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It will be a new experience for me, but exciting and thrilling. I can imagine myself being massaged and feeling the touch of the other person, but also feeling from inside the vibes that we both will be creating,. For me it will be about body movements that are guided by the natural instincts. The physical aspects of the body: the texture of the hands, the warmth, skin contact… alongside the ‘silent’ communication between us: eye contact, heartbeats, smile… Put all this together, and this is how I would want my manhood massaged. I am excited to know what feelings it will bring!

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I have only ever experienced a full body orgasm once. The guy that gave that pleasure to me, knew how to deliver it. It was amazing as I felt I was weightless. On this occasion I was lying on my back and he was stroking me with different techniques. Amazing. If only I could learn the same. Usually though, I like to have my manhood massaged by rubbing against another, stroking it fully and with my balls and perineum played with at the same time.

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Prostate Milking Tips & Techniques

massage his prostate fast and furiousMost men enjoy fingering their prostate while wanking. I find it takes my self pleasure to a higher level, I seem to esc ape into another world as I feel a deep sense of warmth emanating from my prostate and sending spasms of pleasure around my body. I usually begin by lying on my back and pulling my knees towards my chest. Just using the tip of one finger I spend about 20 minutes stimulating my anal sphincters. My arsehole absolutely loves this stimulation before I slowly push my finger into heaven.

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Lay on your back with your legs spread as wide as possible. Lift up your calves, exposing your gorgeous arse. You can place a pillow under your lower back to raise your arse, to allow easy penetration and full movement. Prostate Milking is easy in this position and entry can be really deep. Everyone’s prostate is small; the average prostate weighs about 25 grams when a man is not erect. During erection the prostate swells and some evidence suggests it can then weigh up to six times more, as ejaculation is anticipated seminal fluid flows in.

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When you are sexually aroused the part of your cock that is inside (marked A in the diagram above) presses on your expanding prostate (marked B in the diagram above).  You can feel the inner part of your cock when you are aroused by simply running your finger along the ridge between your arsehole and balls, your perineum. You can gently massage this area with one finger circling 81 times to the right, breathing deeply and then 81 times to the left. Then place the tips of your four fingers on your perineum and vibrate your fingers furiously. Then relax for some time, become aware of your breathing, flutter your arse for several minutes, and repeat the exercise, butt this timing bring your circling finger all the way along your perineum directly onto your anal lips. Placing the tips of your fingers and thumb around your anal lips, vibrate furiously for several minutes and relax. Then, sliding a wet finger inside is of course, optional, butt highly recommended.

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Prostate Milking Toys, are a great tool for prostate milking, Aneros or Nexus are the best. Avoid toys made by other companies. Remember the internal sphincter muscles within your arse do not allow things to pass through unless you relax and take it sensually. I kind of tease my arse with the aneros. !/4 inch insertion then completely push the device out. With a lubed finger then sensually massage your arse ring in circular motions at least 81 times. The as you breathe in insert the aneros a further 1/4 inch, hold your breather and then as you exhale push the device completely out again. Repeat the arse hole massage ritual and continue 1/4 by 1/4 inch until the device is fully inserted. Once the aneros is fully inserted relax, Relax for 10 – 15 minutes for your arse to become accustomed to the aneros. Try placing your hand on your stomach and breath in deeply, slightly squeezing your buttocks together as you inhale. Slowly exhale feeling your stomach and buttocks relax, gradually increasing the intensity. Use your free hand to message other erogenous areas, e.g. the scalp, the forehead, the area just below the throat, just below the chest, the inner thighs or the rear calf muscles. Sensually contract the anal sphincter, taking 8 to 15 seconds to maximum contraction, hold for a few seconds, and then relax the muscles for a further 8 – 15 seconds. Breathing should be synchronized with this anal sphincter exercise. Inhale deeply as you contract the muscles and exhale as you relax. Repeat this process up to 81 times. Everyman should milk his prostate for immense pleasure and amazing ejaculations. Some men reject prostate milking as they fear it might “turn them into a homosexual. So what if it does. It might be the best thing that ever happened to him. For ore tips on turning gay click any image below.

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mighty sexy spanish bull fighter naked great fuckable arseI am currently writing a book about penis massage instruction. I want to include a chapter where men who have received a penis massage give advice to those who are new to giving. Tell us about your experiences of having penis massage? How could it have been improved? What type of music do you like to listen 2 when having the massage? Were your nipples included? Did you have your balls massaged? Did you give instruction, or were you completely quite? Did they tickle your rosebud ? Did you cumm ? What instruction would you give to someone who has never given a penis massage before?

