the air like an aura. This works better outdoors if you have that opportunity. This is important as seeing this whiteness is the extra energy source which will flow into you and rapidly open up the groin chakra. Another trick discovered is at this point gently play with your anus until it fully opens as you breathe in.
If you have a vibrating butt plug, this will be the time to insert it while your groin chakra is opening. At this point while you are breathing in, you should experience a tingling sensation starting from the pelvic area and slowly spreading down your cock, and into your balls at the same time and finally a tingling from your perineum. Continue this for another twenty or more times until you reach a point that every time you breathe you really feel energy flow from the top of your body rushing down like a funnel into your groin area and flow out again through the perineum and down to your legs and feet. While all this is happening, allow your mind to expand into this vast whiteness you have focused your eyes on and suck in this energy. This will increase the funneling sensations into your groin increasing the sensitivity before flowing out down your legs and feet.
The heightened sensitivity by breathing in continually causing this rush of intense energy being funneled into the groin eventually leads to an internal orgasm ( all the time the vibrating butt plug is still going on). The internal ( spiritual) orgasm thanks to the vast whiteness of pure energy rushing through your chakras to a funnel sensation in the groin and out again is like a massive explosion sending waves of energy through every part of your body through your muscles and nerves heightening your sensations. On both occasions this lasted for five to ten minutes as wave after wave continue to ripple through the body. The end feeling was one of wholeness, completeness, a sense of peace and calm and elation. After all this, the feeling remained for a whole day and the next day and then coming down to earth began to result. Also the first time this happened it took me four hours. The second time was two and half hours. Made me realise that you need to give it time to make it work but it sure was worth it. Trouble is who has two to four hours these days to spare to devote to this. No wonder many people forget themselves and their true inner self. One final note, I strongly suspect the pantra will do a much better job than the vibrating butt plug as the massaging of the prostate and perineum simultaneously will maintain the funnel flow feeling. I have not found four hours yet to try this out but cannot wait to do it when I have the time. Mr D
An orgasm a day can lower a man’s risk of prostate cancer by 20%, Men who ejaculate more frequently lower their risk of the disease. Those who ejaculate 21 times a month or more cut their risk by 22%. This was compared to men who ejaculated up to 7 times a month. Research say orgasm flushes out cancer-causing chemicals and old cells. The researchers, from Harvard Medical School, did not explain why orgasms could lower prostate cancer risk. The researchers found that men in the 40-49 age bracket who ejaculate 21 or more times a month reduced their risk of prostate cancer by 22 per cent. Researchers at the University of Montreal had previously found men who have more than 20 a month slashed their risk of prostate cancer by 28 per cent. And the study also revealed that men who have slept with more than 20 women reduced their chances of getting the most aggressive tumours by 19 per cent. While celibacy, on the other hand, doubles the risk of the disease. The research was published in the journal Cancer Epidemiology. The study followed almost 32,000 healthy men for 18 years, 3,839 of whom later were diagnosed with prostate cancer. Men were asked about their average monthly frequency of ejaculation between the ages of 20 to 29, 40 to 49, and in 1991, the year prior to the questionnaire. They found that the more frequently a man ejaculated throughout his life, the lower his risk of prostate cancer at all three of these points in time.
Commenting on the research London based Cock Philosopher, Mr Cox, said, the subject of male ejaculation is still quite taboo. There is a kind of industry, unfortunately often associated with tantra, that tells men that they should not ejaculate. What these tantric philosophers always forget to mention is, where did they get that knowledge. from. So lets get this absotutely clear. men who eaculate more than 21 times a month reduce their risk of prostate cancer by 22%. .In my opinion men can further reduce the risk by increasing the strenght of their ejaculation.
Viagra could help halt heart attacks and strokes, with some doctors saying it should be routinely prescribed. Italian scientists found drug improved health of men with certain conditions as the key ingredient Sildenafil relaxes blood vessels and prevents damage to heart cells and can drastically improve the functioning of men’s hearts.Men with heart failure who happened to be taking Viagra had far more efficient hearts than other patients. Scientists in Italy have found the drug has helped men with enlarged heart conditions and are calling for tests to be carried out on women.
