Red tantra is not so much about the destination as it is about the journey. Procedures and manipulations have evolved over perhaps thousands of years and focus on a giver and a receiver who can alternate these positions during a session for a shared and equal journey. Most of the procedures and manipulations can be adapted or adjusted for a solo journey (as I have done). Your preparation for relaxing the anus (sphincters) is accurate and your description of how to insert a finger and what to do with it when it is inserted is also accurate. But tantra does not begin with the first chakra. The first chakra is where you channel energy from the seventh, sixth, and fifth to the fourth or heart chakra, and connect them to the second chakra — the wand of light — via the third before transferring it to the first. I always used one or two fingers to dance on my prostate, and could short cut the entire process by achieving sensational orgasms without stroking my cock and ending in either ejaculation or inejacuation. Short cutting as you have described provides a great experience but I assure you though lengthy the more orthodox tantric procedure is more rewarding — by the extraordinary pleasure during an for a long time after, but the great sense of who you are, self appreciation and your entire sense of being. Dorje
I’ve been practicing Tantric masturbation for a couple of years now. Sessions can typically last hour or more. Transmuting the energies from Root Chakra up the Kundalini line to Crown is challenging when release is near.
However, breathing and squeezing either your arse or penis and riding those waves (squeezing them up through the chakras) you can begin to feel the energy move up through the body. I also have found that being vocal (Throat Chakra) by openly saying to the universe just how fucking amazing I feel, how grateful I are for my erection and how my release is only gonna be repurposed after and not wasted. (By consuming your delicious load/energy)…I will even sometimes let my erection soften as the energies are moved to my upper chakras. Then harden up again for more intense building and oozing.
But when I release I give thanks for the impressively large amount of semen I’ve stored by holding that energy back and using that inter flow to circulate and transmute. Pure astral projection as my semen leaves me and is collected for consumption. Good diet and care can produce a extremely satisfying and delicious reward for your time.