59 wanking techniques

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  1. DOUBLE SQUEEZE : Bring both well-lubricated hands down on his shaft. Some cocks are so big they require both hands. If your partner’s doesn’t, then use the other hand to caress and lightly annoy his balls, or tighten around the base of his shaft. If both hands fit along the length of the shaft, move then together, up and down, in the typical pumping motion. Hold the shaft really tight, push your fingers in deep circular motions deeply into his cock. If your partners shaft is so big it need more than two hands give me a call, PLEASE.#
  2. THE HEAD SQUEEZE : try holding the head of his cock with your right hand, the bottom of the bell should rest on your pointer or middle finger, while the thumb is resting across the top of his cock head. squeeze and jerk in a circular motion, it feels mad good!!! (matt)
  3. THE HAND OVER HAND : Just take your left hand and stroke down from his head to his balls. Then take your right and repeat. Alternate left and right strokes in a downward motion. This is an easy technique that can make you shoot a lot further
  4. THE GENTLY COUERSSING : start through fantasy so begin to get hard. Use hand to gently touch face,(upper lip, chin neck), Touch lightly stomach neck, tummy thighs. Get hard, and drop some baby oil on cock. gently run fingers up and down the cock. Pull skin back, and run thumb and two fingers up and down cock, thumb carassing up to the head, while fingers gently couerssing the side (fenelum ?) Keep going gently so the pleasure intensifies,vary the pressure to maximise pleasure, until you shoot. Joe_s
  5. UR LEFT 1 : wank with whole hand fast im right handed so do it with ur left 1 it nice. ellis
  6. THE FRENUM JERK : By gently pinching and wanking the frenum skin under my cockhead. sr.cumecici
  7. THE ICE PHWOAR : Get som ice stuff it up ya ass. make your fingers in an o shape and rub up and down then thrust your self against a pillow get some new ice and touch up your cock with the ice phwoar It is making me hard just thinking about. Eric
  8. FINGER TIPS JERK : I like to and usually hold my cock with my fnger tips and jerk like that rather than with the entire hand as some do. I feel I have more control this way and I get more eroused. Dave
  9. THE BACK TO FRONT : Try wanking but sort of back to front sourthumb is furthest away from your body! that is niiiiccceee?! (LJT)
  10. THE SHAFT : Stroke only his shaft, ignoring the head. You will notice it fattening. When it’s rock hard, use the GREASY KNOB, or the Perpetual Penetration
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  11. THE EXPLORER : The shaft of a man’s lingam cunt-inues down past the balls toward the anus. You’ll feel the unmistakable hardness if you press between his scrotum and anus. Try rubbing that hidden base to really turn him on. You’ll be stimulating his prostate at the same time.
  12. THE BELLY RUB : Bring his erect lingam so that it rests on his belly. Put lots of lube on your hand. Rub his lingam gently into his stomach, up and down going away from his balls and then sideways with your little finger running along your balls. Squeeze the head of his lingam
  13. THE RING THE KNOB : i use 2 fingers ,the thumb and forefinger to ring the knob without lube and with the second hand i stretch my balls down urkane
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  14. Edging : Bring yourself close and then start all over again, Edging yourself to joy, Edging yourself to pleasure, Edging yourself to a greater ejaculation
  15. THE HANK: I use my left hand and lube, start with your hand underneath the bell and full grip then drag your hand over it so your pinky is now touching your bell bottom and your thumb pointing towarda your balls, reverse and cunt-inue till u cum it’s so nice (hank)
  16. THE PALM OF YOUR HAND STROKE : lubeurhand up and ruburballs all over. then using the palm of your hand stroke the back side of your shaft fromurballs to your bell. then go over and run down the top side ofurshaft. carry pm until you get a HUGE orgasm! yum wanka
  17. THUMB THE CENTRAL VEIN : Holding your hard cock place your two thumbs on your central vein of your beautiful members! This will play with the blood in the penis. It is a good wank. Also play with your crown of the glans, bottom of bell, it feels amazing! Such a shame you run out of hand! I love guys! Viva la cock! (Nick)
  18. The Nice N’ Easy : turn ur hand backwards so the back of ur hand is facing up with ur nuckles line up parallel to ur cock. curlurfingers & thumb aroundurcock and slide each finger of the end one by one. then stroke back to the original position & repeat. Its a lot slower than other techniques, but a lot more intense.
