It’s a fact that the average sized penis is approximately 6.5”- 7.0” long, so why do men pander after owning a whopper, isn’t a Mini just as smart, if not smarter than an Cadillac?
If you ask most men does size matter, you’ll probably get a response like, “Its not the size, its what you do with it that counts” or, “it’s the girth you should be interested in baby, not the length.” While both are honest replies, these sorts of response, to an obviously probing question, highlights the uncomfortable relationship between a man’s brain and his penis. Dare it be said, the very essence and centre of his masculinity is being put on the spot here! The reality when it comes to driving big motors is that most women prefer the cute and nifty Mini to the understated grandiosity of the Caddy In today’s fair and equal society you would assume that gay men would have the same regard for big’uns as their heterosexual sisters, nice to look at but you wouldn’t want to ride one. However, many a gay lad is known to be fond of the tag XXXL often extending a warm welcome to “the newest and biggest boys in the girls’ class”. To those particular big boys: listen up, finding an adequate parking spot amongst the twinks, muscle marys and boyish babes hanging out in Soho is gonna be, trust me, not that easy. Boys and girls, it ain’t “big is best” it’s, “how snug is my red-hot motor gonna feel in your parking slot?”
So read on and learn that big is often a drawback not an advantage, it can so often wreck a perfectly good relationship-if you’ll pardon the unintended pun-by coming between two people. It’s not my intention to talk about why big boys are so sort after and admired by women and men alike, rather I’m more interested in the problems big lads face in their day to day lives. For example, how does a big guy who’s over thirty maintain his erection for any decent length of time without the aid of some diamond-shaped chemical stimulant? Think about it, a big dick needs more blood than a small dick; any problems with circulation and you’re straight down the doctor for some jolly blue Viagra. Then there is the problem of only being able to put the tip of your stick, into the mud, because the puddle ain’t as deep you first thought. Being big is a problem for many men who measure up beyond the average mark, so think long and hard you small guys about wanting to play with the bigger boys. Whether making a frontal assault or one on the rear, big boys don’t always have it so easy.
Someone once told me that if I had 5 inches I’d be a very different person, and although I think this person was trying to have a go at me I do think they were probably right, but not having 5 inches I cannot be 100% sure. Yes being above average does offer a degree of self-confidence that those who were at the back of the queue for willies, I suspect lack. But don’t be fooled, being big brings with it serious problems. For women its breasts that are the issue, some women will attempt breast augmentation to ease their sense of inadequacy, but having done so these same women often find they have made an error in their beautification process, and so later request reductive surgery note Jordan a.k.a. Katie Price or is that Andre? Equally some men have sort the skills of the surgeon to enhance their own standing in the arena of love. But have these guys ever thought how embarrassing it can be when you are walking down the street, dressed in a pair of loose fitting boxers underneath those baggy jeans, and you get a stiffy? You can’t hide such things when you are well endowed, well not as easily as those with smaller dicks. I was reliably informed once, by an East London prostitute who has many years of experience in the SM scene, that “those you’d say were well endowed expect to get their cocks abused… why? Cos its so big.” When I asked what was meant by “abuse their cock” I was given a long list of punishments beginning with spanking and gentle whipping, progressing on to, “the insertion into the client’s urethra of several graduated, sounds or metal rods” and sometimes ending with the “piercing ritual”, ouch! There is of course always the advantage that being hung like a horse means you can push the shopping cart while not actually being near the thing, but that should only be a party trick, performed amongst the very closest of friends and never in public.
I am a first-hand witness to the dreadful consequences such bravado can have upon a couple and wiser for the experience. Ever since my ex stormed out of the local mini-market, announcing to the shocked onlookers that I was not her boyfriend, but some stalking pervert with a thing about grocery shopping, I have carried a basket rather than push a cart around the aisles of the out-of-town Supermarket. Three months after the incident with the shopping cart I heard my ex shout back at me, as she walked through passport control on her way to a new life, “It was all those fucking afternoons I came home from work to find you watching that queer guy on Supermarket Sweep that convinced me we weren’t compatible.” Finally, to all you guys still reading, ask yourself this, if you were/are a big lad, how’d you know your partner is interested in you, maybe its just what you keep hidden in your pants that keeps them sweet? I have asked myself this question every time I chat somebody up and I am forever coming up with the same unreliable answer, “Its my mind they are interested in not my dick”. Then something happens once too often; as you kiss last-night’s conquest goodbye you are given a phone number, which later when you call it you are greeted with those immortal words “Can I take your order please sir?” Its then you realise the girls and or boys are only interested in what’s down your pants. Eventually you find yourself surfing the Internet for anything on “cheap rate penile reduction surgery”. Of course you will always get those who are envious of another man’s endowment, but they are the deluded ones, the hypocrites. While feebly dismissing the significance of size, they secretly hanker for that 3” diameter vac pump. Which leaves just one last thing to say, come on people give the big guy a break, its hard enough as it is being big, but having to live up to everyone’s great expectations only adds to the pressures of being the “the boy with most to offer”. – Dillon Toyne
In my earlier years I wasted a lot of effort on longing and feeling dissatisfied with my average cock.
Fact is, it’s always delivered pleasure, feels great in my hands and has drawn compliments about how it looks.
I have envied bigger endowed men in the past and would love to have a long and thick cock with large low-hanging balls – but it’s just a fantasy, a nice idea.
