Simple rule I live by and has served me well…”if I would be ashamed to tell my wife about it then it can’t be right.” That’s my moral compass. That’s my guide. My wife does know I am attracted to men as much as women. She knows I crave cock now and then. But! I wouldn’t do anything outside my trusting marriage to ruin the gifts of honesty and faithfulness. That’s very hard to find in this world today. She doesn’t mind me worshipping my cock whenever I need to… If you have that in your marriage, guard it and protect it…that too it as sacred as the cock between your legs. Mick
I guess this additional comment on what I have written above is directed mainly at you, Mick, with a respectful and grateful nod to Phalluster who may read this. I had been leading a happy “secret life” as a very active closeted homosexual until a silly slip up a few weeks ago forced me to tell my wife everything about my sexual life since I was in high school! I imagined that I had always been true to myself and hence to my marriage. That feeling pales by comparison with how I now feel when I am looking my wife in the eye as I tell her about sexual experiences with men, past and ongoing, and why being true to myself as a homosexual means so much to me. We are now reviving our own sexual relationship which had withered and are moving toward a new, completely open kind of relationship with each other based on full acknowledgment of each other’s sexual desires and needs. The new trust and openness we are now establishing with each other may even lead to sharing men we both want to have sex with, both separately and as a passionate threesome in the same bed. I can’t fully express here and now what I’m feeling about myself, my wife, and our new relationship with each other. But I will say that I think the word “faithfulness” has meanings that I am only now discovering. AJ
Words of wisdom, gentle men