  19. THE SKIN OF YOUR SACK : Get your ball sack nice and warm so it stretches out a bit, then grab the skin of your sack, pull it back and try and stuff some of it into your ass. Then squeeze your ass cheeks together tight with the skin of your balls stuck in there, grab your cock, and wank away. Chuck
  20. ROLLING YOUR BALLS : start rolling your balls with the palms of your hands and rub some lube on you dick an lay on the bed and relax then fantasize about something sexy an wank slowly with your eyes closed then increase your spead and cum like theirs no tomorro. big bob
  21. THE PUBIC TUG : As you are stroking him, lightly pull on individual pubic hairs on his testicles. Don’t pull so hard that you remove them, but tease them.. Why do you think he has hair on his balls?
  22. CIRCULAR HEAD RUB : As you hold your extremley hard and throbing cock in one hand, take your other hand and gentley rub the head in a circular motion with your other hand. I am doing it now and i am just about to blow …… Oh yeah, holy fuck that feels so good! Mat
  23. THE 50 PENCE : Make a 50 pence shape with your thumb and forefinger, and pump up and down with this ring. When you get to the top, close the ring, gradually stretch your cockhead around to your arsehole. Make him squeeze his way in as you slide back down to the bottom.
  24. THE BIG COCKAMOS : grab the shaft and run ur hand down to the bottom then rapidly trust ur hand to the top of the helmet repeat and squeeze ur balls gently then alternate to hard while thrusting ur hand from the bottom of the shaft to the top. 2 shirts : i lay 2 shirts top of eachother and fold them twice, rap it around my cock and slowly with a light grip slide either the shirt up and down my cock or slide my hand up and down on the shirt, either way it feels amazing. Briscoe
  25. THE TIT WANK : no lie here lads wana tit wank get 2 warter baloons fill them up but not to cold its horabul if they burst and you will get sutch an emense plesure. Declan
  26. THE ALL OUT CRAZY : like to lay on my right hand side, layout some porn and slowly start to stroke my my cock whilst i create a fantasy in my head using the images i have. once i have it i just go all out and crazy on my cock untill i come, o and i prefer a posh wank, love the jonny. Paul
  27. THE AGAINST THE TABLE : Slowly build yourself up to an erection and then stop. Then slowly build yourself up again then stop. Then line yourself up with a table. Take which ever hand is not your wanking hand and use it to press it against the table (this feels really good if you put lube on the flat surface) Rub your hard one with your left and ad slide it back and forth against the table at the same time. This feels amazing! Timmy
  28. THE ANY DOOR WILL DO : i like to rub it against doors, any door will do, makes me hot..mmmmm. bill
  29. THE SO BIG : Bring your right (well-lubricated hand) down over your fatening cock.then use the other hand to caress and lightly annoy your balls. Tighten around the base of your cock. If both hands fit along the length of the shaft, move then together, up and down, in the typical pumping motion. Hold the shaft really tight, push your fingers in deep circular motions deeply into your cock. If you’ve got a really fat cock
  30. THE HEAD SQUEEZE : try holding the head of your cock with your right hand, the bottom of the bell should rest on your pointer or middle finger, while the thumb is resting across the top of the cock head. squeeze and jerk in a circular motion, it feels mad good!!! (matt)
  31. CRY BABY : Wank yourself in the usual manner and cry at the same time. Let yourself go and have a really good winge as you wank. When I am really stressed or upset about something this really helps to relax me. Always results in a very powerful orgasm. Make sure you taste the results you will be surprised. This is a guide to make your spunk taste like honey. Really, try it.
  32. STAND UP AND HOLD YOUR COCK : Use both hands, and start thrusting the throbbing hot cock into them without moving the hands. Do this until orgasm, squeezing the cock a little bit. The pleasure feels like your fucking somebody, and it feels really amazing.
  33. STIRRING THE CUP OF TEA : Can only be done uncut. Shift the skin of your cock upward so there’s a good amount of it above your knob end, almost like the neck of a balloon. Either with lube or pre-cum, put one finger into the mass of skin and wind it round and round the bell. Can be done solo or by someone else for you. Takes ages. A release of watery cum or piss helps boost the liquid around your knob end now and again. As your finger winds round and round you’ll feel one particular part of your glans or bell giving you immense pleasure. Find it Moist
  34. THE WHERE THE FUCK IS IT? : Place one hand between his legs, literally, and the other gently on his stomach. Very slowly slide your hands towards each other without touching his cock AND repeat SEVERAL TIMES
