You can love as many people as you want – that does not mean one day you will go bankrupt, and you will have to declare, ‘Now I have no love.’ You cannot go bankrupt as far as love is concerned.” – Osho
This perspective is empowering—it encourages embracing love freely and generously, without fear of depletion. In a community that celebrates open-heartedness and authentic expression, this message reinforces the idea that sharing love, in all its forms, enriches both the giver and the receiver.
I completely agree. And I’m almost in my 80s. I don’t think total promiscuity and commitment to one or two or three or four long term relationships are mutually exclusive opposites. I love tulips and I love pine trees. Why can’t I have both in my garden? In any case, men are too sexy to beautiful to mortal to be allowed to just sit at home masturbating. I want all those cocks in my mouth or up my arse, if not today, then tomorrow. Gents, carpe fucking diem!
thank you gentlemen
Now in my 50s, I no longer want to be tied to a committed relationship. When younger, I bought into the romantic notion of finding a soulmate and spending the rest of our lives together. I have been in two long-term relationships, each lasting over 10 years and supposedly monogamous. However, if ogling other men, looking at pornography and regularly masturbating are classed as cheating, I was a serial cheater! To be honest, I need to admit to being sucked and fucked by a few guys during those periods too. Now I want to remain single and enjoy the freedom of visiting gay bars and cruising sites, hooking up with guys over apps, and having guilt-free sex with whomever I choose. Commitment and monogamy might make biological sense in the heterosexual world (at least until the kids are grown), but not in my homosexual world of plentiful and gorgeous men.
Hugh, I completely agree with you..Freedom to have casual sex and meet different men is a treat..