After reading the “Sleazy or Sacred” post, I feel I must respond to those men whose seem to see sex as an “either/or” proposition. IT IS NOT. You […]
Frottage History
Frottage, derived from the French word frotter, meaning “to rub,” has both an artistic and sexual connotation. In the realm of art, the term became popular in the […]
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I think every man has his own special relationship with his penis. How could he not? After all, as is often said, that part of your anatomy has […]
Dionysian Buddhism
I have a friend who as a young man was very handsome and flirty, but he ran away from romantic encounters and for a long time lived in […]
A Hug And A Tug
Hugging is a great way to gauge the mood of another man. You first embrace him, one arm over his shoulder, and one under his arm. This will […]
The Relationship I Have With My Penis
My masturbation is barely linked to sex or libido. It makes me feel good, it allows me to relax. When I am sick, it actually makes me feel […]
Sexual Healing
I’ve recently engaged in sexual healing myself. For some time I’ve been talking to this man online. 47 years old, married to a woman. A woman who doesn’t […]
Dimitris Papaioannou
Without doubt, the greatest artist of our times, Dimitris Papaioannou is a Greek experimental theatre stage director, choreographer and visual artist who drew media attention and acclaim with […]
G(o)d Sex
Seb, I’d love to see a post on sexual “performance” in general. What constitutes “good sex” among men? All the possibilities and nuances. I think the focus is […]
I Love You, Brothers
Masculinity appears toxic to anyone who cannot embody it. It’s certainly not an inclusive ideal. And these days where inclusiveness is a mantra, and where everyone gets a […]
Sacred Witness
When a man observes another indulging in the intimate act of self-pleasure, a fascinating interplay unfolds within his mind and body. Mirror neurons ignite, allowing him to vicariously […]
A HaPenis Artist
“Inside you there’s an artist you don’t know about… say yes quickly, if you know, if you’ve known it from before the beginning of the universe.” – Rumi […]
HaPenis 157th Birthday Canada!
I think it’s not just coincidence that a few buds and my self spent the day at Toronto’s nude beach this weekend. One end is mixed (hetero), the […]
Flexing My Cock
I’ve trained myself to edge for an hour or more and then bring myself to the “edge” and then stop – then flex my cock muscles and shoot […]
Extremely Gentle
Very gentle, extremely slow, going with intuition and flow, feel the pleasure rising. Slower than ever. Imagine that my cock is divided into millions of miniature pleasure zones; […]