  35. The O2E : Make an o shape with your thumb and index finger, and pull your cock through. Tighten the o so that it becomes more like an e. Gradually pull the rest of your fattening cock through. Holding the e shape very tightly Doodle your beauty from left to right. Gently flap it about. Alternate between O and E. Gently pull your legs forward. Start to use a finger on your write hand to spell out in your best handwriting “O2E”. Pull your legs even further back and gently expose your arsehole.
  36. EACH DOWNWARD STROKE : I love to masturbate lying on my back with my balls resting on my thighs. With my thumb and forefingers encircling my penis I run my hand up and down the shaft. My trailing little finger strokes my balls with each downward stroke. Meanwhile the thumb and forefinger of my left hand tweaks my erect nipples to add another delicious sensation to those in my penis. Sometimes, I swap hands. Because I don?t masturbate very often with my left hand, when I do so it feels as if another man is playing with my penis which arouses me even (Sandy)
  37. The SOFT COCK FLOP : flop his ligam out as its already getting semi hard in your hands wrap a fist around its girth and squeeze tighter and pull his foreskin right back on itself so it smoothes out down the rest of the shaft and hold tight and then roll it back up over the head and pinch closed with your fingertips and repeat (Ken) •The Some Intense Sutff : Get his lingam fully erect, then pull his forskin down as far as you can without it hurting, then make an O with your fore-finger and thumb and place it over his retracted foreskin to stop it going up and down to cover the glands. Then massage in normal manner. (Wank4Eva)
  38. THE JAPANESE BUTTERFLY : You can start, but it is impossible to finish it yourself, it is soooo INTENSE. It needs to be done by a friend (OR GOOD MASSEUR) with a lot of patience and goodwill, because it can take a LONG TIME ’til you cum. You MUST use a lubricant. It is done with BOTH HANDS, hand over hand, always in ONE DIRECTION ONLY, with a strong, steady and regular beat. If UNCUT: It must be done downwards, towards the body. If CUT: it can be done either towards or away from the body, but near the end most people prefer the downward stroke. You will shake and writhe before you shoot. Everybody shoots a HUGE LOAD (Dave)
  40. THE SUPER SLOW : When I am hardest, I like to take a finger and my thumb at the base of my penis and bring them to the tip to get the first few drops of precum. After that the precum flows nicely. I love to play with my precum. When there is plenty, I rub my urethra very gently. I tense up like I’m gonna cum, but I can’t. I do this over and over and play witht he precum. Eventually I just get tired of waiting for the orgasm and adjust my stroke til I cum. But I never go fast like so many guys. I never understand why guys move their hands up and down so fast. I’ve tried it and I have no feeling left. Slow lets me feel everything. I can concentrate on the strong feelings. I can think about my toes curling. I feel the muscles tighten in my groin. I can actually feel the cum starting to move through my body before I have that cross-over feeling and point of no return (Slow Lover)
  41. THE NICE AND HARD : LEt’s say you’re masturbating or you’re with someone and you’re knockin’ boots, work you’re cock liek you normally would. Get it all nice a hard. Just as you’re about to come to orgasm, press your fingers in that little area between your scrotum and you’re anus. Now you have to press HARD. The area I’m talking about is this fleshy muscly part under the scrotum. It’s actually right before the anus. What this does is block the seminal bladder so you get this build up of spunk your body wants to ejacualte. This swells up against the prostate and it feels fucking amazing. the orgasm starts as normal but keeps building and building and building. Make sure you push up into the pelvis, not forward that feels weird. Try it next time you’re in the shower. Let me know if it works for you! (M_Canada)
  42. POLISHING NOB : while i am wanking, if i flex my inner thighs and focus on me arse, while thinking about taking a nice guy, some times my whole body lets rip, like great fits of the body… an may shoot meself in the face LOL this happens less, when thinking of a nice hairyarsed guy and polishing me juicy nob a little, but can be just as poweful an enjoyable (Bushman)
  43. THE CHIN RUB : Get your cock erect and lube it up. Take your hand and with an open palm, rub the bottom side of the head of the penis. Best when you start slow and then speed up toward the end. If uncut, pull the skin back with the other hand and hold it back will rubbing (Chin Rub)