I really appreciate looking at sizeable cocks and I’ve had a few in my mouth and once fucked by what I thought was impossibly big for me.
I both get and regret the fervour around big cocks though.
It’s hard to imagine feeling indifferent to cock size.
Well, it’s hard to be indifferent to how cocks look overall – some are just gorgeous, others not so much.
Ultimately, I feel that we are all blessed to have have cocks and more blessed are those who share our cocks with each other.
Size is just a factor and for me, big is nice, but not essential.
Thank You, Amar, A wiseman once told me that it’s not about the size of your cock, butt, more about the size of your orgasm, and the sound of your roar.
I’m sizable but not huge, and it was only very recently that I’ve shown my body off much. Growing up as a precociously gifted nerdy kid, I was always objectivified for my brains, though people liked me for my personality and later on my looks. And I was too religious to make anything out of that.
I know my wife loves me for other things, becsuse I work hard to support my family financially, emotionally, culinarily, etc. But I can’t say it’s hurt at all having a “magical penis” in her words. It’s certainly smoothed over the rougher times in our relationship and been a source of stress relief. It’s also one source of confidence generally, and if other people are attracted to me because of it, we’re all clear upfront that they only got to see it because there’s no chance of acting on it.
Do I sometimes feel a little used, sexually, like a human dildo? Occasionally, but I can only blame myself for constructing a persona that leads to that since I tend to be very servile in close relarionships. And for all that it still feels validating to be wanted that way.
I’m on the big side. Interestingly enough, my early adventures with guys were mostly circle jerks, so that’s what I’m into. But with women, you learn early on that she has to be on top.
I think it’s depressing that our current culture has such a vacuous and somewhat puerile obsession with genitalia of any kind (I postulate that if we had a culture where we rarely covered up our bodies we wouldn’t have developed such a fetish about genitalia) but the obsession with large penises is very dispiriting. Firstly, there’s only so much penile length that will go into a bodily orifice, so even you’ve got a twelve inch dick you can still have some sort of sex despite the ‘it’s too big for sex’ claim. I’ve had sex both as a ‘top’ and ‘bottom’ with people with various sizes of penis and the size of their cock didn’t ultimately have any undue influence on how much I enjoyed it. Granted, in a world where big cocks are flashed around like ‘status symbols’ in porn, alluded to in popular culture as ‘must haves’ and having never seen another fella’s erect dick before I came out, when a bloke with a big cock did have sex with me there was an initial ‘ooh!’ moment but that was transient; I’d never be with a bloke because he’s got a big dick. A few years ago I was chatting up a bloke at a local sauna who, when saw my own ‘big’ but not ‘huge’ cock, seemed to lose interest in having sex and started going on about his own penis size which I would say was average, one I would having wilingly licked and sucked all night as I liked the person to whom it was attached. If you like a person, feel drawn to them and want to express your attraction to them with sex then any size of cock they may have is exciting to be with.
I have to say, I agree with you entirely, as much as I like to look at big dicks. But when it comes to sex with someone, which is usually for me a form of “making love,” meaning emotionally involving, dick size doesn’t matter in the slightest and my focus is the whole physical, mental and emotional man. One of my fovourite men of all time had a cock and balls small enough to put in my mouth all at the same time. Pretty delicious. BTW, you write very well.
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC10523114/#:~:text=The%20pooled%20mean%20length%20estimates,showed%20variation%20by%20geographic%20region.
research shows different statistic to what you do in the article – view the list above as it also indicates the regions – this study was done over year and years and seem to be the most accurate
Masters & Johnson found the average penis to be just over 15 cm. Ethnic variation is measured in fractions of a millimeter.
I like it when People see my big Cock and that’s why I like to show him.
It’s very arousing when my full Erection is seen everywhere
I love this post! Brilliant remarks by the commentators. Where does this leave us? Back with who we each are and what we’ve got to work with. It’s all good, or all bad, or a little of both. I love it! I LOVE MEN! Any size will do.
Oh. My. God.
Only dudes with small dicks would come out with a list of reasons why being well hung is bad. A list made up of things they IMAGINE would be problematic. Things they assume and are willing to tell themselves to help them deal with the fact that they HAVENT got a big cock. Trust me, its not a problem. Its the best thing in the world and any guy who thinks it would be somehow negative or full of setbacks is just a guy with a small (sorry, “average” ) size cock who’s trying to make himself feel better.
Can someone with a big dick (9 inches (23cm) plus) answer a question please? What did you do to hide an unwanted hardon at school when you were 16 or 17? My cock is 5.5 inches long (the .5 is important to me!) so I could move my hardon so that it lined up with my zip and was therefore less prominent. But you can’t do that with a nine incher. It’d be higher than the belt of your trousers. I did ask a guy once online, an American dude, but he just said that he let it show because all his schoolmates, boys and girls, wanted to play with it. Could a less confident hung dude enlighten me? Thanks.
Andy, yo soy gay, espero no ofenderte por ser gay, y mi polla mide 6 pulgadas, con más o menos 15 o 16 centímetros.
Y creo que está bien, como gay cuando se presentó la oportunida de tener algo con alguien de tan solo 19 cm, ya era una problem para mi, demasiado dolor.
De hecho, preferiría que tu entres dentro mío que lgo tan grande, y estás dentro del parámetro de lo que se considera normal.
No tiens un micropene, y créeme yo he visto y es la mita del dedo pequeño de una mano en erección, eso no te hace ni cosquillas.