The team from Sapienza University in Rome looked at 24 studies involving 1,622 men, and published the findings in the journal BMC Medicine. Lead researcher Andrea Isidori called for the drug to be tested on women with heart disease, and said that if the results of larger studies matched his findings, Viagra could be prescribed for heart conditions. He added: ‘We found that the main ingredient in Viagra can be used as an effective, safe treatment. Large clinical trials are now urgently needed to build on these encouraging findings.’ Dosages used for heart ailments are lower than those used for erectile dysfunction, and patients in the study showed few side effects.
“Surprisingly, in over 1600 treated subjects, no increased risk of visual disturbance, photosensitivity and ‘blue haze,’ was observed,” he told NBC News. The active ingredient in Viagra is sildenafil citrate, which is a phosphodiesterase type 5 inhibitor (PDE5i). The inhibitor blocks the enzyme PDE5, which prevents relaxation of smooth muscle tissue. Researchers analyzed randomized trials that had been published between January 2004 and May 2014, choosing 24 involving mixed populations of patients who were treated with PDE5i or a placebo.
PDE5i was given to men who had cardiovascular disorders, but who did not necessarily suffer from sexual impotence, according to Isidori. The study found that the inhibitor prevented the heart from changing shape in patients suffering from left ventricular hypertrophy, a condition that causes thickening and enlargement of the heart muscle. The drug also improved functioning of the heart in patients with a variety of cardiac conditions, with no effect on blood pressure. In fact, researchers found that the drug improved efficiency when the heart pumped blood into vessels, along with relaxation between beats.
“Very few drugs used in cardiology can actually affect these parameters. For this reason their implications in the treatment and prevention of heart failure are huge.” However, Isidori notes that because these studies were conducted exclusively on men, the next step should be a larger trial on women. “I am not surprised and it’s good news,” said Dr. Robert A. Kloner, professor of medicine in the cardiovascular division at the Keck School of Medicine at USC in California. “We can always use a new drug for heart failure.” Kloner co-authored the book, “Viagra: How the Miracle Drug Happened & What It Can Do for You.” He said this is not the first time, scientists have looked to Viagra for potential heart benefits.
In 1989, British scientists tested sildenafil citrate as a medication to treat high blood pressure and angina. By the 1990s in early trials of the drug, researchers noticed an interesting side effect — an increase in erections. In 1996, the pharmaceutical company Pfizer patented it as Viagra, and in just two years, doctors had ordered more than 40,000 prescriptions of the new wonder drug. “When the drug first came out there was a big scare — is this going to kill people?” said Dr. Robb D. Kociol, director of the heart failure program at the CardioVascular Institute at Beth Israel Deaconess Medical Center in Boston. “But in all studies, to the best of my knowledge, it’s not shown any increase in cardiac events in patients who take these drugs,” he said.
Past studies have suggested Viagra and other PDE5 inhibitors may have benefits for heart failure by decreasing pulmonary artery resistance and providing cardio-protective effects in settings with low blood flow, according to Kociol. “They also improve exercise tolerance in patients with heart failure,” he said. The drug may even reduce the size of a heart attack. But Kociol said scientists have to “temper” their enthusiasm as more studies are necessary. “As interesting as this paper is, there have been conflicting results,” he said. “If there is a silver bullet, it remains to be seen.” Kociol added that researchers also need to “pay more attention” differences between men and women and between racial groups. Some earlier research suggests that drugs like Viagra might interact differently with estrogen, which is known to have naturally protective properties for the heart. Still, using a sex drug for the heart may raise some eyebrows. “There is a certain titillation factor when you talk about Viagra — people chuckle,” said Kociol. And for that reason, today doctors prescribe sildenafil citrate for pulmonary arterial hypertension and Raynaud’s syndrome, but market the same drug by a different name — Revatio. Some doctors have suggested the drug be routinely prescribed to men suffering heart conditions. Some 180,000 men are prescribed Viagra and other anti-impotence pills, while many more buy them online. But after Viagra’s patent ran out recently, other drug firms were able to produce cheaper, non-branded versions. The NHS subsequently relaxed its rules, enabling it to be prescribed to any men with serious impotence. Previously, it was only given to those with impotence as a side-effect of illness or treatment such as chemotherapy. The price of generic drugs is now just £1.45 for four tablets, compared to four of Pfizer’s Viagra pills at £21.27.
