Liberating Freedom

I’m 62 years old, and I’ve been embracing bisexual eros since my early 20s. I’m in a long-term 35-year relationship with a woman — we’re not married but our close friendship feels like we might as well be. Women were my first love. Decades ago, I realized there was more for me to discover when I attended a swingers party where the sight of other naked men thrilled me with a feeling of liberating freedom. The possibility that I could love women and appreciate men too felt like a spark of sexual awakening and was confusing and delightful at the same time. Since then, I’ve explored with other like-minded men and bi MMF threesomes with deep delight. I discovered there’s something about fully making out with another man in the presence of an enthusiastic woman — it’s the blend of male and female sexuality, the deep honesty and authenticity, that makes me feel happy to be alive. For me, this particular erotic experience is something even sacred, bordering on the vast realm of spirituality. I’m a better man for my embrace of my bisexuality –a better lover of women, a better spiritual practitioner, a better human being. Bisexual married men, my heart goes out to you! You’re not alone. – Bi Bliss

Thank you, Bi Bliss. I understand completely because I have lived a similar life of eros. At 67, I have no regrets. I remember vividly my first bi MMF experience with a young woman I was dating and an older gentleman who I was sexually active with. She was turned on beyond belief watching us men together. I was afraid that she might thing less of me as I took his beautiful penis into my mouth, but her reaction was the opposite and she held me in a higher sexual and erotic regard. Likewise I worried that I might feel jealous seeing her with another man, but it was exceedingly erotic watching her yield to my bi lover. There have been other MMF experiences through the years and I am always thankful that I explored and embraced my bisexuality. – Joseph