“Whenever we manage
to make love
to ourselves
without expectations,
calculations,
negotiations,
we are indeed
in heaven.”
When masturbating, my default is to look at porn on the internet, either photographs or videos. I get aroused especially by watching men kissing, sucking cock or rimming. Sometimes, though, it’s good to move away from the laptop and concentrate solely on myself. Rather than looking at external images, I enjoy focusing on how my body feels and responds to my touch. I like to gently stroke my cock, rub my nipples and finger my anus. Using some heated massage oil heightens the pleasure further. Taking my time, I savour each sensation and relax into the experience, as I make love to myself. The final reward is an intense and satisfying orgasm, followed by waves of peace. – HugH
I have the same default as Hugh, but agree that being completely alone helps me focus more on me. I also find that I come to organ more slowly and engage all my senses much more. Especially the intimate smell and taste that the various glands and sex organ produce makes for a very personal experience. Enjoying my own touch and watching the head of my cock become increasingly dark red/purple and my scrotum tighten just before watching the spunk leap and flow is always amazing! Not sure how this can be bettered! Although the opportunity to share the experience with another guy would be good I think!