No need to stay faithful to a guy who won’t make you feel fulfilled. Plenty of men out there I’m sure who’d love to at least TRY to do that. A bodybuilder type years ago caught my eye – on our first encounters it was nice, cuz his muscularity was a turn-on for me. But after a few months he became more and more reluctant to give me head – which is what I craved then. He got to be almost strictly a rear delivery guy, with me lying flat on my chest with nothing to look at but the pillow. Then I found out he’d been with lots of women in the past. One thing led to another and we ended whatever it was we had. Don’t know how long you’ve been married – and time CAN be an important factor – but since you two have at least begun to talk about splitting, it might be time to do more than talking about it.