1. Create a comfortable and relaxing environment: Lingam massage should be performed in a comfortable and relaxing environment, free from distractions or interruptions. Set the mood with soft lighting, soothing music, and a comfortable massage surface.
2. Communicate with your partner: Before beginning the massage, talk to your partner about what they are comfortable with and what they would like to experience. Discuss boundaries, expectations, and any specific desires or concerns.
3. Start with a full-body massage: Begin the massage with a full-body massage to help your partner relax and get into a receptive state. Use long strokes and gentle pressure to help them release tension and connect with their body.
4. Focus on the lingam: Once your partner is relaxed, you can begin to focus on the lingam (penis). Use a gentle touch and a light amount of pressure to massage the entire penis, including the shaft, head, and testicles. Use your hands, fingers, and thumbs to explore different sensations and stimulate the lingam in a way that feels pleasurable for your partner.
5. Be present and responsive: As you give the massage, pay attention to your partner’s reactions and respond to their cues. Listen to their breathing, sounds, and body language to gauge their level of pleasure and adjust your technique accordingly. Remember that lingam massage is a highly personal and intimate practice that requires trust, communication, and sensitivity. Always prioritize your partner’s comfort, boundaries, and desires, and approach the massage with an open mind and a non-judgmental attitude.