This could be very long “play by play description. To be concise I will provide it on that basis. Paul explains…
While I prefer to please a man as I am pleased, I can adapt the use of my fingers, hands, lips, tongue and mouth to reflect his needs.
Ideally (after initial preparation, including the optimal ambiance available) I want our entire naked bodies to be as close as possible without actually touching to absorb each other’s warmth and aura. I always end this procedure by breathing into each other’s mouth.
I will position his supine body on a comfortable surface with his legs spread, and a soft pillow or rolled up towel elevating his hips. I will have him place his feet flat on the surface and draw them up to meet his buttock, and then spread his knees.
Then I let my warm hands, moist with coconut oil hover over each of his chakras, to transfer energy.
After visiting each chakra I return my left hand to hover over his fourth (heart) chakra and my right hand to hover over his genitals and anal area (first chakra). Slowly my hands, now warm with and generous laden with coconut oil (sometimes I use olive, grapeseed, almond or other edible oils) make contact with him.
I tell him to breath deeply and never to hold his breath, not to resist but to just let go as if he were riding on a gentle wave. We breathe in unison. I will speak to him gently relating that he is a male supreme being of the creative force, and we are taking a journey together.
I will communicate with him, throughout, with words of assurance and comfort, but, primarily, with my fingers, hands, lips, tongue, and mouth, and that he will experience many plateaus of sensation (not yet orgasm) where he will feel a oneness with the creative force.
Throughout the objective will be to channel his inner energy through six of his chakras to the First Chakra (The Root chakra), located at the genitals on the front of the body, and the base of the spine in the rectal area. This is the center of the sexual/genital area, and gateway to sexual identity and source of orgasmic sensation and the act of creation.
This collective energy can be transmitted via the spinal nerve cells to the pineal gland to release endorphins, serotonin, dopamine, etc, creating a state of “whole body” bliss akin to a collective physical and mental, and spiritual orgasm. Paul
In ancient taoist teaching your cock is your god symbol, representing complete male and complete giving. It was taught that your cock had 5 virtues.
- Kindness : As a sacred tool, it keeps giving and giving.
- Righteousness : It’s not selfish. it’s only ai is to please.
- Courteousness : It is polite, it goes where you want.
- Wisdom : It has the wisdom to satisfy
- Honesty : It will keep working until it’s duty is complete. He is completely honest.
Because of it’s godliness many will want to worship your cock. This will give you an amazing energy. How you choose to use this sacred energy is up to you. Lot’s of love and lust on your sacred journey, god almighty.
How do you like to have your manhood massaged
interesting question – a few different ways:
1) teasingly – like to keep it interesting so that the mind and body may or may not know what’s coming. In a way it’s like flirting with touch, not being too forward, thus creating an atmosphere thick with anticipation
2) mentally via authentic connection and companionship – like to feel safe and comfortable being myself around men. Enjoy laughing, playing, talking, supporting, with or without sexual, sensual and or platonic touching
3) body to body – hugging, snuggling, embrace. Full integration of body, and hopefully mind, while letting down inhibitions for how we expression of affection, both conversationally and physically
4) yogically – love the idea of tantra and tying sexuality into meditation, massage, and movement with other men
(Scott writing on his Brotherhood of Pleasure Profile)
“Your dilemma is one that many guys face as their sexual feelings and mortal awareness surface in later life. Do not feel dirty or guilty about these desires as they are common in men. Perhaps you need to try man2man sex with an experienced facilitator and then assess your marital relationship and how you can protect those you love. Whatever you do, do not die wondering what it would have been like to suck and enjoy a horny cock or have some virile guy furiously fuck your body because he wants to. We have needs, we have sex and we love. I love the way the plumb-head of your cock is engrossed by foreskin.
I’d like to have it offered to my mouth so I could explore and expose the sweet joy under it’s pink wrapper. I could then ‘brojob‘ that yummy prick into experiencing something no wank could ever match. Humans are odd spiritual creatures. Any unadventurous bloke who was confronted by a cock as nice as yours would find themselves dropping to their knees and wanting to swallow it. And remembering that one good turn deserves another, you definitely must try it. Many guys reckon they are straight but cocks and arse-holes just enjoy attention regardless of gender. And all guys have wet dreams of sucking their own cocks so why not do it to someone else and make their dreams come true”. biguy