  44. THE cha(V) : Make a (v) shape with the fingers of yor your left hand. Now push down hard against his thickening lingam down to the base. Then lift your hands up and down. cunt-inue in this manner for a while, with constant gentle pulling of the skin around the balls with your right hand.
  45. THE ANVIL STROKE : Bring one hand down, letting it stroke the lingam from the top all the way to the bottom. When it hits the bottom, release it. Meanwhile you’re bringing your corresponding hand down to the top of the shaft, creating an alternating beating motion, hence the name “anvil stroke.” Think of those blacksmith duos who keep up a double beat pounding motion as they beat that rod of iron on a piping-hot anvil. Ok, relax don’t get carried away.
  46. THE KNEADING LINGAM : Take the lingam in both hands, fingers lightly touching the sides of the shaft. In order to visualize the position, think of yourself kneading flower and butter together. Now flick the penis back and forth between your two hands by holding on to the loose skin of the shaft. Kneading it back and forth in this manner may not seem incredibly thrilling to him at first, but pretty soon, as it builds up momentum, it will drive him crazy.
  47. THE BOOKENDS : Place both of your hands side by side against his shaft like a pair of bookends. Now push gently against his beuatifully fattening lingam. Then lift your hands up and down. Continue in this manner for a while.
  48. THE BASE CLUTCH : Tighten your thumb and forefinger around the base of the shaft, pressing down on the balls. This will cut off the blood (acting as an impromptu cock ring) and help you steady the shaft in your hand. If the skin on it is slick and immutable, you can stroke the lingam with more friction, thereby enhancing the excruciating experience.
  49. THE PUBIC TUG : As you are stroking him, lightly pull on individual pubic hairs on his testicles. Don’t pull so hard that you remove them, but tease them.
  50. THE TICKLE : Tickle his balls with one hand while you tickle his lingam with the other
  51. THE PERPETUAL PENETRATION : Grabbing the lingam at the top, let his fattening lingam ‘penetrate’ into your fist on each stroke. Before the head of his fattening lingam pops out of your hand, bring the other hand up for the next tantrick penetration. This way it seems to him like he is penetrating deeper and deeper into an infinite cunt-inue. Make sure you keep the penetration continuous for tantric results. Try faster or slower to taste.
  52. THE PALM SWIRL: Use your open palm to swirl around the head, the way your tongue would lick an ice cream cone. This sensitizes the head, and will make it get larger and turn (even more) red. Try reversing direction for a surprise.
  53. CLOCK COCK : As in “The Palm Swirl”, use your open palm on his glans, but stop at each “hour of the clock”, and make circular motions with your open palm. This will make this part of the head EXTREMELY sensitive, so move to the next hour after a few circles. Pay particular attention to 5 and 11 o clock.
  54. THE RING : Make a ring with your thumb and forefinger, and pump up and down with this ring. When you get to the top, close the ring, then make him squeeze his way in as you slide back down to the bottom, use your hand hand to massage his anal lips
  55. THE GREASY KNOB : Put alot of lube on the head of his lingam, and try to open a tantric door knob coated with grease. Now try turning the other way. Repeat.
  56. THE SO BIG : Bring your right (well-lubricated hand) down over your fatening cock.then use the other hand to caress and lightly annoy your balls. Tighten around the base of your cock. If both hands fit along the length of the shaft, move then together, up and down, in the typical pumping motion. Hold the shaft really tight, push your fingers in deep circular motions deeply into your cock. If you’ve got a really fat cock… •
  57. 4 the well-foreskinned : You get yourself nice and erect then with one hand around the shaft raise the skin forward over the knobend to cover it. Push a well-lubed index finger down the foreskin and rub the helmet. The best area is the frenulum at the underside of the glans and the best stimulation is from a rapid jabbing up and down of the finger and you can swipe the finger round the ridge of the helmet now and then. It’s quite novel (Amar)
  58. THE JACOB MCMANUS : While wanking as usual, I like to use both of my hands one on top of the other so that my whole dick is getting attention and then as im about to cum i stop and then, using the palm of my hand, massage the head of my dick until its unbearable and i wank fast and cum all over the place (Jacob McManus)
  59. THE BETWEEN MATRaS : i wank by sticking my cock between the matras and sliding it in and out till I blow my load! Jarrod