A Big Lad

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  1. In my earlier years I wasted a lot of effort on longing and feeling dissatisfied with my average cock.
    Fact is, it’s always delivered pleasure, feels great in my hands and has drawn compliments about how it looks.
    I have envied bigger endowed men in the past and would love to have a long and thick cock with large low-hanging balls – but it’s just a fantasy, a nice idea.
    I really appreciate looking at sizeable cocks and I’ve had a few in my mouth and once fucked by what I thought was impossibly big for me.
    I both get and regret the fervour around big cocks though.
    It’s hard to imagine feeling indifferent to cock size.
    Well, it’s hard to be indifferent to how cocks look overall – some are just gorgeous, others not so much.
    Ultimately, I feel that we are all blessed to have have cocks and more blessed are those who share our cocks with each other.
    Size is just a factor and for me, big is nice, but not essential.

      1. I’m sizable but not huge, and it was only very recently that I’ve shown my body off much. Growing up as a precociously gifted nerdy kid, I was always objectivified for my brains, though people liked me for my personality and later on my looks. And I was too religious to make anything out of that.

        I know my wife loves me for other things, becsuse I work hard to support my family financially, emotionally, culinarily, etc. But I can’t say it’s hurt at all having a “magical penis” in her words. It’s certainly smoothed over the rougher times in our relationship and been a source of stress relief. It’s also one source of confidence generally, and if other people are attracted to me because of it, we’re all clear upfront that they only got to see it because there’s no chance of acting on it.

        Do I sometimes feel a little used, sexually, like a human dildo? Occasionally, but I can only blame myself for constructing a persona that leads to that since I tend to be very servile in close relarionships. And for all that it still feels validating to be wanted that way.

  2. I’m on the big side. Interestingly enough, my early adventures with guys were mostly circle jerks, so that’s what I’m into. But with women, you learn early on that she has to be on top.

  3. I think it’s depressing that our current culture has such a vacuous and somewhat puerile obsession with genitalia of any kind (I postulate that if we had a culture where we rarely covered up our bodies we wouldn’t have developed such a fetish about genitalia) but the obsession with large penises is very dispiriting. Firstly, there’s only so much penile length that will go into a bodily orifice, so even you’ve got a twelve inch dick you can still have some sort of sex despite the ‘it’s too big for sex’ claim. I’ve had sex both as a ‘top’ and ‘bottom’ with people with various sizes of penis and the size of their cock didn’t ultimately have any undue influence on how much I enjoyed it. Granted, in a world where big cocks are flashed around like ‘status symbols’ in porn, alluded to in popular culture as ‘must haves’ and having never seen another fella’s erect dick before I came out, when a bloke with a big cock did have sex with me there was an initial ‘ooh!’ moment but that was transient; I’d never be with a bloke because he’s got a big dick. A few years ago I was chatting up a bloke at a local sauna who, when saw my own ‘big’ but not ‘huge’ cock, seemed to lose interest in having sex and started going on about his own penis size which I would say was average, one I would having wilingly licked and sucked all night as I liked the person to whom it was attached. If you like a person, feel drawn to them and want to express your attraction to them with sex then any size of cock they may have is exciting to be with.

    1. I have to say, I agree with you entirely, as much as I like to look at big dicks. But when it comes to sex with someone, which is usually for me a form of “making love,” meaning emotionally involving, dick size doesn’t matter in the slightest and my focus is the whole physical, mental and emotional man. One of my fovourite men of all time had a cock and balls small enough to put in my mouth all at the same time. Pretty delicious. BTW, you write very well.

    1. Masters & Johnson found the average penis to be just over 15 cm. Ethnic variation is measured in fractions of a millimeter.

  4. I like it when People see my big Cock and that’s why I like to show him.
    It’s very arousing when my full Erection is seen everywhere

  5. I love this post! Brilliant remarks by the commentators. Where does this leave us? Back with who we each are and what we’ve got to work with. It’s all good, or all bad, or a little of both. I love it! I LOVE MEN! Any size will do.

  6. Oh. My. God.
    Only dudes with small dicks would come out with a list of reasons why being well hung is bad. A list made up of things they IMAGINE would be problematic. Things they assume and are willing to tell themselves to help them deal with the fact that they HAVENT got a big cock. Trust me, its not a problem. Its the best thing in the world and any guy who thinks it would be somehow negative or full of setbacks is just a guy with a small (sorry, “average” ) size cock who’s trying to make himself feel better.

  7. Can someone with a big dick (9 inches (23cm) plus) answer a question please? What did you do to hide an unwanted hardon at school when you were 16 or 17? My cock is 5.5 inches long (the .5 is important to me!) so I could move my hardon so that it lined up with my zip and was therefore less prominent. But you can’t do that with a nine incher. It’d be higher than the belt of your trousers. I did ask a guy once online, an American dude, but he just said that he let it show because all his schoolmates, boys and girls, wanted to play with it. Could a less confident hung dude enlighten me? Thanks.

    1. Andy, yo soy gay, espero no ofenderte por ser gay, y mi polla mide 6 pulgadas, con más o menos 15 o 16 centímetros.
      Y creo que está bien, como gay cuando se presentó la oportunida de tener algo con alguien de tan solo 19 cm, ya era una problem para mi, demasiado dolor.
      De hecho, preferiría que tu entres dentro mío que lgo tan grande, y estás dentro del parámetro de lo que se considera normal.

      No tiens un micropene, y créeme yo he visto y es la mita del dedo pequeño de una mano en erección, eso no te hace ni cosquillas.

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