Music : Cumm Dederit By French Composer Armand Amar
I always say to other men (especially the poor, deluded straight ones who are so worried about ‘making’ her cum, about ‘giving’ her a good time) that my pleasure is my own responsibility and my partner’s pleasure is their own responsibility. I am not meaning selfishly taking my own pleasure and not caring about others – I am talking about joint action where both/all parties are creating a mutual pleasure party without pressure or demands for performance. If it becomes work, and ‘come on, come on, cum’ that’s much less fun, much less free. I want a banquet which means that I can feed you tidbits and morsels as well as myself and take pleasure in your pleasure as well as my own. That’s how it is for me – I am not telling anyone reading this how it has to be for you. I hope that makes some kind of sense. Amar Rama
