I’m someone who believes that almost everything we consider “normal” is constrained by societal expectations, most of which are based on religion. Imagine if those expectations were a bit different. What if married men were not only allowed to but expected to engage in mutually satisfying sex with other men – homosexuality. I have no doubt that almost all men would be happier. Imagine if on the way home from work you, and many other men, would stop by the corner bathhouse to either get or give your buds there oral sex and release, then you went home to the wife and family.
Imagine if on weekends men got together with their buds to watch sports, but also to mutually masturbate and suck each other off during the game. Imagine if all male friendships were expected to have “benefits” – of course buds would suck their buds cocks because we understand that all men want their cock sucked until it explodes in a mouth. In this world there is room for those who mostly want to give, those who mostly want to receive, those who want to share, those who are 100% gay, and those (rare) individuals who are 100% hetero. Imagine how much better our family and professional lives would be in this world! – Phalluster
I agree that had not religion been involved things would be different. It starts with circumcision. And you have Arab cultures that separate women because they are just to have babies. And women lose interest in sex naturally. At my gym, a married guy loves to JO in the showers. He doesn’t want to touch or do anything other than see an erection and JO. I think that’s cool I had a FWB who is “bi” but only comes around when he’s not dating a woman (super straight acting personal trainer). Looking at the Arab culture, I am amazed at how DL they keep their homosexuality hidden. But then again, look at the Samurai,..how many westernized people know about the homosexual aspect of that? Singlets in wrestling are minimal covering because you wrestled naked in the Roman Greek era. People don’t like to acknowledge the sexual aspect of men being together.
A bathhouse in the early 1900’s.
Yes Phalluster.
Always been happy here to do my part toward that end.
Peace. love and HaPenis. brother.
Just one word has to be changed: men should be welcomed, instead of expected, to have male on male sex. I believe the desire is there, I witnessed it during my gym days, guys I’d recognize with wives and kids, getting erections and then either masturbating with the rest of us, or getting in on the action. Unfortunately you are correct about many religious and social pressures cause men to suppress their desires.