I have always found a common element in all my M2M dalliances has been humour and good natured interaction between men. It’s the sex that is the most important to us, the getting off, the acceptance of each other’s overriding drive to do what it takes to satisfy. We laugh and lose inhibition as no cum face is too silly and no dirty talk to trite. It’s all tolerated in the other dude as he does in us. Women are far more complex about sex. It’s emotional and coded and political and diplomatic and tender and restrained and wooing and teasing and altogether more shifting in its meaning, nuance and outcome. BoB
